Tall/short guy conundrum

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    Jan 03, 2014 3:43 PM GMT
    I'm a tall guy who has a strong preference for other tall guys, but find that when I get interest it's usually from short dudes, and other tall guys aren't as interested. Has anyone else noticed this? Is it a top/bottom role assumption (I'm more bottom)? It's an interesting trend.

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  • Eli_jah

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    Jan 03, 2014 8:11 PM GMT
    Are you kidding me? Get that short guy dick!

    I swear, some of you guys are picky beyond belief. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 03, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    Maybe it's because the tall guys you're meeting prefer guys way shorter than themselves.
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    Jan 03, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    YourName2000 saidGet used to it. More tops like bottoms who are shorter than themselves. As a 6'4" bottom, I can attest it's true. But yeah, if you can find a guy close to your height who rocks your ass like a Fender guitar, you should get over your height fixation right quick. I suspect you're partially buying into a hetero-normative idea that you should be shorter than the man who tops you (and I'll agree that it's a lot easier to make out during fucking when the top is taller), but there are plenty of shorter "penetrators" mounting taller "receivers" of both genders, so you can get over it....it's not a "rule".


    And as a 5'5 bottom, I can attest to this being true also!!!icon_biggrin.gif
  • ja89

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    Jan 29, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
    I love tall men. Not to say shorter guys don't grab my attention from time to time, I'd just prefer to have giant icon_wink.gif I like to be little spoon.

    I never got the whole shorter is supposed to be the bottom rule. Make it work anyway you can.
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    Jan 29, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    In classic terms the tall guy would be the top and the shorter the bottom, at least that's how I picture the perfect couple in my mind.
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    Jan 29, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    David3000 saidIn classic terms the tall guy would be the top and the shorter the bottom, at least that's how I picture the perfect couple in my mind.


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    Feb 09, 2014 3:44 AM GMT
    I prefer taller guys who could throw me over their shoulders...hahaha
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    Feb 09, 2014 3:54 AM GMT
    I'm 6' and just started courting a guy here who's 5'6".
    My favorite hieght!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 09, 2014 3:58 AM GMT
    I think your dealing a lot with resource. Do a search by height on some of the sites and there seem to be a lot more guys under 5'9" then those 6' and over
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    Feb 09, 2014 5:04 PM GMT
    I'd say I'm neither tall or short - I'm around 5'11''. In the past tho, I've found myself more attracted to guys shorter than me and wide/built. But my ex was a tad taller. I guess I'm not as picky as I thought (at least in the height department).
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    Feb 09, 2014 6:35 PM GMT
    I'm 6"6, so I don't have much of a choice but to date people shorter than me. However, I prefer it that way because it creates me a balance. A friend said my size and height makes me the perfect cuddle buddy. icon_smile.gif
  • Timbales

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    Feb 09, 2014 6:38 PM GMT
    I thought tall guys dated each other to double their wardrobes.
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    Feb 09, 2014 6:45 PM GMT
    hellass saidI'd say I'm neither tall or short - I'm around 5'11''. In the past tho, I've found myself more attracted to guys shorter than me and wide/built. But my ex was a tad taller. I guess I'm not as picky as I thought (at least in the height department).


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    Feb 09, 2014 6:59 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    hellass saidI'd say I'm neither tall or short - I'm around 5'11''. In the past tho, I've found myself more attracted to guys shorter than me and wide/built. But my ex was a tad taller. I guess I'm not as picky as I thought (at least in the height department).


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