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  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 15, 2014 1:21 PM GMT
    Just met this guy from FB He asked for my number and I gave it to him, we went out one time (NEVER AGAIN)! and now he's flooding my inbox with all sorts of crazy offline messages. He actually thinks his spirit told him "WE" will be a great couple icon_neutral.gif and he misses me and can't stop thinking of me. I just think this just sounds ridiculous. This guy hardly knows anything about me. Can you actually love someone in less than 24 hours?

    I think he's just desperate for the sex.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 15, 2014 1:30 PM GMT
    Have been in the same position. I met this guy once and the day after he was asking me if we were boyfriends, and talking about that his roommate might be moving out soon and how I might want to move in with him. Some guys move too fast and it makes no sense.
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    Jan 15, 2014 1:39 PM GMT
    blkapollo saidHave been in the same position. I met this guy once and the day after he was asking me if we were boyfriends, and talking about that his roommate might be moving out soon and how I might want to move in with him. Some guys move too fast and it makes no sense.


    Been there before too, which is way I'm firmly putting my food down on this one.icon_lol.gif

    A guy that says he loves you so much & cant live without you in less than 24 hours is a guy most likely to not pick up the phone when you call him, after he's gotten under your pants.
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    Jan 15, 2014 1:53 PM GMT
    I can fall in love on one date easily.
    I'd certainly hide it, though, unless the feelings are reciprocated.
  • MikeW

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    Jan 15, 2014 2:23 PM GMT
    RainBow_Dragon2000 saidA guy that says he loves you so much & cant live without you in less than 24 hours is a guy most likely to not pick up the phone when you call him, after he's gotten under your pants.

    Tell him this is how you see his affections, maybe that will cool his jets.
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    Jan 15, 2014 2:38 PM GMT
    MikeW said
    RainBow_Dragon2000 saidA guy that says he loves you so much & cant live without you in less than 24 hours is a guy most likely to not pick up the phone when you call him, after he's gotten under your pants.

    Tell him this is how you see his affections, maybe that will cool his jets.


    OP says he never wants to go on a date with him again though. His affections don't need to be cooled, they need to be extinguished!
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Jan 15, 2014 2:58 PM GMT
    Ohno said
    MikeW said
    RainBow_Dragon2000 saidA guy that says he loves you so much & cant live without you in less than 24 hours is a guy most likely to not pick up the phone when you call him, after he's gotten under your pants.

    Tell him this is how you see his affections, maybe that will cool his jets.


    OP says he never wants to go on a date with him again though. His affections don't need to be cooled, they need to be extinguished!


    It's just that I hate clingy guys. it's a major turn off for me.
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    Jan 15, 2014 5:43 PM GMT
    You're lucky. I just met someone who I like, yet feel like I have to keep chasing him cuz he's not making any effort.
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    Jan 15, 2014 5:49 PM GMT
    Why can't it just be love at first sight? icon_confused.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 15, 2014 5:51 PM GMT
    hellass saidYou're lucky. I just met someone who I like, yet feel like I have to keep chasing him cuz he's not making any effort.


    Weren't you 'in love' with your best friend like two months ago? icon_confused.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Jan 15, 2014 5:53 PM GMT
    To the OP--Tell him straightforward you're not interested. Expressing feelings after one date is just not normal. It's creepy and desperate. You gotta nip this in the bud.
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    Jan 15, 2014 5:53 PM GMT
    hellass saidYou're lucky. I just met someone who I like, yet feel like I have to keep chasing him cuz he's not making any effort.

    A guy can tell you that he likes you until he's blue in the face but actions speak louder then words. A lack of effort is typically a lack of interest.
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    Jan 15, 2014 5:54 PM GMT
    One of my great ideas for a gayborhood business was the Restraining Order Vending Machine. You'd just take it to a nearby bartender (appointed to the bench for just this purpose) to get signed.

    Don't know why I couldn't get any investors...
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    Jan 15, 2014 6:11 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidOne of my great ideas for a gayborhood business was the Restraining Order Vending Machine. You'd just take it to a nearby bartender (appointed to the bench for just this purpose) to get signed.

    Don't know why I couldn't get any investors...


    icon_lol.gif

    They should put them on gay bars.
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    Jan 15, 2014 9:31 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI can fall in love on one date easily.
    I'd certainly hide it, though, unless the feelings are reciprocated.


    + 100000000

    (I think I'm in that exact situation right now and losing sleep as I feverishly try to keep my cool so as not to scare him off...)
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    Jan 15, 2014 11:44 PM GMT
    lol same thing happened to me.. I think it is just sex too.. manipulators
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    Jan 16, 2014 1:04 PM GMT
    This can be a real problem, unfortunately you can't always tell right away that someone is mentally unstable. This has happened far too often to me, with stalking etc. So I try to keep a low profile and move really slowly with new people. Be careful what you wish for Hellass.
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    Jan 17, 2014 4:39 AM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    hellass saidYou're lucky. I just met someone who I like, yet feel like I have to keep chasing him cuz he's not making any effort.


    Weren't you 'in love' with your best friend like two months ago? icon_confused.gif


    LOL. No, I wasn't in love with him. We "tried" dating but realized it was too weird and we were more like bros, rather than boyfriends.
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    Jan 17, 2014 4:41 AM GMT
    duluthrunner said
    JohnSpotter saidI can fall in love on one date easily.
    I'd certainly hide it, though, unless the feelings are reciprocated.


    + 100000000

    (I think I'm in that exact situation right now and losing sleep as I feverishly try to keep my cool so as not to scare him off...)


    Bill says, for him, it was love at first meeting (not just 'sight', lol, talking and hanging out for hours).
    This year will be 25 years for us two. I guess he was right, eh? icon_wink.gif
  • chadwick1985

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    Jan 17, 2014 6:38 AM GMT
    There is such a thing as love at first sight. I've been one to fall for someone. However I will hide it until later on. Someone who immediately shares those feelings has issues and is probably desperate.

    You need to let him know what you think of him and how you feel. It may help him leave you be. Sounds almost like a stalker in the making.
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    Jan 17, 2014 6:44 AM GMT
    Tell him your love is expensive and requires pricey gifts.