socalx10 saidHow do you guys feel about this? Hypothetically speaking, let's say when you see someone you like a lot and he reveals *I'm in an open relationship! Would you pursue him if the feeling is mutual? This happened to me in the past and I didn't pursued him because I didn't want to be in the middle of it. So, now I'm asking your opinions on this, maybe it will happen again! who knows!!
The big question is 'what are you pursuing'? If you're trying to establish a relationship then I'd say no. You need someone who's looking to you for an emotional relationship. Someone already in an open relationship is emotionally connected to someone and only looking for some physical pleasure, hopefully with the consent of his partner.
If the guy is emotionally into you, then you have an issue. He can not be emotionally available to two different guys, in my opinion. That's called love and you have to love one person in the relationship. Opening it up is only for the benefit of enjoying more physical pleasures than are available with your partner, despite the reasons. It's an agreement between both parties (couple) to allow either to find someone else to enjoy sex with.
If you're fine with only sex and knowing that you can't have either of the partnered guys emotionally, then go for it. If you have an emotional connection to one then you're going to basically either break them up or get terribly hurt when they end it. If their openness is due to relationship issues then you don't want to be a part of it.