Am I ugly?

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    Jan 10, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    I never get hit on
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:01 PM GMT
    You've got the cutest black face ever.
    Just get rid of that human.
    (Ha! I kid. You look cute for sure.)
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:05 PM GMT
    cj1111 saidI never get hit on


    lol, you're NOT UGLY!!!

    The opposite. icon_wink.gif

    Don't wait around for someone to hit on you, keep meeting new people. You know how I met Bill? I hit on him.

    Ta dah!
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    Edward89 said1zI7v1P.jpg


    Ah, Edward, in another topic he explains he comes from a family that has not been positive and he's been suffering through some low esteem and self doubts. icon_wink.gif

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    Jan 10, 2014 6:08 PM GMT
    You are not ugly.
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:08 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Edward89 said1zI7v1P.jpg


    Ah, Edward, in another topic he explains he comes from a family that has not been positive and he's been suffering through some low esteem and self doubts. icon_wink.gif




    Oh ok then. I just thought he was a troll


    My bad
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    meninlove said
    You know how I met Bill? I hit on him.



    Just kidding. icon_razz.gif


    Cool, and quoted; more grist for the mill the next time you get your manties in a knot over the mean things people say to you. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:11 PM GMT
    Edward89 said
    meninlove said
    Edward89 said1zI7v1P.jpg


    Ah, Edward, in another topic he explains he comes from a family that has not been positive and he's been suffering through some low esteem and self doubts. icon_wink.gif




    Oh ok then. I just thought he was a troll


    My bad
    Nah, not bad. Completely understandable given the vast amount of trolling and sock accounts on RJ.
    *warm hug*

    *grins at Troll and Sock Southbeach*
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:12 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Edward89 said
    meninlove said
    Edward89 said1zI7v1P.jpg


    Ah, Edward, in another topic he explains he comes from a family that has not been positive and he's been suffering through some low esteem and self doubts. icon_wink.gif




    Oh ok then. I just thought he was a troll


    My bad
    Nah, not bad. Completely understandable given the vast amount of trolling and sock accounts on RJ.
    *warm hug*

    *grins at Troll and Sock Southbeach*


    lol
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:13 PM GMT
    Not at all, you're actually quite nice looking.
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:16 PM GMT
    I finally had the guts to put photos up. But I have a friend who is "straight" and he seems to get checked out by guys and girls all the time including people telling him or telling me to tell him. But no one ever comes up to me or never do I notice people checking me out. Some days I feel like I'm decent looking, other days I feel un attractive. For some of my other friends it seems they don't have to try very hard to get offers from people
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:24 PM GMT
    Fucked up part about it is when people do say I'm handsome or good looking I always assume they are just being nice, or they have low standards. I appreciate y'all's honesty I'm really not fishing for compliments because they don't do anything for me, more so fishing for honest opinions because I can't gauge how I look in other peoples eyes. I just want to be more attractive or feel more attractive. My esteem has gotten better since i started taking vyvanse for my ADHD. I do feel more attractive, but just not enough...I have never had a real relationship and most people I meet online to attempt a meaningless hook up see my picture and say "no thanks"z
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:30 PM GMT

    "Fucked up part about it is when people do say I'm handsome or good looking I always assume they are just being nice, or they have low standards."

    At least you recognize this in yourself. You need to seriously (looks at you reaaaaaallll closely)understand that in some cases they are not just being nice nor do they have low standards.

    I have not been fake-nice, nor do I have low standards, and told you the truth. icon_wink.gif

    If you really and truly want us and others to examine why you're not getting hit on, how you behave and talk etc are more important than looks. It's how those looks are animated.

    Try making a vid, chatting us up, for example. You can see two of ours on our profile.
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:31 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidYou've got the cutest black face ever.
    Just get rid of that human.
    (Ha! I kid. You look cute for sure.)
    lmfao!!!! Wow...
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:33 PM GMT
    Edward89 saidOh ok then. I just thought he was a troll...

    Yeah - so did I. I had to take a quick look at the profile.
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:34 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    "Fucked up part about it is when people do say I'm handsome or good looking I always assume they are just being nice, or they have low standards."

    At least you recognize this in yourself. You need to seriously (looks at you reaaaaaallll closely)understand that in some cases they are not just being nice nor do they have low standards.

    I have not been fake-nice, nor do I have low standards, and told you the truth. icon_wink.gif

    If you really and truly want us and others to examine why you're not getting hit on, how you behave and talk etc are more important than looks. It's how those looks are animated.

    Try making a vid, chatting us up, for example. You can see two of ours on our profile.
    hmmm I might have some vids on YouTube or maybe I'll make one let me see
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    Jan 10, 2014 6:35 PM GMT
    cj1111 said
    meninlove said
    "Fucked up part about it is when people do say I'm handsome or good looking I always assume they are just being nice, or they have low standards."

    At least you recognize this in yourself. You need to seriously (looks at you reaaaaaallll closely)understand that in some cases they are not just being nice nor do they have low standards.

    I have not been fake-nice, nor do I have low standards, and told you the truth. icon_wink.gif

    If you really and truly want us and others to examine why you're not getting hit on, how you behave and talk etc are more important than looks. It's how those looks are animated.

    Try making a vid, chatting us up, for example. You can see two of ours on our profile.
    hmmm I might have some vids on YouTube or maybe I'll make one let me see


    There ya go! If two old goats like us can do it, you can too.icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 10, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
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    Jan 10, 2014 7:27 PM GMT
    Insecure, anyway.
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    Jan 10, 2014 7:34 PM GMT
    Matiz saidInsecure, anyway.
    i know right?
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    Jan 10, 2014 10:10 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidDon't hate yourself because you're beautiful.
    lol i wish I could hate myself for being beautiful lol
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    Jan 10, 2014 10:15 PM GMT
    You're very average looking. Plus being black doesn't really win you any points in the gay dating pool unless you happen to find a man that really likes black guys.

    You wanted an honest answer, right? icon_confused.gif * shrug*
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    Jan 10, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    (PR knocks jmuscm85 off the stage)

    Don't listen to the Mexican midget. You're ok looking.. Do your thing.
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    Jan 11, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidYou're very average looking. Plus being black doesn't really win you any points in the gay dating pool unless you happen to find a man that really likes black guys.

    You wanted an honest answer, right? icon_confused.gif * shrug*
    lol that's exactly what I thought! Lol. I feel very average looking like someone who blends in the background. The only positive attractive points I feel I have is my intelligence, sense of humor and my height. I'm pretty tall. Other than that I think you hit the nail on the coffin. Gay people are picky and usually black is one of those things that get denied.
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    Jan 11, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    ikilledcaptainplanet saiddon't ask us. ASK YOURSELF. do you think you're ugly? you have to live with yourself so our opinions about you don't matter so i'm not answer your question. stop looking for people to make you feel good about yourself. it ain't our job. that goes for you and anybody else here looking for validation through someone elses compliment.

    look @ me. i'm in the same boat as you BUT man.. i pretty much learned if i'm not happy with myself or think i'm shit, nobody around me regardless of what they say can't make me change how i feel about myself. sad but true. you need to learn how to be confident and content with yourself. if you ever find out how to do that shit like i've asked a few folks on here, spread that shit to me. i need the help.
    your good looking though.... And have a nice body. Eh I guess I can start by accepting my unattractiveness and then go from there! Thanks..