Jan 04, 2014 6:47 AM GMT
So I met this guy on Jack'd and we've been going out for about 6 weeks, at least once a week and sometimes twice a week. Everything clicks, he seems really nice and caring and I was really attracted to his personality. I made sure I wasn't clingy and give him space and time. After a month, I noticed that he put less effort into texting me but instead he always call at least once a day and have a quick chat. I am okay with that. I was off jacked since the second time i met him and was off it for a month and when he started putting less effort in ( assuming that honeymoon period is over) I go back on just to see if he's on. Clearly he was on Jack'd, I am not mad or anything since we are not committed to each other (yet) but it does take a toll on me since I get more paranoid everytime he doesn't reply my text. I keep feeling that he's talking to other guys , or meeting up with other guys and doing etc... which triggered my defense mechanism, i started going back on jack'd talking to guys, and going on dates. I feel wrong and guilty that i'm doing that but at the same time it does make me feels better when i'm with him cuz i feel like i'm just doing what's he is doing. How do you think i should approach this problem? I am thinking of giving him 2 more weeks then I would do the "talk" with him. Is it too soon? I've never had a bf before so these stuffs are so new to me. Thanks for reading.