DUMB QUESTION: Is there is an unspoken rule...

  • Eli_jah

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    Jan 03, 2014 4:48 AM GMT
    that you can't hit on really hot guys? Why do I feel like there is? Why do I want to break it? icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 03, 2014 4:57 AM GMT
    There are unspoken rules. But, we do not speak of them.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:04 AM GMT
    You'll never know till ya try. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:06 AM GMT
    xrichx saidYou'll never know till ya try. icon_wink.gif

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    Jan 03, 2014 5:09 AM GMT
    If there is such an unspoken rule, then you should definitely break it whenever possible. Think of it as helping out the really hot guys: they never get hit on because the unspoken rule.
  • Eli_jah

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    Jan 03, 2014 5:28 AM GMT
    mnrunnerguy saidIf there is such an unspoken rule, then you should definitely break it whenever possible. Think of it as helping out the really hot guys: they never get hit on because the unspoken rule.


    My thoughts exactly.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    xrichx saidYou'll never know till ya try. icon_wink.gif

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    Oh my God, Ben Cohen *drools*
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:38 AM GMT
    I hit on any guy that I find attractive and who I know is single. The worst they can do is reject you. But I have never understood "pick up lines". Why are they even necessary? I just say hi to the guy and if he is interested, it will be obvious.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:43 AM GMT
    Dopeamine saidthat you can't hit on really hot guys?

    Hit on anyone you like, but keep this in mind: Really hot guys -

    - Get hit on all the time. Be sure you know how to manage it, 'cause he's heard it all before.
    - Hot single guys are more rare than unhot single guys. Expect him to be taken, but try anyway.
    - Never underestimate yourself. You may not be as hot as he is, but he could see something in you he likes. It's his call, not yours.

    Thomas Edison said that invention is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Gay cruising responses are 1% positive and 99% negative. When you understand that ratio you won't be easily discouraged, and realize you have to cast a wide net, and often, to find a catch.

    And don't disqualify yourself from the hot guys. The worst he can say is no, and in this business expect to hear a lot of it.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:48 AM GMT
    Speak not of things best left unspoken and bespoke.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:51 AM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    Dopeamine saidthat you can't hit on really hot guys?

    Hit on anyone you like, but keep this in mind: Really hot guys -

    - Get hit on all the time. Be sure you know how to manage it, 'cause he's heard it all before.
    - Hot single guys are more rare than unhot single guys. Expect him to be taken, but try anyway.
    - Never underestimate yourself. You may not be as hot as he is, but he could see something in you he likes. It's his call, not yours.

    Thomas Edison said that invention is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Gay cruising responses are 1% positive and 99% negative. When you understand that ratio you won't be easily discouraged, and realize you have to cast a wide net, and often, to find a catch.

    And don't disqualify yourself from the hot guys. The worst he can say is no, and in this business expect to hear a lot of it.


    Also, never be afraid of guilting him into the "mercy fuck". And, sometimes the "treasures" like being treated like "trash". BDSM is a great way to find this out.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:52 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    ART_DECO said
    Dopeamine saidthat you can't hit on really hot guys?

    Hit on anyone you like, but keep this in mind: Really hot guys -

    - Get hit on all the time. Be sure you know how to manage it, 'cause he's heard it all before.
    - Hot single guys are more rare than unhot single guys. Expect him to be taken, but try anyway.
    - Never underestimate yourself. You may not be as hot as he is, but he could see something in you he likes. It's his call, not yours.

    Thomas Edison said that invention is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Gay cruising responses are 1% positive and 99% negative. When you understand that ratio you won't be easily discouraged, and realize you have to cast a wide net, and often, to find a catch.

    And don't disqualify yourself from the hot guys. The worst he can say is no, and in this business expect to hear a lot of it.


    Also, never be afraid of guilting him into the "mercy fuck". And, sometimes the "treasures" like being treated like "trash". BDSM is a great way to find this out.


    Mercy fuck? Maybe I am just too egotistical but I wouldn't want a guy to have sex with me out of pity. Ever.
  • killercliche

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    Jan 03, 2014 6:20 AM GMT
    I don't think it's a rule, but a biproduct of a society where everyone is trying to take everyone else down a peg.

    So go hit on whoever you like and ignore the glares of everyone else thinking "who does he think he is?", dying of envy.
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    Jan 03, 2014 6:24 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen said
    GAMRican said...
    Also, never be afraid of guilting him into the "mercy fuck". And, sometimes the "treasures" like being treated like "trash". BDSM is a great way to find this out.


    Mercy fuck? Maybe I am just too egotistical but I wouldn't want a guy to have sex with me out of pity. Ever.


    Nobody would have to have pity sex with you. You're too good looking and young.

    But me, I'm 48 and don't have much time left. This might be my very last day on earth. I could be dead by tomorrow. Hurry! Get on a plane! I'll pick you up at SFO! Just think, you might be the very last human contact I have ever. You could make a difference in this old man's life. You must be quick! Don't walk, RUN! Get in the car and go to the airport now!

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    You wouldn't want an old, dying man's last and final wish to go unfulfilled would you? You don't want that weighing upon your soul for the rest of your life, would you? I can help you with that burden. It's only my last and final wish.
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    Jan 03, 2014 6:42 AM GMT
    No, there's no such rule! You should hit on guys that you find cute/attractive and attractive is different to everyone. Worse thing he can do is acting like a mean girl! Then would you want to be with a pretty yet mean guy anyway?
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    Jan 03, 2014 6:48 AM GMT
    "Hitting on" online is a completely different ball game than actual in person hitting on. That dude who didn't care to invest too much time into his photos is 10x hotter in person and happens to have a killer confident personality, and that dude with gorgeous pics happens to be photogenic, not that great looking, shy and kind of boring. Who the "hot guy" is can change immediately.
  • Eli_jah

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    Jan 03, 2014 6:50 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Avsigkommen said
    GAMRican said...
    Also, never be afraid of guilting him into the "mercy fuck". And, sometimes the "treasures" like being treated like "trash". BDSM is a great way to find this out.


    Mercy fuck? Maybe I am just too egotistical but I wouldn't want a guy to have sex with me out of pity. Ever.


    Nobody would have to have pity sex with you. You're too good looking and young.

    But me, I'm 48 and don't have much time left. This might be my very last day on earth. I could be dead by tomorrow. Hurry! Get on a plane! I'll pick you up at SFO! Just think, you might be the very last human contact I have ever. You could make a difference in this old man's life. You must be quick! Don't walk, RUN! Get in the car and go to the airport now!

    20130213-094310.jpg

    You wouldn't want an old, dying man's last and final wish to go unfulfilled would you? You don't want that weighing upon your soul for the rest of your life, would you? I can help you with that burden. It's only my last and final wish.


    *dead*
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    Jan 03, 2014 6:57 AM GMT
    +1, love this post from Matiz, exactly! Some guys use fake older photos and mis-represented themselves online! I've been on enough bad dates from online to know this! Lol some guys look 10X better in person/real life but not photogenic at all! icon_cool.gif

    Matiz said"Hitting on" online is a completely different ball game than actual in person hitting on. That dude who didn't care to invest too much time into his photos is 10x hotter in person and happens to have a killer confident personality, and that dude with gorgeous pics happens to be photogenic, not that great looking, shy and kind of boring. Who the "hot guy" is can change immediately.
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    Jan 03, 2014 9:13 PM GMT
    It depends.
    If you're an average looking guy with no game and you go over to the handsomest guy in the bar and say, "Wanna get some of *this* big boy?" ... then you're a jerk.
    On the other hand, if a guy actually has something clever to say, he should be able to flirt with anyone he's attracted to without feeling out of his league.
    At least that's what I tell myself. icon_wink.gif