Getting friendly in the gym

  • shakeitout85

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    Jan 19, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    Its no coincidence that i'll strike up harmless gym talk with cute guys. The question is, at what point does it become creepy if the guy isnt really all that responsive?

    Struck up conversation with a guy in the lockeroom (he was butt naked and had the most pinchable buttocks) and asked him about his training and if he fancied training sometimes together. He never really gave me an answer.

    We now acknowledge each other on the gym floor with a smile or a nod or thumbs up but I'd like to workout with him and know him name. Maybe I'm just seen creepy gym stalker. I generally wish guys were open to chatting and getting to know each other. I go to the gym so much it would be nice to have some cool, if also rather cute, guys to workout with
  • Chainers

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    Jan 19, 2014 12:45 AM GMT
    You made a move, he didn't respond. Leave it at that.

    /end.
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    Jan 19, 2014 3:06 AM GMT
    Maybe we should return to the handkerchief system. What color means, "Don't talk to me"?

    On second thought, we have have iPods and headsets for that now.
  • Fable

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    Jan 19, 2014 3:13 AM GMT
    ugh southwark is horrendous
  • Amelorn

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    Jan 19, 2014 3:43 AM GMT
    I thought that talking to someone under 65 naked in the locker-room is an unforgivable offence.

    fable saidugh southwark is horrendous


    Not everyone can live in Knightsbridge or Mayfair.
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    Jan 19, 2014 6:01 AM GMT
    The creepy gym stalkers are the ones that wear sunglasses. We've got a few of them at my gym. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 6:53 AM GMT
    xrichx saidThe creepy gym stalkers are the ones that wear sunglasses. We've got a few of them at my gym. icon_neutral.gif


    Sunglasses at the gym???

    I don't think I would be able to hide my laughter unless the guy looked like he was blind and with a red tipped cane, or horribly disfigured.

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    Jan 19, 2014 7:01 AM GMT
    He was naked, that's the creepy/gay part. Couldnt you wait until he got some clothes on?
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    Jan 19, 2014 7:07 AM GMT
    There's a guy that talks to me at the gym. He's really sweet. Maybe when my body is more in league with his I'll feel a bit more open/confident. Pretty sure he bats for our team, anyway.
    Then again maybe not. LIFE. WHY MUST YOU MYSTIFY ME SO??
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    Jan 19, 2014 8:56 AM GMT
    I usually don't like being disturbed when doing my routine either. However, afterwards in the locker rooms or showers, a lot of guys strike up conversations and I don't mind then.
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    Jan 19, 2014 9:40 AM GMT
    fable saidugh southwark is horrendous


    Bad experience at XXL? I have gone to The Ring a few times recently, unfortunately last time my friend was trying to get in a fight with some Milwall fans icon_eek.gif
  • shakeitout85

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    Jan 19, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    David3000 saidHe was naked, that's the creepy/gay part. Couldnt you wait until he got some clothes on?


    i couldnt help myself. words just sort of popped out my mouth as he was drying himself
  • shakeitout85

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    Jan 19, 2014 6:04 PM GMT
    Chainers saidYou made a move, he didn't respond. Leave it at that.

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    you're totally right. damn
  • Fable

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    Jan 20, 2014 12:52 AM GMT
    Ohno said
    fable saidugh southwark is horrendous


    Bad experience at XXL? I have gone to The Ring a few times recently, unfortunately last time my friend was trying to get in a fight with some Milwall fans icon_eek.gif



    xxl is fun what are you talking about. I wish it was still by london bridge haha that venue was fun.
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    Jan 20, 2014 1:04 AM GMT
    I'm pretty forward at the gym when it comes to meeting guys I'm attracted to but I have to ask to be sure... you asked a naked *stranger* to work out with you?