How was your first time?

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    Jan 11, 2014 10:43 PM GMT
    If you have, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
    Was it everything you expected or do you regret it, was it a hookup or were you in a relationship?
    If you haven't yet what is the reason why you are still a virgin?
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    Jan 11, 2014 10:44 PM GMT
    I was 14, he was 24. I tried bottoming but it hurt too much so we switched. His ex was in the other room in their apartment. We stole his PayPal debit card afterwards and bought sandwiches from a gas station.
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    Jan 11, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    Define which of the following counts as "the first time":

    a) Heavy making out which leads to getting naked, some very limited oral on both parts but neither cums.

    b) Naked, oral, only other party cums.

    c) Naked, oral, some backdoor play but no penetration, neither cums.

    d) Receiving end of penetration, gives cums but recepient doesn't.

    e) Giving end of penetration, recepient doesn't cum, giver doesn't cum at that time, but cums the next day after jacking off on recepient.
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    Jan 11, 2014 10:53 PM GMT
    Matiz saidDefine which of the following counts as "the first time":

    a) Heavy making out which leads to getting naked, some very limited oral on both parts but neither cums.

    b) Naked, oral, only other party cums.

    c) Naked, oral, some backdoor play but no penetration, neither cums.

    d) Receiving end of penetration, gives cums but recepient doesn't.

    e) Giving end of penetration, recepient doesn't cum, giver doesn't cum at that time, but cums the next day after jacking off on recepient.


    What you personally think is your first sexual encounter. Some people only anal is sex, while others think oral could be sex or even frottage. No one is wrong.
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    Jan 11, 2014 10:55 PM GMT
    lawkan said
    What you personally think is your first sexual encounter.


    In that case then, I have no idea.
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    Jan 11, 2014 10:58 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidI was 14, he was 24. I tried bottoming but it hurt too much so we switched. His ex was in the other room in their apartment. We stole his PayPal debit card afterwards and bought sandwiches from a gas station.


    So... you got raped by a thief? Ugh. icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:08 PM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    Avsigkommen saidI was 14, he was 24. I tried bottoming but it hurt too much so we switched. His ex was in the other room in their apartment. We stole his PayPal debit card afterwards and bought sandwiches from a gas station.


    So... you got raped by a thief? Ugh. icon_confused.gif


    Legally speaking, I guess he raped me. I think it's kind of a disservice to actual rape victims (for example, the medical student in India who was gang raped by multiple men then beaten this past summer) for statutory rape to be called 'rape'. The sex was consensual.
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:11 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen said The sex was consensual.


    Well you wanted and agreed to it, but you didn't consent to it because you didn't possess that legal faculty at that age.
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:18 PM GMT
    Matiz said
    Avsigkommen said The sex was consensual.


    Well you wanted and agreed to it, but you didn't consent to it because you didn't possess that legal faculty at that age.


    I would say there are two ways of looking at the word 'consent'. Legally, I could not consent. But, as the definition of 'consent' is "give permission for something to happen.", and I "agreed to it", I did consent.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Jan 11, 2014 11:23 PM GMT
    What's yours
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:36 PM GMT
    ViciousRumor said
    Avsigkommen said
    Matiz said
    Avsigkommen said The sex was consensual.


    Well you wanted and agreed to it, but you didn't consent to it because you didn't possess that legal faculty at that age.


    I would say there are two ways of looking at the word 'consent'. Legally, I could not consent. But, as the definition of 'consent' is "give permission for something to happen.", and I "agreed to it", I did consent.


    How does a fourteen year old meet a twenty four year old who wants sex?


    MySpace.
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidWe stole his PayPal debit card afterwards and bought sandwiches from a gas station.


    Spoken like a true ho trolololololololo
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    Jan 11, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
    I am still a virgin, I'm waiting for the right person and all that crap.
  • Jockasian703

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    Jan 12, 2014 12:27 AM GMT
    First time was great... my partner and I took our time and it wasn't until 2nd month were we slowly tried anal. He was very patient!

    Couldn't have had a better exp and patience. :-)
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    Jan 12, 2014 1:10 AM GMT
    I had a couple of different first time. (Grr, I waited to be 21 to do the dirty deed) !! icon_biggrin.gif

    First time top a guy: I was 21, the guy was 24 (Chinese guy)! It was a cute, fun experience! We dated a little bit! I slept over at his place in Redondo Beach! I picked him up at Mickys in LA.

    First time bottom: I was 22, hooked up with an Aussie from Santa Monica, he was 30, cute, hot! I stayed at his Condo in SM. He hit on me and picked me up at Club Here lounge.

    First time I had sex with a girl: I was 23, she was kinda Bi, We slept and I had sex with her a couple time! commuting from LA to the Valley! She was 25, cute, brunette, Canadian girl! She hit on me at Club Mickys/11 Lounge.
  • R_Prototype

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    Jan 12, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    haven't experienced it yet! :p
  • Shyguy90

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    Jan 16, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    Not that great. I didn't know what the hell to do and my partner was a seasoned veteran. It was just awkward and anxiety provoking. And my first partner never said a word to me afterwards....typical experience I guess.
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    Jan 16, 2014 7:04 AM GMT
    Plutonium saidhaven't experienced it yet! :p


    Go out and be a slut bro! hehe jk ...
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    Jan 16, 2014 10:50 AM GMT
    I dont count earlier experiences with women. Yukkh....

    But I came out (in the sense of accepting that I was gay) shortly before turning 28. I only had my first boyfriend (and, with him, my first gay sexual experiences) about a year later. He was about my age, but had been out for several years. I had been (as a sideline to my boring fulltime job) playing and singing in a folk music group [klezmer] and he was a friend of one of the other members of the band. We only dated for about a month but I remember the time fondly. (Thank you Kevin wherever you are ...)
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    Jan 16, 2014 2:06 PM GMT
    I was 18. Met a very hot muscle daddy at the only (at the time) gay bar in this shitty town. Went to breakfast after the bar closed and then to his trailer (we have lots of trailer parks). I chickened out and left, but I fell in love with this guy. A few days later I went back to his trailer. It was very late and he was already asleep. He came to the door naked and led me to his bed. I got naked and we made out. He flipped me over and put it in. It hurt so bad. I tried to get him to stop but he wasn't having any of that. I remember he said "You wake me up at this hour, you're gonna get what you came for". He finished up and told me to get out. I guess I deserved what I got. I still think about him. He was soooo sexy. I wish I could turn back the clock and do it again. I would enjoy it much more this time.icon_redface.gif
  • DBomb129

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    Jan 25, 2014 10:28 AM GMT
    You guys with significantly older partners, any ill feelings?
  • mformarco

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    Jan 28, 2014 5:44 PM GMT
    une catastrophe
  • Apparition

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    Jan 28, 2014 9:10 PM GMT
    DBomb129 saidYou guys with significantly older partners, any ill feelings?


    no
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    Jan 28, 2014 9:34 PM GMT
    I was 20 he was 40 . It was my first time drinking and I got really fucked up, fell asleep in his bed. He started blowing me then eventually started riding me. I freaked out and made him stop because I realized there was no condom. Everything turned out ok though
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    Aug 27, 2014 11:42 PM GMT
    Let's see ,,, I was 9 yrs old when I lost my oral and anal virginaty.icon_eek.gif

    It was my 14 yr old cousin who i was suckin his dick and then he began fuckin me,icon_surprised.gif, it hurt the first few times he penetrated me but eventually I came to enjoy the time with him.icon_smile.gif

    It wasn't till I was 10 when I had a guy suck me and i fucked him,icon_biggrin.gif, this is when I really began to understand true gay sex.icon_wink.gif