Vers guys, how do you choose top or bottom?

  • madsexy

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    Jan 23, 2014 1:26 AM GMT
    I've often been intrigued at how the versatile guys who say "it depends on the guy" choose top or bottom. I get if you're versatile and go with it if you are with a top or bottom, so you take the other "end". But a lot of guys say it depends on the guy, so I'm inferring this means the guy inspires you to either top him or bottom for him. I'm curious what it is about the guy that attracts you to top him or bottom for him.

    Discuss!

    (And of course, most of you know, I'm 110% bottom, which is why I don't understand this!)
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    Jan 23, 2014 5:47 AM GMT
    What they mean is:

    You must be at least this big
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    to get on this ride
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    Jan 23, 2014 6:42 AM GMT
    Well, I've never understood how guys could be exclusively top or bottom. In the days when I was dating, if I met someone I was attracted to, I just wanted to be with him - without any thought of what we were going to do in bed. Maybe because I was more relationship-oriented - always looking for someone who might turn out to be a BF, and being top or bottom didn't figure into it. Fucking isn't the be all and end all of sex for me - it is just one thing we might do. I have had beaucoup sexual encounters where there was no fucking - climax coming from either oral or jacking off. For me, nothing was ever planned ahead of time. If a hot guy approached me in a bar and said something like, "I really want to fuck you;" or, "I really want you to fuck me," I would be turned off, because I was never looking for either - I was always looking for a sexual connection with someone, but not that specific. Whether a sexual encounter ended in fucking would not be known ahead of time. If a guy had a real strong desire to be fucked, I would accommodate it. Sometimes seeing a beautiful bubble butt would instill an urge in me to fuck. Sometimes in the heat of sex, a guy would express a desire to fuck me, and I went along with it. Otherwise, what happened, happened.
  • Apparition

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    Jan 23, 2014 8:49 AM GMT
    you make it the stakes in the game that day. you go to the gym, play your sport, and loser bottoms.
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    Jan 23, 2014 10:27 AM GMT
    Depend on my mood, If the guy is bigger, stronger, a little older than me ... if I'm feeling lazy, tired and not super horny. I don't want to do any work and he has a nice dick, sure, I'll bottom.

    If I'm feeling horny and want to suck a hot dick and feel some nice butt. And the guy is smaller (in penis size too), younger, has a cute bubble butt! I'll top!!
  • madsexy

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    Jan 24, 2014 1:46 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidWhat they mean is:

    You must be at least this big
    8========>
    to get on this ride
    icon_wink.gif

    HAHAHA now THAT I get! Difference is, I just throw back the under-limit ones! icon_wink.gif
  • madsexy

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    Jan 24, 2014 1:47 AM GMT
    Apparition saidyou make it the stakes in the game that day. you go to the gym, play your sport, and loser bottoms.

    I'm very good at intentionally "losing". icon_twisted.gif