Best cities for Gay Blacks to Date

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    Jan 03, 2014 10:41 AM GMT
    This isn't meant to start any race arguments, if any of you get into one it's all on you, but I just want some cities that maybe good for a young, gay, black to try dating (no race preference) muscular, ripped, average, or beefy are preferred.

    (I might as well try to go with my homosexuality since I can't be asexual)
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:16 PM GMT
    As much as everyone whines about not being able to find anyone acceptable to date, my guess is that no city is available for anyone to ever find anyone to date, ever, regardless of race.
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    Jan 03, 2014 5:39 PM GMT
    Wilton Manors FL
  • lgg5819

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    Jan 03, 2014 7:32 PM GMT
    Atlanta, Miami, NYC, SF. Probably any gay city at all. But those are the ones I'd say would have the highest pool to choose from.
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    Jan 03, 2014 11:46 PM GMT
    Cape Town
  • roadbikeRob

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    Jan 04, 2014 6:21 PM GMT
    Washington DCicon_question.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    NJDewd saidWilton Manors FL


    Really??? icon_confused.gif

    Lived here since 92... Don't see it ...maybe it's me..icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:38 PM GMT
    YourName2000 saidI'm gonna say VANCOUVER!

    I'm pretty sure the one gay black dude in town has a full dance card and could use some help keeping up with demand. icon_biggrin.gif


    Tell him to call me.. He's probably my cousin.. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:58 PM GMT
    I heard DC and Atlanta have lots of black guys.
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Jan 09, 2014 12:25 AM GMT
    Washington DC def.I live right next to D.C and i go to gay clubs and i see tons of black guys.More for me i guess? icon_smile.gif
  • Nhlakz

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    Jan 16, 2014 10:48 AM GMT
    capetown
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    Jan 17, 2014 5:49 AM GMT
    Intensity69 saidAny anywhere in Brazil, Buenos Aires, Sydney, Berlin, Barcelona, London, and Stockholm.



    LOL!! Nigga you cray cray!!!

  • Jan 17, 2014 1:43 PM GMT
    In order from highest concentration to lowest concentration of the black gay/bi male population:

    1) Atlanta
    2) Washington DC
    3) New York
    4) Chicago
    5) Philadelphia
    6) Detroit
    7) Houston
    icon_cool.gif Miami
    9) Baltimore
    10) Dallas-Fort Worth

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    Jan 17, 2014 2:49 PM GMT
    Let your larger life goals, not your libido, direct you to where you need to be in life. If you do that, wherever you settle, the dating and the partnerships will follow.

    I hear P90X and T25 sell everywhere around the globe these days. So no locale has beefier, more muscular, more ripped, more "average" (whatever that is, to you) openly gay males than any other locale of similar size, geography, geology, climate, politics, economy, and density. Some places might have more gay males... period.

    You're not trying to market a gay-friendly gym concept. You're hoping to market yourself. Strive to enhance who you are to increase your pool of suitors. Improve the demand for your product, and the supply will take care of itself.

    Life isn't a Maurice Sendak book. Don't wind up wasting years of your life forgoing things that truly matter in desperate pursuit of some imaginary island, just because some dude on Teh Internets told you Where The Beefy Guys Are.

    Put down the tape measures for random citizenry, and instead use practical criteria (education, climate, economy, housing, political atmosphere, income, arts and entertainment options, etc.) to evaluate and determine where you truly, personally, wish to go. Wherever that is, your dates are waiting for you there.
  • BlackCoach

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    Nov 22, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    Atlanta and DC
  • christastic

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    Nov 22, 2014 9:08 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    YourName2000 saidI'm gonna say VANCOUVER!

    I'm pretty sure the one gay black dude in town has a full dance card and could use some help keeping up with demand. icon_biggrin.gif


    Tell him to call me.. He's probably my cousin.. icon_biggrin.gif


    LOL that's so true. There are literally no blacks in Vancouver, let alone gay ones
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    Nov 22, 2014 9:22 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidAs much as everyone whines about not being able to find anyone acceptable to date, my guess is that no city is available for anyone to ever find anyone to date, ever, regardless of race.


    +1
  • Robert28ct

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    Nov 28, 2014 3:55 PM GMT
    SOWETO!
  • BlackDapper

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    Dec 02, 2014 3:38 AM GMT
    Armiger saidThis isn't meant to start any race arguments, if any of you get into one it's all on you, but I just want some cities that maybe good for a young, gay, black to try dating (no race preference) muscular, ripped, average, or beefy are preferred.

    (I might as well try to go with my homosexuality since I can't be asexual)


    Me: Decent looking black man that's well-traveled and only attracted to black men. So I know what I'm talking about in other words.

    Best places to find your Black Mr. Right:

    1) Atlanta
    2) D.C. (DMV area)
    3) N.Y.C.
    4) Dallas/Houston/L.A. tied



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  • marcussollice

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    Dec 13, 2014 8:03 AM GMT
    You'd love Cape Town. My boyfriend used to drop me off at work all the time. No one cares about your business.
  • Jav1993

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    Dec 13, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    You're listing places where theres lots of black guys, but not saying where people like black guys. I'm from atlanta and you will still see people say "I'm only into white guys"...even the black guys
  • BlackDapper

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    Dec 18, 2014 3:03 AM GMT
    Jav1993 saidYou're listing places where theres lots of black guys, but not saying where people like black guys. I'm from atlanta and you will still see people say "I'm only into white guys"...even the black guys


    That's an anomaly ... black gay men move to Atlanta to increase their options of romantic or plutonic relationships with other black gay men. The small few black gay men exclusively into white men move to more traditional white gay meccas like S.F., Seattle, NYC, West Hollywood ... not Atlanta - the black gay mecca.