Are these red flags on my second date??

  • scottteal

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    Jan 24, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
    In a nutshell..

    Met a guy online - he wanted to meet for a coffee - but first - after his 'church'. OK - no judging on my part. Agreed we'd like to meet again.

    I rang him two days later - said he'd call me back that night. He didn't - just texted to say we could both go to his church on Sunday - then lunch. Which I did.

    On second date he also told me about his very fractured family - Mum bipolar, three husbands, suicide attempt. He coped by 'going into his head' a lot...

    I called him two days later. His phone rang out - he doesn't have voicemail - but he would have seen I had called.

    I rang him the next day from a private number - he picked up and we had a casual chat. Asked if he had time to catch up on the weekend - he said 'yep' - but he didn't know a time - said he will 'text' me with one...


    Soooo - what the hell is all this behaviour? Things just don't seem 'normal' to me. Any opinions?

    Thanks Scott



  • Midas426

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    Jan 24, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidMove on.
    +1
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    Jan 24, 2014 6:16 AM GMT
    I'm just wondering if the OP thought that going to church with this guy was the first date! icon_surprised.gif
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    Jan 24, 2014 11:33 AM GMT
    scottteal said


    Soooo - what the hell is all this behaviour?




    He's not that into you; or he's a loser.
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    Jan 24, 2014 12:14 PM GMT
    Midas426 said
    woodsmen saidMove on.
    +1


    +1
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    Jan 24, 2014 3:25 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidMove on.

    This.
    Plus, the troll who started this is not really that bright, so maybe, stick with this nutcase, seems like a perfect match.
  • scottteal

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    Jan 24, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    Wow - why do you think I'm not that bright?
  • PolitiMAC

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    Jan 24, 2014 10:56 PM GMT
    scottteal saidWow - why do you think I'm not that bright?


    A lot of people here are really truly that rude to complete strangers.

    If you wanna stick around RJ, get ready for a lot more if you want to think outside Leftist and Politically Correct thought processes icon_wink.gif

    ...Well, it's not that negative. But close icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 24, 2014 10:58 PM GMT
    Midas426 said
    woodsmen saidMove on.
    +1

    A flake, is a flake, is a flake.
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    Jan 25, 2014 2:51 AM GMT
    First date - Church (strike 1)
    Talked wrongly and seem to hate his family (strike 2)
    Did not return or pick up your text/call (strike 3)

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    Jan 26, 2014 3:53 AM GMT
    PolitiNerd said
    scottteal saidWow - why do you think I'm not that bright?


    A lot of people here are really truly that rude to complete strangers.

    If you wanna stick around RJ, get ready for a lot more if you want to think outside Leftist and Politically Correct thought processes icon_wink.gif

    ...Well, it's not that negative. But close icon_biggrin.gif


    Well that guy is rude every post I read his response to.

    Anyway next him. :-)