I am genderqueer, I came out last week, any comments?

  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 7:34 AM GMT
    I came out last week to my bf, he told me he really likes boys so he broke up with me. initially he told me he really likes drag queens however I'm not acting. I know all you guys like guys but I feel somewhere in the middle.
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    Jan 12, 2014 7:41 AM GMT
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    Jan 12, 2014 7:42 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidNo1currrr!!!!icon_lol.gif


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    Jan 12, 2014 7:44 AM GMT
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    jmusmc85 saidNo1currrr!!!!icon_lol.gif


    This trick trying to steal fables line ...


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    Jan 12, 2014 7:46 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    knightmare said
    jmusmc85 saidNo1currrr!!!!icon_lol.gif


    This trick trying to steal fables line ...


    No1curr about that either!!!icon_lol.gif


    yea but apparently you 'curred' enough to comment mexicrakhoe
  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 7:50 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidYou, a guy, came out to your boyfriend who then broke up with you?

    well I was more guy when I got with him, through therapy and self-discovery I found this out about myself.
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    Jan 12, 2014 7:56 AM GMT
    knightmare said
    jmusmc85 said
    knightmare said
    jmusmc85 saidNo1currrr!!!!icon_lol.gif


    This trick trying to steal fables line ...


    No1curr about that either!!!icon_lol.gif


    yea but apparently you 'curred' enough to comment mexicrakhoe


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  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 8:11 AM GMT
    woodsmen said
    mykale said
    woodsmen saidYou, a guy, came out to your boyfriend who then broke up with you?

    well I was more guy when I got with him, through therapy and self-discovery I found this out about myself.


    Mykale, you know how harsh people can be towards feminine issues here on this site. Need to think whether you find support here.
    you're so very right its just hard for me because I am transitioning I kind of feel stuck in the middle right now I really like and want to be with guys but I identify and dress as a girl. dressing as a boy feels like I'm in drag so I really don't know what to do.
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    Jan 12, 2014 8:14 AM GMT
    ^^ Perhaps professional help can assist you with your struggles.
  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 8:16 AM GMT
    YourName2000 saidNo, really. I don't think anyone cares.

    You're not hurting anyone, you're costing society anything, you're not doing anything except what some might view as a fetish and others might see as you just being who you are.

    Who cares? You don't need validation from us. Or from anyone, except maybe your bf...sorry he couldn't handle the change. But it is "change" in every relationship (gay/straight) that usually breaks it, so I'd view it as that: just more proof that changes within existing relationships can be hard, rather than an indication of what your chances of starting a new relationship "as the new you" would be.

    Is this the best site for you? Who knows...I don't really see a direct connection, but really, stick around and you'll find out pretty quick.

    Good luck.
    thank you for saying that to meicon_smile.gif
  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 8:20 AM GMT
    Erik101 said^^ Perhaps professional help can assist you with your struggles.
    yeah you're right I have quite a bit of money spent on psychotherapy I'm just scared since the one person I thought was going to stand by me left it just shook my confidence
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    Jan 12, 2014 1:02 PM GMT
    wow that's rough, sorry that happened, good luck with everything, I'd give you a hug
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    Jan 12, 2014 2:32 PM GMT
    kiwiLifter saidDo you deadlift and squat heavy?

    Every done hill sprints until you puked?

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    who gives a shit about that lol
  • mykale

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    Jan 12, 2014 5:56 PM GMT
    JuanPablomv89 saidOMG What're you doing here?. Can't you see that this site was made for masculine, straight acting into sports muscle and fit Gay men not for fem or into drag queen gay men. You need to read all the forums posts about being a straight acting and masculine gay man.

    Good Luck and my best for you honey..

    ya your right, I am an athlete Mtb xc racing, I am not fem, well not fake fem, I behave like how real girls do, I have been on here for quite a while, n have always been attracted to men stronger than me which is a tall order because, well im a riot gurl n kinda a handfull, I will probably mellow a little with the testosterone blockers but im stuck in the middle for now.
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    Jan 13, 2014 3:06 AM GMT
    I like the lyric in Sting's song "Englishman in New York":

    "Be yourself, no matter what they say!"

    Good luck with everything.