Dude, Why can't I find an attractive guy around my age?

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    Jan 19, 2014 8:44 AM GMT
    I might just be a hopeless romantic but why is it so hard for me to find someone to date that is my age. I understand that I look super young and kind of boyish but I'm a 20 year old man. The only people that really hit on me are guys in their 40's. How do I repel the creepy guys and gain the sexy young guys? Any suggestions? Any young guys have the same problems?
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    Jan 19, 2014 8:50 AM GMT
    hawt20 saidI might just be a hopeless romantic but why is it so hard for me to find someone to date that is my age. I understand that I look super young and kind of boyish but I'm a 20 year old man. The only people that really hit on me are guys in their 40's. How do I repel the creepy guys and gain the sexy young guys? Any suggestions? Any young guys have the same problems?

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    Jan 19, 2014 8:58 AM GMT
    Enzothgreat, "Well, what type of men do you like visually."

    I like guys that are probably way out of my league but I've dated a guy ten years older than me and we were both going on two different paths of life. He was ready to settle and I on the other hand had just began living life. I think that age difference is a really important factor in a relationship.
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    Jan 19, 2014 9:36 AM GMT
    I have the perfect answer for this but unfortunately I am too busy being creepy to help icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 4:36 PM GMT
    hawt20 saidThe only people that really hit on me are guys in their 40's. How do I repel the creepy guys and gain the sexy young guys?
    With your ageism and superficiality you're most of the way there. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    Boo hoo. Focus on your studies, kid. You don't want to be like me, knocking on 30's door still 15 credits away from a Bachelor's and working internships. Focus! The boys will come later. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 4:48 PM GMT
    EnzotheGreat saidwell, what type of men do you like visually?


    I'm guessing... you. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    hawt20 saidI might just be a hopeless romantic but why is it so hard for me to find someone to date that is my age. I understand that I look super young and kind of boyish but I'm a 20 year old man. The only people that really hit on me are guys in their 40's. How do I repel the creepy guys and gain the sexy young guys? Any suggestions? Any young guys have the same problems?


    They might not have been attracted to your youth. Some guys are just into bump'n ugly.
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    Jan 19, 2014 5:17 PM GMT
    Guys in their 40's are hot so you're missing out bro! Oh well, more for me icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 19, 2014 5:27 PM GMT
    Move to a city.
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    Jan 19, 2014 5:47 PM GMT
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    How do I repel the creepy guys and gain the sexy young guys? Ya know....like ME.
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    Jan 19, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    Don't grow in despair, as an advice someone your age, live your life now, study, get a job, you will find someone when you least expect it.
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    Jan 19, 2014 6:36 PM GMT
    Generally speaking, gay people have twice the requirements of straight people with one tenth the dating pool.
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    Jan 19, 2014 10:42 PM GMT
    Sorry but guys your age are only interested in older guys.