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  • jnick91776

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    Jan 19, 2014 8:35 PM GMT
    This is what my boyfriend said after 4 years –
    I care about you. I’m asking you to please let me go as I would like to see other people. There is someone I want to get to know. Whom he is dating. I would like to still go out with you every now and then but right now, I just need space. Please understand. This is already hard for me.-
    We did not live together. I was the first guy he was with. He lives with his family that does not know he’s gay. He’s 33 and I’m 50. I’m the first guy he’s been with. We only spent the weekends -Friday night to Sunday night together at my place. He knows I love him but he does not use the “L” word because he thinks it’s too strong. I told him I will be here for him. He wants me to part of his life. He said he saw the possibility of us getting back together. I sent him two love song videos. Was that wrong? I do want him back even though it was a strange and unique relationship and many friends say they would not be involved in. Hopeful or give up?
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    Jan 19, 2014 10:54 PM GMT
    Give it up! By asking you to let him go, he's no longer interested in your relationship. Also, he's never said that he loved you...that means he cares for you as a person but that's about it. You need to end it with him and go your separate ways.
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    Jan 19, 2014 11:05 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidGive it up! By asking you to let him go, he's no longer interested in your relationship. Also, he's never said that he loved you...that means he cares for you as a person but that's about it. You need to end it with him and go your separate ways.


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    Jan 19, 2014 11:46 PM GMT
    He doesn't really love you that much, maybe just Like you! Sorry to be harsh! I think part of it is - he want to slut/date/ go crazy in his 30s.... since you're his only first or he just got bored with you! Maybe the age difference is a factor, who knows the reason behind it! You can't force him to love you back if he's not willing to do that. And don't make songs or do anymore romantic gestures, it makes you look desperate and he will back off more.

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    Jan 20, 2014 3:15 AM GMT
    socalx10 saidYou can't force him to love you back if he's not willing to do that. And don't make songs or do anymore romantic gestures, it makes you look desperate and he will back off more.


    This!!!
    And I'd think twice about seeing someone who posts that they're 50 but has a profile showing a younger age. icon_rolleyes.gif