Flaws

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    Jan 15, 2014 7:02 AM GMT
    Sometimes I think the someone's flaws are what make them so special, like a funny smile,I think bald guys are hot too .. idc no one is perfect
    Are there any things that attract you that aren't something you see often?
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    Jan 15, 2014 7:08 AM GMT
    Hey your being rude today , chill
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    Jan 15, 2014 7:13 AM GMT
    I like guys with quirky, unstable bouts of uncontrollable and violent rage.
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    Jan 15, 2014 9:56 AM GMT
    Matiz saidI like guys with quirky, unstable bouts of uncontrollable and violent rage.


    STFU! icon_mad.gif
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    Jan 15, 2014 3:49 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidSometimes I think the someone's flaws are what make them so special, like a funny smile,I think bald guys are hot too .. idc no one is perfect
    Are there any things that attract you that aren't something you see often?


    There you go: bald, funny smile...

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  • Destinharbor

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    Jan 15, 2014 3:52 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidWhen you find their flaws beautiful, you're in love.

    Well, I don't know about that. I know that's conventional wisdom but I really think that theory was invented by fat girls. I think to your point that the thing about love is you that you love the whole package, ahem, not that package, well that, too. That to you they are pieces of the whole. Not hole! Jeez, get your mind out of the gutter. Flaws aren't what makes someone special-- it's that in him, you can handle the flaws because without them, he would be a different person and you love the guy he is. It's kind of like saying, I wish I'd been a college professor instead of a banker, but then if I'd done that, I'd have never been here now to have met you, my love.
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    Jan 15, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    I briefly dated a guy who always had bags under his eyes. I thought it made him look adorably sleepy.
  • disasterpiece

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    Jan 15, 2014 4:00 PM GMT
    I dated a guy that had some hold OCD behaviors that were cute icon_smile.gif

    (but some OCDs are far from cute lol)
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    Jan 15, 2014 4:00 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidWhen you find their flaws beautiful, you're in love.

    There is, however, a difference between finding their flaws beautiful and making excuses for them and essentially blinding yourself to them. In which case the latter would be infatuation.

    Being in love doesn't necessarily mean finding all of their flaws beautiful but accepting that it's part of them - that they are people and only human.

    Personally, I love flaws. Quirky smile, imperfect placement of their hair...the way that person can make you smile and giggle when they do something odd (most likely something you'd be too embarrassed to do in front of someone else). I love people - not photoshopped mannequins with their lazy eyes fixed. It's why I tear into the stereotypical models - I want them to be human.
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    Jan 15, 2014 4:08 PM GMT
    Matiz saidI like guys with quirky, unstable bouts of uncontrollable and violent rage.


    Just LOL
  • lvzhi

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    Jan 15, 2014 4:12 PM GMT
    I find guys with two big rabbit front teeth sexy when they smile.
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    Jan 15, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    I love imperfection.
    A lazy eye, crocked smile, scars etc. There is a guy near were I live who was born with no ears. He is totally bald (naturally)has no eyebrows, and imagine no hair at all. He has a bionic eye mounted in his skull. He looks to be around 110kgs of solid ripped muscle and is proud to walk around shirtless. I tell you what he is magnificent.
    Oh I also find speech impediments hot!!
    Steve
  • Adozark

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    Jan 15, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    I think it's pretty attractive when a guy who seems fairly confident still becomes shy a little when we first meet, it's pretty flattering. They seem to get embarrassed by it and claim they wish they didn't (if they happen to bring it up) but I love it.
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    Jan 15, 2014 8:57 PM GMT
    I think flaws helps make people grounded.
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    Jan 15, 2014 10:01 PM GMT
    Ohno saidI briefly dated a guy who always had bags under his eyes. I thought it made him look adorably sleepy.

    Sounds like it was puppy love!
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    Jan 15, 2014 10:06 PM GMT
    Varus saidI think flaws helps make people grounded.

    I agree and to expound upon it, I think flaws are what help build a person's character. When a person recognizes their flaws they learn more about themselves, tend to be more selfless and acceptable of others and their flaws.

    I've said many times, the perfect (or considered perfect) person is NOT the person I want to be around. They generally tend to be more selfish and end up seeking for another perfect person to associate with, in my opinion.
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    Jan 15, 2014 10:43 PM GMT
    I dated a guy with a slight gap in his teeth. He lisped through his Texan twang. Adorable.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 15, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    eb925guy said
    Varus saidI think flaws helps make people grounded.

    I agree and to expound upon it, I think flaws are what help build a person's character. When a person recognizes their flaws they learn more about themselves, tend to be more selfless and acceptable of others and their flaws.

    I've said many times, the perfect (or considered perfect) person is NOT the person I want to be around. They generally tend to be more selfish and end up seeking for another perfect person to associate with, in my opinion.

    If this were true, then the "perfect" people would have to accept that their perceived flawlessness is a flaw in and of itself, assuming others like you don't want to be around them, or that it has stunted their emotional growth.
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    Jan 15, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    Matiz saidI like guys with quirky, unstable bouts of uncontrollable and violent rage.


    I would be careful to avoid them.
  • RGW94

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    Jan 15, 2014 10:54 PM GMT
    I like weird noses. Like when they're abnormally long or have a bump.

    I just think it's adorable.
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    Jan 15, 2014 10:57 PM GMT
    fuzzy toes and feet.
    icon_lol.gif I think it looks cute.
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    Jan 15, 2014 11:00 PM GMT
    I totally wanna fuck Bawwy Kwipke (Big Bang Theory)
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    Jan 16, 2014 3:52 AM GMT
    I am not flawless so I never sought out perfect men.Having my man to hold at night and kiss in the morning matters a hell of a lot more than perfect teeth or a few extra pounds.Ry
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    Jan 16, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    WickedRyan saidI am not flawless so I never sought out perfect men.Having my man to hold at night and kiss in the morning matters a hell of a lot more than perfect teeth or a few extra pounds.Ry


    +1

    it's funny, when you really like someone no body else seems to matter, all you want to do is make that one person happy all the time. And you find their imperfections perfect.
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    Jan 16, 2014 3:57 AM GMT
    Lol your gonna get some lip for calling being bald a flaw haha..