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    Jan 05, 2014 4:46 AM GMT
    I always been in relationship with women. Never had a serious relationship with a guy. I get the impression for a relationship to work between two men. They must have an open relationship is that the case?
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    Jan 05, 2014 4:49 AM GMT
    I'm not sure why you would think that. I've been in relationships with both women and men, I think the only real difference is the sense of understanding you have with someone who is your same sex, but other than that there's nothing different relationship wise IMHO.
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    Jan 05, 2014 4:54 AM GMT
    Exeter76 saidI get the impression for a relationship to work between two men. They must have an open relationship is that the case?


    Not true..

    Every kind of relationship that exists in the hetero world also exists in the gay world.

    Find a guy with similar values..and stay away from men like me.
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    Jan 05, 2014 4:56 AM GMT
    Point taken, new to this basically. Don't know what to expect on this side of the fence.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:01 AM GMT
    Exeter76 saidPoint taken, new to this basically. Don't know what to expect on this side of the fence.


    .. I hear ya..

    There are tons of amazing guys out there..
    .. Just be careful on the hunt.. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:04 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Anocxu said[/cite]
    Exeter76 saidPoint taken, new to this basically. Don't know what to expect on this side of the fence.


    .. I hear ya..

    There are tons of amazing guys out there..
    .. Just be careful on the hunt.. icon_wink.gif[/Thanks man I hope I find the right one
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:05 AM GMT
    Exeter76 saidI always been in relationship with women. Never had a serious relationship with a guy. I get the impression for a relationship to work between two men. They must have an open relationship is that the case?


    No, not every gay guy wants an open relationship, but some do. It depends on what you want and then finding a guy that shares similar values.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:07 AM GMT
    True I don't believe in sharing partner, guess I'm Ol fashion.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:11 AM GMT
    Gays are merely more open to the idea of an open relationship since child rearing is not our main objective. That said, I'd say there are more that are in a monogamous relationship vs. an open one.
    I think a lot has to do with how the two of you were raised and what example perhaps your parents set for you.
    I'm happiest in a closed relationship with only one man at a time.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:13 AM GMT
    Sounds like a dream come true
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:14 AM GMT
    Jaggal said
    Exeter76 saidTrue I don't believe in sharing partner, guess I'm Ol fashion.


    You'd be surprised at how many gay men are conservative, and "old fashioned". I am the same, I don't like open relationships. What's your sexual orientation if I may ask?
    Gay now
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:16 AM GMT
    Exeter76 said
    Gay now


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    What about next week?.. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:18 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Anocxu said[/cite]
    Exeter76 said
    Gay now


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    What about next week?.. icon_razz.gif[/ lol....I will cross that bridge then. But more attracted to men. Women really don't do it for me anymore
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:43 AM GMT
    Amen ...
    Don't trust anything that bleeds for three days and doesn't die.. icon_eek.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:46 AM GMT
    Anocxu said
    Find a guy with similar values..and stay away from men like me dirty whores.

    Fixed.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:51 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Adozark said[/cite]I'm not sure why you would think that. I've been in relationships with both women and men, I think the only real difference is the sense of understanding you have with someone who is your same sex, but other than that there's nothing different relationship wise IMHO. [/True, but some of the guys I meet are in relationship. And they quick to say they have a BF and he must never know. Because some can pull it off by saying they want to be committed but still cheats. One of my pet peeves, I don't hookup with partnered guys.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:53 AM GMT
    No. I was blessed to of had two men in my life for 11 years. but have been with number one husband for over 20, and still never been in an open relationship.

    With my Russian man. it was death do us part, as it will be for my number one husband.

    But you don't have to have sex with someone to have a committed relationship, as it was with my Russian husband. But I know what it is to be truly loved.
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    Jan 05, 2014 7:16 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    Anocxu said
    Find a guy with similar values..and stay away from men like me dirty whores.

    Fixed.


    .. Whaaaaht?
    Dirty no...whore yes..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    Adozark saidI'm not sure why you would think that. I've been in relationships with both women and men, I think the only real difference is the sense of understanding you have with someone who is your same sex, but other than that there's nothing different relationship wise IMHO.


    Have been into relationship with both sexes ,i totally agree with you ..
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:51 PM GMT
    Exeter76 saidI always been in relationship with women. Never had a serious relationship with a guy. I get the impression for a relationship to work between two men. They must have an open relationship is that the case?


    If you continue believing in this stereotype no wonder gay men are very promiscuous, because you believe your boyfriend will see another man and that seems to be ok. Trust issues happen and the whole relationship falls apart because you did not communicate from the beginning. You don't choose who you fall in love with, if you believe in love that is. Communicate and state what you want before you dive into a relationship. There are many gay men who want to have a monogamous relationship. There are some gay men who want an open relationship and there are plenty who prefer to have a monogamous partner.
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    Jan 05, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    no