a date with soon to be married guy.

  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 04, 2014 11:01 AM GMT
    So there's this guy at my workplace who I think is very cute. I am strictly confidential about my sexuality at work,and he's not clearly gay. The guy and talk over the work phone every day and do so pretty much throughout each work day, sometimes work topics, but more so just goofing around. He is a naturally nice guy, but I do think he likes to talk to me at least a little more than other people in the office.last week he came to my station and invited out to the water park. a bunch of his friends were there too and he spent the majority of the time talking and playing water games with me . He also tired to seat behind me in the water slide, and pretty much in all the games we played. I mean I could really feel he was trying get too close physically, touching touching my hands and tipping on my shoulders the entire time. I really like him, but I don't want to make a fool of myself, given that he recently announced his engagement, and he's scheduled to get married sometimes this year. Any thoughts as to if he's interested in me and, what should i do?

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    Jan 04, 2014 11:06 AM GMT
    Yes he is interested in you, and you should do nothing.
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    Jan 04, 2014 11:18 AM GMT
    Congratulate him on his engagement and that's all you should do.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 04, 2014 11:29 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidCongratulate him on his engagement and that's all you should do.


    Yes, I did that with a best wishes wedding card and and expensive watches set as a gift.
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    Jan 04, 2014 11:32 AM GMT
    Are you going to be his "best man" or equivalent?

    Personally I've found being the best man, drunk after the Bachelor party, in our hotel room hot tub, the best time and place to confess my undying love.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 04, 2014 11:38 AM GMT
    Ohno saidYes he is interested in you, and you should do nothing.


    but what about the poor girl he's about to tie the knot with?
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    Jan 04, 2014 11:41 AM GMT
    RainBow_Dragon2000 said
    Ohno saidYes he is interested in you, and you should do nothing.


    but what about the poor girl he's about to tie the knot with?


    What about her? Ohno said you should do nothing and you need to follow this. Let them be! What they do with their lives is none of your business.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 04, 2014 11:44 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    RainBow_Dragon2000 said
    Ohno saidYes he is interested in you, and you should do nothing.


    but what about the poor girl he's about to tie the knot with?


    What about her? Ohno said you should do nothing and you need to follow this. Let them be! What they do with their lives is none of your business.

    oops read that wrong. my bad
  • kiwi_nomad

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    Jan 04, 2014 1:41 PM GMT
    maybe it's just a bromance and that he's a really good friend and is more fond of you as a friend over his other friends. Often that happens in the 'honeymoon' period of a new friendship I've found. I think you would need to find out for sure (ie words from his own mouth confirming it) before you even think about acting on anything. I imagine not only would it be embarrassing for you if he does end up being completely straight, but I imagine where you are it could even be troublesome as far as the law is concerned!
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    Jan 04, 2014 4:49 PM GMT
    I think that you are reading too much into this. Some guys are just naturally affectionate - he likely just wants to be your friend. He may have been spending extra time with you at the water park if his friends knew each other and you were the 'new guy', so that you wouldn't feel out of place.

    If you hit on him, I guarantee that he will backpedal, especially if he's engaged. Enjoy his company on a platonic level and everything will be swell. icon_smile.gif
  • Apparition

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    Jan 04, 2014 5:09 PM GMT
    There are a billion unmarried men in the world...find your own.
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    Jan 04, 2014 5:13 PM GMT
    Is there a private place at work where you can give him a blow job?
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    Jan 04, 2014 6:52 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidIs there a private place at work where you can give him a blow job?


    Trampoline
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    Jan 04, 2014 7:04 PM GMT
    Just fuck and get it over with.
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    Jan 04, 2014 7:06 PM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    unfounded7 saidIs there a private place at work where you can give him a blow job?
    Trampoline


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    Jan 04, 2014 7:08 PM GMT
    I knew this gif would come in handy again. icon_smile.gif

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    Jan 04, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    Ohno saidYes he is interested in you, and you should do nothing.

    This.
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    Jan 05, 2014 12:42 AM GMT
    Ridiculous question.
    Of course you should fuck him. And then text the fiancee telling her if he was good in bed or not. You owe her that information. What if she married him to find out he's a dud in the sack? She'll thank you for it.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 06, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    Some Of Y'all Need To Chill The Fuck Out. It's not like I'm fucking the guy.