Sex First, Then Love…?

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    Jan 12, 2014 6:52 AM GMT
    So, heteros are all about love before sex, but Lord Jesus have I tried, and it never works. Fun dates have rarely=good sex for me, and if I ain't sexually compatible with a guy, ain't no loves happening.

    So, my new method: Hot sex has to happen first, THEN we'll think about taking it further.

    Is that so wrong…? icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 12, 2014 6:56 AM GMT
    Thanx buddy…How did u n urs hook up--sex first? And how long u been mono…?
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    Jan 12, 2014 7:04 AM GMT
    Really?

    And you date these guys for a long time after the sex?

    In my experience it becomes All About the sex... nothing much after
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    Jan 13, 2014 11:25 PM GMT
    this is now my gospel. I wish I had tried out the sex before my last relationship, woulda saved me a LOT of hassle. I wanted to but he was like 'lets wait' ur so special. Then I soon found out why he wanted to wait!! He couldn't bloody get it up! and by the time I realised that little problem was here to stay, I was falling and ended up in a near to a year long sexless frustrating relationship which fucked up my self esteem!

    Try before you buy people!!!!
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    Jan 13, 2014 11:32 PM GMT
    I think that's how it works, you have to be sexual compatible and enjoy doing it in order to be a relationship. Of course, other types of compatibility are important, but going to bed can help break the ice and open up more personal exploration.
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    Jan 14, 2014 12:32 AM GMT
    Pauly72 saidSo, heteros are all about love before sex...
    Don't believe a word of that crap. Just hetero hype.
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    Jan 14, 2014 6:39 AM GMT
    Yeah, I think all you guys have got it about right--Thx for the insight icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 14, 2014 6:54 AM GMT
    divvy198509 said
    Try before you buy people!!!!

    I'd like to buy some people. One to clean my house, perhaps another to shop and cook.....
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    Jan 14, 2014 6:58 AM GMT
    If I hadn't had sex with my man of 14 years on the first date, I highly doubt I'd called him again.
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:21 AM GMT
    Sex first, then maybe dating. That's the way it worked for years before the internet. This method has produced millions of boyfriends.
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:23 AM GMT
    I've only dated one guy that I had sex with the first night , and well that didn't last I've waited with two ( inexperienced bottoms ) so I had to be super patient..but no regrets here
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:27 AM GMT
    HikerSkier saidSex first, then maybe dating. That's the way it worked for years before the internet. This method has produced millions of boyfriends.


    Nowadays, here's how this works:

    1) Grindr
    2) Sex
    3) Block the guy's profile

    Repeat!

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:47 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    HikerSkier saidSex first, then maybe dating. That's the way it worked for years before the internet. This method has produced millions of boyfriends.


    Nowadays, here's how this works:

    1) Grindr
    2) Sex
    3) Block the guy's profile

    Repeat!

    AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA……….icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    OK, that's FUNNY (becuz its true)