flirting on realjock

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    Jan 05, 2014 11:04 PM GMT
    i find it harder with out the chat thing, and i know alot of guy here lost interest in this site after it went away. so how do you flirt or pick up guys on realjock now. emails are cool but i check this site maybe once every 2 weeks kinda doesn't have the same appeal when you have to wait weeks to maybe get a response.
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    Jan 05, 2014 11:07 PM GMT
    lifesanadventure saidi find it harder with out the chat thing, and i know alot of guy here lost interest in this site after it went away. so how do you flirt or pick up guys on realjock now. emails are cool but i check this site maybe once every 2 weeks kinda doesn't have the same appeal when you have to wait weeks to maybe get a response.


    There is a chat thing?

    I send emails and chat that way. Lots of back and forth flirting emails.
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    Jan 05, 2014 11:12 PM GMT
    maybe its just me then...lmao that sucks
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    Jan 05, 2014 11:14 PM GMT
    A lot of guys lost interest in this site long before chat went away. icon_biggrin.gif

    If you want to flirt, make initial contact with a guy, and if he seems legit, use a messenger app to continue the conversation.. Whatsapp, Viber, Kik, Snapchat, etc.
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    Jan 06, 2014 12:56 AM GMT
    I do miss the chat, too... flirting was fun and spontaneous there. but ultimately, i joined RJ because it's inspiring looking at the hot bodies and motivated me to get my shit together at the gym! ;)
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    Jan 06, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
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    Jan 06, 2014 1:06 AM GMT
    lifesanadventure saidmaybe its just me then...lmao that sucks


    Maybe it's time to slut it up.. icon_idea.gif

    Follow my lead..

    Without IMs ..your only tool .. The Forums.

    Casually mention.. (Repeatedly) that you are lonely, Bored..and trapped in a room with nothing but a web cam.. and a bottle of chocolate syrup.. icon_eek.gif

    What to do.. what to do.what to do.. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 06, 2014 1:14 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidAnocxu, You gave the secret away!


    Not really.. I've moved on to Mayo.. icon_cool.gif

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    I did it again.. icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 06, 2014 1:17 AM GMT
    "have the same appeal when you have to wait weeks to maybe get a responsee."

    If you have to wait weeks to get a response, I m giving up, LOL!!
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:47 AM GMT
    I guess I don't have this problem since I will likely die before anyone from my area joins RJ, but on other sites in the past, if I have interest in meeting up with someone and there's only a private messaging feature like here, I exchange either my phone number, my Kik, or any similar real time app.
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:48 AM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidI guess I don't have this problem since I will likely die before anyone from my area joins RJ, but on other sites in the past, if I have interest in meeting up with someone and there's only a private messaging feature like here, I exchange either my phone number, my Kik, or any similar real time app.

    I don't imagine there'd be a lot of demand for that in any case.
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:53 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    Avsigkommen saidI guess I don't have this problem since I will likely die before anyone from my area joins RJ, but on other sites in the past, if I have interest in meeting up with someone and there's only a private messaging feature like here, I exchange either my phone number, my Kik, or any similar real time app.

    I don't imagine there'd be a lot of demand for that in any case.


    There's actually a lot of demand for a real time messaging system in place of an email-like system.. on most sites, at least.
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:53 AM GMT
    I almost never used the chat feature. I kept it shut off 99% of the time. It was exhausting all the chat requests I'd get while browsing the forums. Almost always from the pictureless and distant, as if they were bots.

    I still have this chestnut in my profile which none of these guys read which I suppose I really should delete now:

    "In person, verbal greetings benefit from body language, inflection and chemistry. Not so the written word. I typically got messages that just said "hi" or "hello." If someone can't take the time to say anything more I can only assume that they're phishing for responses, playing the numbers, sending out generic messages en masse in the hopes of reeling in an answer and camming. Even if I'm making a wrong assumption, if they can't take the time to say anything but "wassup?" without even an indication that they read my profile what kind of message are they really sending?"
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:54 AM GMT
    There was a chat feature?
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    Jan 06, 2014 2:55 AM GMT
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  • Montague

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    Jan 06, 2014 2:59 AM GMT
    You have to be direct, duh.

    Example:

    Somersault, get you ass on my face right now!
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    Jan 06, 2014 3:04 AM GMT
    Some will laugh but there's actually dating aspect to this site for those of us who live in/ near large cities. It's happened to me before, got a couple of dates with some pretty solid down to earth RJer's.

    Though as in RL I'm somewhat oblivious to flirting unless it's really obvious and think people are just being nice and vice versa. icon_neutral.gif
  • Adozark

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    Jan 06, 2014 3:20 AM GMT
    Erobert said

    Though as in RL I'm somewhat oblivious to flirting unless it's really obvious and think people are just being nice and vice versa. icon_neutral.gif


    That's me all the way. I've taken kindness as flirting a couple times and it was a let down, so now I just suppose they're being nice and no one tells me till way later that they where flirting.

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    Jan 06, 2014 3:23 AM GMT
    somersault saidlimerence.gif


    He's such a tease to the RJ community.
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    Jan 06, 2014 3:26 AM GMT
    Connect on skype
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    Jan 06, 2014 3:29 AM GMT
    shawnathan saidThere was a chat feature?


    Not on this site, no.
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    Jan 06, 2014 3:34 AM GMT
    Actually, if it hadn't been for the RJ chatroom, we never would have started video chatting, which eventually lead to the google hangouts and an RJ holiday in NYC. So I'm thankful for the RJ chatroom in a way.
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    Jan 06, 2014 4:33 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    shawnathan saidThere was a chat feature?


    Not on this site, no.


    I like this. If you're too much of a newb to know the goings on of the site at a previous times then us old timers have a sworn duty to mislead them as much as possible about it icon_idea.gif
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    Jan 06, 2014 4:34 AM GMT
    I miss when RJ used to raffle off cosmetic surgery. That eye job I won did wonders for my pic comment volume.
  • rac727

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    Jan 06, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    Lol realjock has slowed down a bit since the chat rooms were shut down icon_rolleyes.gif