SPIT or SWALLOW?

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    Dec 13, 2008 5:29 AM GMT
    So who likes to eat cum? I for one love to play with it in my mouth a bit and then swallow it down! How does everyone else feel about this issue?
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    Dec 16, 2008 11:44 PM GMT
    After reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.
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    Dec 17, 2008 12:28 AM GMT
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


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    Dec 17, 2008 1:00 AM GMT
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


    How about if you're in a committed relationship with a person who is proven to be HIV negative? icon_twisted.gif

    Just being devil's advocate.

    That said, I have an aversion to semen. I like the smell, but the texture, the temperature, the snot-like consistency... A big no thank you from Dylan. icon_neutral.gif


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    Dec 17, 2008 11:46 AM GMT
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


    I think you should lighten up a little, and quit lecturing people, on their sexual habits, it surely will not help to educate about the risks of getting HIV/HEP C/Syphilis. All situations are different, and a lot of talk is about fantasy also.

    I for one like cum. Love kissing with my cum, and/or another guys. Also like to eat my own sometimes.
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    Dec 20, 2008 9:17 AM GMT
    Swallow. Sometimes I don't have a choice in the matter if they don't warn me or if they're like Niagra Falls lol
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    Dec 20, 2008 10:23 AM GMT
    My partner and I love to cum swap. It enhances the bonding taking place when making love. We also spread pre-cum on our lips at the start to enhance the bonding. I know, many will find this gross. And I certainly would never do this with a trick.
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    Dec 29, 2008 9:21 PM GMT
    bipolar saidMy partner and I love to cum swap. It enhances the bonding taking place when making love. We also spread pre-cum on our lips at the start to enhance the bonding. I know, many will find this gross. And I certainly would never do this with a trick.


    I like to kiss with cum to.
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    Dec 29, 2008 9:35 PM GMT
    rezdylan said
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


    How about if you're in a committed relationship with a person who is proven to be HIV negative? icon_twisted.gif

    Just being devil's advocate.

    That said, I have an aversion to semen. I like the smell, but the texture, the temperature, the snot-like consistency... A big no thank you from Dylan. icon_neutral.gif




    Then it is safe. I think you used an important word though, committed. If your partner and yourself don't stray then you are fine.
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    Dec 29, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    Koaa2 said
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


    I think you should lighten up a little, and quit lecturing people, on their sexual habits, it surely will not help to educate about the risks of getting HIV/HEP C/Syphilis. All situations are different, and a lot of talk is about fantasy also.

    I for one like cum. Love kissing with my cum, and/or another guys. Also like to eat my own sometimes.


    Nah, I don't think I will quit "lecturing", after all I am paying the price for getting infected semen into my system through oral sex. And most guys are not talking about fantasy but about what they are really doing. Maybe you know what the safer sex parameters are, but a lot of guys don't, even in this day and age. It is amazing the number of younger guys that have said to me "that is a risk?" as if it was a total surprise.

    Swallowing cum is fine as long as you know what the guys HIV status is, but until you do, there is no way it should be condoned.
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    Dec 30, 2008 12:57 PM GMT
    SurrealLife said
    Koaa2 said
    SurrealLife saidAfter reading forum topics about getting infected with HIV I cannot believe people are posting this topic, but I am no longer surprised by the ignorance of gay men when it comes to safer sex.


    I think you should lighten up a little, and quit lecturing people, on their sexual habits, it surely will not help to educate about the risks of getting HIV/HEP C/Syphilis. All situations are different, and a lot of talk is about fantasy also.

    I for one like cum. Love kissing with my cum, and/or another guys. Also like to eat my own sometimes.


    Nah, I don't think I will quit "lecturing", after all I am paying the price for getting infected semen into my system through oral sex. And most guys are not talking about fantasy but about what they are really doing. Maybe you know what the safer sex parameters are, but a lot of guys don't, even in this day and age. It is amazing the number of younger guys that have said to me "that is a risk?" as if it was a total surprise.

    Swallowing cum is fine as long as you know what the guys HIV status is, but until you do, there is no way it should be condoned.


    I would have to ask, how many times, you will never know, you had heard that oral sex was potentially unsafe and you continued to do it. Apparently education with you did not work.

    Education is about giving people knowledge in the hopes that they will use it at some time by making appropriate decisions. I know exactly what safe sex is and use it accordingly. One does not have to be a nun and still have fun. Lecturing people, and degrading them for what they say and do, will be of no use. Giving information in a knowledgeable, interesting, fun manner will.
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    Dec 30, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    I practiced oral sex knowing very well the dangers (or lack of same according to the experts), a lack of education was not the issue. A guy never came into my mouth so I managed to minimize the risks. That being said I still got infected. I still don't know how or by whom.

    I am not lecturing people on sex, but when I see forum topics like this one I seriously wonder whether people know what they are doing out there. People can have all the sex they want as far as I am concerned, they are adults and are hopefully responsible. That being said they should at least be aware of the potential risks and decide whether they want to accept them or not.
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    Nov 28, 2009 8:10 AM GMT
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  • GoodPup

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    Nov 28, 2009 4:54 PM GMT
    Still haven't ever had it in my mouth.
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    Nov 29, 2009 12:17 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidPersonally I swallow then kiss..

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    Nov 29, 2009 2:51 PM GMT
    definitely swallow
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    Nov 29, 2009 5:58 PM GMT
    Swallow. But these days only my boyfriend.
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    Dec 01, 2009 6:56 PM GMT
    I never really swallowed before I was with my current partner. With him I do occasionally and we both enjoy it.
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    Dec 02, 2009 7:56 AM GMT
    There is a reason why Jesus said "If you are lukewarm I will spit you from my mouth."

    It's cuz Jesus sucked a dick.



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  • Dec 03, 2009 12:40 AM GMT
    I love cum...love to swallow. I love to have mine eaten too. It's so erotic to watch a hot bottom boy take your whole load down his throat!
  • mellowmuscle

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    Dec 04, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    I swallow but only a guy I am into. But then I wouldn't hook up with a guy I wasn't into!

    That said, I have a major thing for cum! It's hot!
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    Dec 08, 2009 12:38 PM GMT
    You can spit or swallow but gargling is just showing off.
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    Dec 08, 2009 1:56 PM GMT
    Swallow
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    Dec 10, 2009 8:26 PM GMT
    hmm... It pretty much depends on who i'm with, if its a hookup, prob spit..
    if it's a Bf prob swallow... really depends... nothing is ever in stone.
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    Jan 14, 2010 12:04 AM GMT
    My bf shoots 8 gallons of cum everytime he gets off. I was never into cum until we started dating. We are in a committed relationship, and I love swallowing.

    ......sometimes he doesn't give me an option! icon_razz.gif