NO MORE SEX

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    Dec 13, 2008 12:21 PM GMT
    Why is it that I'm always horny yet sex outside a relationship sucks. You feel horny and want to have sex, if you do it with someone you arent dating it feels pointless.

    This is how ive felt for the past two years. Seriously I find it more enjoyable when im beating off and staring at my ass in the mirror behind me or watching porn.

    Its almost like my damn morals and want for something serious make sex a chor. When I dated this really awesome guy, the sex was what sex should be. Every other guy.. Well id rather be finger banging myself jerkin my merkin.

    Even if I wanted to, I can't have random sex without hating every moment, almost like if I dipped in some pune(pussy)

    what give guys?






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    Dec 13, 2008 12:23 PM GMT
    ONSLAUGHT saidSeriously I find it more enjoyable when im beating off and staring at my ass in the mirror behind me


    well... umm... ok
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:23 PM GMT
    Honey, you have only had full-on sex with 13 people. I am sure you dont do it that often.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:26 PM GMT
    emailaddress saidHoney, you have only had full-on sex with 13 people. I am sure you dont do it that often.


    only 13?!?! lol

    Seems like a lot for some of us!

    And as for the original poster, i hope you find a meaningful relationship soon, or when the time is right anyhow..icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:31 PM GMT
    ONSLAUGHT saidWhy is it that I'm always horny yet sex outside a relationship sucks. You feel horny and want to have sex, if you do it with someone you arent dating it feels pointless.

    This is how ive felt for the past two years. Seriously I find it more enjoyable when im beating off and staring at my ass in the mirror behind me or watching porn.

    Its almost like my damn morals and want for something serious make sex a chor. When I dated this really awesome guy, the sex was what sex should be. Every other guy.. Well id rather be finger banging myself jerkin my merkin.

    Even if I wanted to, I can't have random sex without hating every moment, almost like if I dipped in some pune(pussy)

    what give guys?






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    ok there is a few thing you can do to reduce sex drive,


    1. Have sex with someone you think is ugly (or someone who you think that ruins everything can do as well), hopefully this would traumatise you off sex for two months as well.

    2. pick up one of those world of worldcraft game, and play 48 hours in a row.

    3. avoid leg workout.

    4. Get rid of your mirror, so you dont get aroused looking at your fine body! (Bring on the fromage).

    5. eat heaps of soy.

    6. taking birth control pills.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:35 PM GMT
    lol what I like looking at my ass man, so what.

    And I was just saying, because sex isnt meaningful to me.
    I have been with some really attractive guys and nothing.
    13 Is a lot of damn guys for me.

    The guy I enjoyed it with was a good guy all around, wasnt that cute but
    his personality eventualy made the outside cute. Everyone was said "what is that you're with" I didnt see what they saw. Everyone expects me to date this model looking mo fo's that think they are the shit. I don't want no asshole that knows he is hot.

    Belive me I've done it all with the guys ive been with. I can't get over wanting love and a great husband. This makes me not want to have sex unless there is meaning.

    ID RATHER BEAT OFF FOR THE 2 MINUTES IT TAKE, AND THEN GO MAKE A SANDWICH


    I dont want to lose my sex drive! I like beating off way to much.
    I love working my legs out (squatting as your ass stretches) And ugly people, anyone can be ugly, its what they have that you hate that makes them ugly


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    Dec 13, 2008 12:38 PM GMT
    Good for you!

    I'd rather beat off than...than...well actually i have nothing to compare it to, but let us agree that it is a fun thing to do.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:40 PM GMT
    ok I am going to be serious now.


    I think its amazing to see someone that as well-presented as you to hold such a believed that values loyalty and monogamy, which is beautiful and rare these days.


    Good on you for that!

    I am sure one day you'll find your true love and how other look dont matter anymore.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:41 PM GMT
    Some guys really enjoy casual sex, others enjoy sex more when the emotions are involved. I personally fall into the latter category. I used to go through long periods of celibacy in which sex with another guy just did not iinterest me. I was usually looking for a bf though.

    Unfortunately "onslaught" human emotions cannot be disciplined or forced, all you can do is make sure you are interacting with other gay/bi guys and hopefully you will click with someone.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:47 PM GMT
    SurrealLife saidSome guys really enjoy casual sex, others enjoy sex more when the emotions are involved. I personally fall into the latter category. I used to go through long periods of celibacy in which sex with another guy just did not iinterest me. I was usually looking for a bf though.

    Unfortunately "onslaught" human emotions cannot be disciplined or forced, all you can do is make sure you are interacting with other gay/bi guys and hopefully you will click with someone.



    True dat minus the Bi guy part....

    They seem to have so many problems with loving a guy and being with one forever, its too much to deal with. The evil seed of what they have done, germinates with in me.


    lol okay that last part was a joke and I totally a quote from my favorite movie.
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:54 PM GMT
    Your yourning for meaningful sexual connection is very endearing..icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 13, 2008 12:59 PM GMT
    Delivis saidYour yourning for meaningful sexual connection is very endearing..icon_smile.gif


    Who cares about the sex, yeah im the most boned person you will meet but I dont do shit about it. Im more about the contact with another guy, sex is just want happens later. Before and after makes it worth doing if you really care for them.

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    Dec 13, 2008 1:09 PM GMT
    Indeed. Well said. Wish there were more people with similar sentiments, especially ones close by.
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    Dec 13, 2008 4:41 PM GMT
    Delivis saidIndeed. Well said. Wish there were more people with similar sentiments, especially ones close by.


    They are rare I must admit. Most guys want to take you for a trial run before thinking about a relationship. I have met very few guys like myself that wanted to wait and see if anything developed. If I slept with a guy the first night then it was invariably the kiss of death for dating.
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    Dec 14, 2008 7:35 AM GMT
    Good for you, Onslaught! Way to show the world it really isn't all about sex! icon_biggrin.gif

    Don't worry, you're a good(and good looking) guy, i'm sure you'll be able to find another meaningful relationship!