I want to be asexual?

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    Jan 02, 2014 9:02 AM GMT
    I hope my joke thread about the badness of the gay community that's never gonna get fixed is forgiven, and i'm sorry...but anyways wouldn't being asexual be great cause you don't have to worry about sex or romance icon_biggrin.gif If they are inventing things to alternate sexual orientations is there anything that can make someone asexual?
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    Jan 02, 2014 1:05 PM GMT
    I'm halfway there. It's boring.
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    Jan 02, 2014 4:48 PM GMT
    You can always try chicks bro.

    If that's not your thing just learn to respect and love yourself -- then you'll attract or demand better guys for yourself. Love you like XO -- sorry a song lyric was stuck in my head.
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    Jan 02, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    Like John Spotter is mentioning it above , i also am halfway there ,as i am not looking for sex with someone else , masturbation is a great way to satisfy myself ..lol..
    But to me , it is not boring , i have great mates and lots of bromance and that plenty enough for me .
    Nowdays , sex is at the bottom of my list after friendship and family ..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 02, 2014 7:32 PM GMT
    I rather doubt if one can really be asexual.

    Abstinence or celibacy is something different. I'm celibate in that I don't have sex with guys but I jack off regularly.
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    Jan 02, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    After getting so much hurt from my last relationship, i wish i were asexual.
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    Jan 03, 2014 1:35 AM GMT
    Armiger saidI hope my joke thread about the badness of the gay community that's never gonna get fixed is forgiven, and i'm sorry...but anyways wouldn't being asexual be great cause you don't have to worry about sex or romance icon_biggrin.gif If they are inventing things to alternate sexual orientations is there anything that can make someone asexual?

    Castration.
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    Jan 03, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
    Armiger saidI hope my joke thread about the badness of the gay community that's never gonna get fixed is forgiven, and i'm sorry...but anyways wouldn't being asexual be great cause you don't have to worry about sex or romance icon_biggrin.gif If they are inventing things to alternate sexual orientations is there anything that can make someone asexual?


    Romance would be still there icon_exclaim.gif with all that stuff... and probably sex. It's just you wouldn't enjoy it if you were asexual silly
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    Jan 03, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    EternalOp said
    Lumpyoatmeal said

    What if one gives up masturbation?

    Honey, you better use it or lose it!
    Either get a BF, or keep your pipes clean at least 3 times a week or risk it becoming faulty equipment.
    I'm happy to be in good working order! Why would you let your stuff to atrophy like an old man?
    It's similar to the rest of the muscles in our body...icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 03, 2014 2:12 AM GMT
    I don't believe there really is such a thing as being asexual.
    Usually when someone is "asexual" it stems from being horrified by whatever his sexual impulses would be if he dared to express them. it can be gayness, though not necessarily: it might be an attraction to a family member, or to children, or something else that disgusts him. All of this on an unconscious level, though.
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    Jan 03, 2014 3:25 AM GMT
    EternalOp said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidI rather doubt if one can really be asexual.

    Abstinence or celibacy is something different. I'm celibate in that I don't have sex with guys but I jack off regularly.

    What if one gives up masturbation?

    I suppose you could call that complete abstinence or celibacy. But I agree with TheGuyNextDoor; there's no point unless you're a monk or something like that.

    I wonder what the Catholic church says about priests, who are celibate, spanking the monkey? The bible is against masturbation but the Catholic church has loosened its interpretation of it. I'm wondering if the Catholic church considers celibacy to be complete celibacy or just not having sex with another person.
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    Jan 03, 2014 3:37 AM GMT
    +1, exactly, and not to mention some people think sex is dirty and unholy or whatever! I mean come on, sex is just a natural thing. I would think it's odd if you're a grown gay man and don't want sex (have no urges)!! That's weird to me!!



    Aristoshark saidI don't believe there really is such a thing as being asexual.
    Usually when someone is "asexual" it stems from being horrified by whatever his sexual impulses would be if he dared to express them. it can be gayness, though not necessarily: it might be an attraction to a family member, or to children, or something else that disgusts him. All of this on an unconscious level, though.