HIV scare

  • RayJayo

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    Jan 14, 2014 5:22 PM GMT
    I am 21 years old and only had 2 sexual partners, I've always thought a lot of myself when it comes to sex, although I have absolutely nothing against people who do it all the time, it's your life and I respect what everyone does. (except the obvious criminals lol)

    My boyfriend of 3.5 years had 7 sexual encounters before me, this included protected anal sex and unprotected oral sex, now in terms of who he was at risk of getting HIV from, it was 6 of them. 4 of the boys he did not swallow and 3 of them he did, but one of them was a virgin. They were all very low risked people and only one of them was so high risk that he was getting tested regularly and he was completely negative.

    We went on a break in August to see other people for a while to see how we felt (personal stuff) anyway I met a guy and he was nice, he told me he hadn't had any sexual partners but I later found out it was a lie, he had infact had 3, there could have been more but he stopped at 3. We didn't have sex, only unprotected oral and he did not ejaculate in my mouth, there might have been a chance he got pre cum in my mouth but I really can't remember that happening.

    Me and my boyfriend got back together a couple months later and me being completely stupid agreed to a 1 off unprotected anal sex session, it lasted about 2/3 minutes and I didn't ejaculate inside, there was no heavy bleeding either.

    Now what do you think the chances were of my Boyfriend getting HIV from one of the 7 boys he had unprotected oral sex with and protected anal sex with? And what do you think my chance was of getting HIV from a boy who only "MIGHT" have pre cummed in my mouth, no full ejaculation? Obviously our risks are what we did before eachother or while we was on a break, by putting them both together we could work out what the chances are, obviously my boyfriend was a higher risk, but do you think our chances are low or high of having the disease? Neither of us have ever had the illness you get with HIV once you get it after 4 weeks and I know the chances of getting that are high, so if neither of us got it I guess that's a good sign, but not a 100% we don't have it.

    Thanks for reading this, I know it's hella long but I needed to get it off my chest, me and my boyfriend are both doing tests tomorrow but maybe a little reassurance could help me get through tonight.
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    Jan 14, 2014 6:51 PM GMT
    Just get tested..I've had sex with 32 guys if were counting oral its probably 50-70 I don't really remember..though I've only been unprotected with 4 which were all my boyfriends and we were tested before ever taking the step of stopping using protection. And I'm still fine icon_smile.gif but still get tested just for good measure
  • kiwi_nomad

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:06 PM GMT
    up until you both get tested you are just speculating..
  • RayJayo

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:09 PM GMT
    Yeah I know it's speculation, but from what we have done in the past what do you think the chances would be? High? Low?

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:10 PM GMT
    RayJayo saidYeah I know it's speculation, but from what we have done in the past what do you think the chances would be? High? Low?




    Just get tested and always use condoms.
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
    It only takes one time..stick your weenie in the wrong hole and Bam! Welcome to the world of feline HIV
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
    Your chances of getting HIV from unprotected ORAL SEX are virtually zero. I'd worry more about getting struck by lightening. But to make yourself feel better, get tested anyway.
  • RayJayo

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:17 PM GMT
    EternalOp saidWell as per "YourName2000" and some other guys on here, HIV is in trend and the cool thing to have right now, you should be very happy to get it, it's like smoking and drinking, makes you look cool and sexy, so have fun with that and spread the joy of HIV icon_biggrin.gif


    Are you trying to troll here? I'm new so I don't yet know the way it works here, well anyway, keep trying hun icon_smile.gif

    Thanks again for anyone who reads this icon_smile.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:19 PM GMT
    EternalOp said
    Jaggal said
    EternalOp saidWell as per "YourName2000" and some others guy on here, HIV is in trend and the cool thing to have right now, you should be very happy to get it, it's like smoking and drinking, makes you look cool and sexy, so have fun with with that and spread the joy of HIV icon_biggrin.gif


    Guy, you need to stop. He never said that.


    He agreed to it. And you need to ignore me.


    The whole website needs to ignore you, EternalOP/Solomono/Failscarf. You're one ignorant douchebag when it comes to HIV/STDs.

  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:27 PM GMT
    The funny thing is Jaggal is the only one that bothers to responds to your ignorant ass, EternalOP.. and even he now doesn't like you.

    Seriously, just leave the site.
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    EternalOp said
    RayJayo said
    EternalOp saidWell as per "YourName2000" and some other guys on here, HIV is in trend and the cool thing to have right now, you should be very happy to get it, it's like smoking and drinking, makes you look cool and sexy, so have fun with that and spread the joy of HIV icon_biggrin.gif


    Are you trying to troll here? I'm new so I don't yet know the way it works here, well anyway, keep trying hun icon_smile.gif

    Thanks again for anyone who reads this icon_smile.gif


    No I am not. You should read the HIV posts on the HIV section and see how some guys seem okay to catch HIV, may be they already have it. A lot of guys like about their status and pretend to be neg.


    EternalOp what a big camel toe you got there...
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    Jan 14, 2014 7:35 PM GMT
    EternalOp said
    Jewlicious said
    EternalOp said
    RayJayo said
    EternalOp saidWell as per "YourName2000" and some other guys on here, HIV is in trend and the cool thing to have right now, you should be very happy to get it, it's like smoking and drinking, makes you look cool and sexy, so have fun with that and spread the joy of HIV icon_biggrin.gif


    Are you trying to troll here? I'm new so I don't yet know the way it works here, well anyway, keep trying hun icon_smile.gif

    Thanks again for anyone who reads this icon_smile.gif


    No I am not. You should read the HIV posts on the HIV section and see how some guys seem okay to catch HIV, may be they already have it. A lot of guys like about their status and pretend to be neg.


    EternalOp what a big camel toe you got there...


    Not as big as yours, bottom hoe.


    LOL
  • Import

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    Jan 14, 2014 7:53 PM GMT
    RayJayo saidI am 21 years old and only had 2 sexual partners, I've always thought a lot of myself when it comes to sex, although I have absolutely nothing against people who do it all the time, it's your life and I respect what everyone does. (except the obvious criminals lol)

    My boyfriend of 3.5 years had 7 sexual encounters before me, this included protected anal sex and unprotected oral sex, now in terms of who he was at risk of getting HIV from, it was 6 of them. 4 of the boys he did not swallow and 3 of them he did, but one of them was a virgin. They were all very low risked people and only one of them was so high risk that he was getting tested regularly and he was completely negative.

    We went on a break in August to see other people for a while to see how we felt (personal stuff) anyway I met a guy and he was nice, he told me he hadn't had any sexual partners but I later found out it was a lie, he had infact had 3, there could have been more but he stopped at 3. We didn't have sex, only unprotected oral and he did not ejaculate in my mouth, there might have been a chance he got pre cum in my mouth but I really can't remember that happening.

    Me and my boyfriend got back together a couple months later and me being completely stupid agreed to a 1 off unprotected anal sex session, it lasted about 2/3 minutes and I didn't ejaculate inside, there was no heavy bleeding either.

    Now what do you think the chances were of my Boyfriend getting HIV from one of the 7 boys he had unprotected oral sex with and protected anal sex with? And what do you think my chance was of getting HIV from a boy who only "MIGHT" have pre cummed in my mouth, no full ejaculation? Obviously our risks are what we did before eachother or while we was on a break, by putting them both together we could work out what the chances are, obviously my boyfriend was a higher risk, but do you think our chances are low or high of having the disease? Neither of us have ever had the illness you get with HIV once you get it after 4 weeks and I know the chances of getting that are high, so if neither of us got it I guess that's a good sign, but not a 100% we don't have it.

    Thanks for reading this, I know it's hella long but I needed to get it off my chest, me and my boyfriend are both doing tests tomorrow but maybe a little reassurance could help me get through tonight.


    what in the fuck does that mean?
  • RayJayo

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    Jan 14, 2014 8:09 PM GMT
    Import said
    RayJayo saidI am 21 years old and only had 2 sexual partners, I've always thought a lot of myself when it comes to sex, although I have absolutely nothing against people who do it all the time, it's your life and I respect what everyone does. (except the obvious criminals lol)

    My boyfriend of 3.5 years had 7 sexual encounters before me, this included protected anal sex and unprotected oral sex, now in terms of who he was at risk of getting HIV from, it was 6 of them. 4 of the boys he did not swallow and 3 of them he did, but one of them was a virgin. They were all very low risked people and only one of them was so high risk that he was getting tested regularly and he was completely negative.

    We went on a break in August to see other people for a while to see how we felt (personal stuff) anyway I met a guy and he was nice, he told me he hadn't had any sexual partners but I later found out it was a lie, he had infact had 3, there could have been more but he stopped at 3. We didn't have sex, only unprotected oral and he did not ejaculate in my mouth, there might have been a chance he got pre cum in my mouth but I really can't remember that happening.

    Me and my boyfriend got back together a couple months later and me being completely stupid agreed to a 1 off unprotected anal sex session, it lasted about 2/3 minutes and I didn't ejaculate inside, there was no heavy bleeding either.

    Now what do you think the chances were of my Boyfriend getting HIV from one of the 7 boys he had unprotected oral sex with and protected anal sex with? And what do you think my chance was of getting HIV from a boy who only "MIGHT" have pre cummed in my mouth, no full ejaculation? Obviously our risks are what we did before eachother or while we was on a break, by putting them both together we could work out what the chances are, obviously my boyfriend was a higher risk, but do you think our chances are low or high of having the disease? Neither of us have ever had the illness you get with HIV once you get it after 4 weeks and I know the chances of getting that are high, so if neither of us got it I guess that's a good sign, but not a 100% we don't have it.

    Thanks for reading this, I know it's hella long but I needed to get it off my chest, me and my boyfriend are both doing tests tomorrow but maybe a little reassurance could help me get through tonight.


    what in the fuck does that mean?


    I know what you think I meant and it isn't that. What I mean is I've always I've always looked after myself when it comes to sex, I'm a sensitive guy that wouldn't just go with anyone because when I was young I would get attached to people so easily, so just having sex was never an option, It doesn't mean what you think it does which is "ew I would never just sleep around because it's disgusting" nope sir, if I wasn't such a sappy git I would have been sleeping around ALOT! The bit about the crimes is that although I do respect everyones choices in life, like if you want to sleep with people all the time, then do so because if it makes you happy then that's good, but of course I don't respect the crimes of a criminal, say a rapist? Murderer? It was just incase anyone made a sarcy joke saying "you cant respect everyones choices because their are so many bad people"

  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 14, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
    EternalOp said
    Behemothboi saidJust get tested..I've had sex with 32 guys if were counting oral its probably 50-70 I don't really remember..though I've only been unprotected with 4 which were all my boyfriends and we were tested before ever taking the step of stopping using protection. And I'm still fine icon_smile.gif but still get tested just for good measure


    I don't know if you care to hear this but you could already be an asymptomatic carrier for genital herpes and genital warts (hpv). The latter has cancer causing strains and we have an RJ member who got anal cancer from it. It can also cause penile cancer if you're a top.

    If you haven't I recommend you get tested for these 2, you have to ask to get tested specifically for them. For genital herpes you can get a vaccine (gardasil) before you turn 26, it could help you against some of the cancer causing strains.

    If you test positive and if you care, inform your partners so they know.

    This is besides all her other regular stds to test for. I'm informing you to the best of my knowledge.


    BehemothBoi knows what he's doing. He doesn't need your so-called 'knowledge', fool.
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 14, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    EternalOp said
    PR_GMR said
    EternalOp said
    Behemothboi saidJust get tested..I've had sex with 32 guys if were counting oral its probably 50-70 I don't really remember..though I've only been unprotected with 4 which were all my boyfriends and we were tested before ever taking the step of stopping using protection. And I'm still fine icon_smile.gif but still get tested just for good measure


    I don't know if you care to hear this but you could already be an asymptomatic carrier for genital herpes and genital warts (hpv). The latter has cancer causing strains and we have an RJ member who got anal cancer from it. It can also cause penile cancer if you're a top.

    If you haven't I recommend you get tested for these 2, you have to ask to get tested specifically for them. For genital herpes you can get a vaccine (gardasil) before you turn 26, it could help you against some of the cancer causing strains.

    If you test positive and if you care, inform your partners so they know.

    This is besides all her other regular stds to test for. I'm informing you to the best of my knowledge.


    BehemothBoi knows what he's doing. He doesn't need your so-called 'knowledge', fool.


    You're welcome slut. I'm sure it's all new info to you ^^


    Here's new info for you--Once an STD is treated, it doesn't go into 'hiding' in order to resurface years later. You actually posted that ignorant piece of shit advice on another thread. No one should listen to anything you post, pretentious prudish loser.
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    Jan 14, 2014 8:46 PM GMT
    Regardless of rather or not you think you had a risk, you should get tested and have full panel for all STDs, it's the safe thing to do. Even if you use condoms 100% of the time, you should still test, since things like herpes can still be transmitted, despite condom use.
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    Jan 14, 2014 10:52 PM GMT
    Failscarf, what?!?


    "HIV infections usually date back to exposures from years back, and not from the most recent ones."

    You made that up as it's not true, unless you've never been tested.

    As for herpes and warts, they can be caught from frotting alone. Yeesh. Google more, then post.
  • RayJayo

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    Jan 15, 2014 5:24 AM GMT
    Thanks everyone who replied to the original question lol icon_smile.gif
    Sending the test today and if it's negative I will take it as a huge life lesson that I shall never fail again.
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    Jan 15, 2014 6:10 AM GMT
    As tempting as it may be.. don't do it! It is kind of alarming but the only way to know is to find out, not speculate around the situation. So you'll know the answer for sure.