Daelin saidBECAUSE THEY WANT SEX WITH MORE MEN THAN JUST THEIR OWN PARTNER!
pablomarko123 saidI personally believe open relationships are for the more 'sluttier individuals' if you truly love someone then how could you even consider sharing them with someone else. Ive often noticed that long term older gay couples sometime down the road allow for an open relationship why is this? why can't gay couple stay monogomous like most straight couples?"Stay monogamous like most straight couples". You should really try livin on earth...think you might like it...
Daelin saidBECAUSE THEY WANT SEX WITH MORE MEN THAN JUST THEIR OWN PARTNER!
Destinharbor saidWhy is it the stupid, craven, photo-less, profile-less guys always feel the need, the right, to make judgmental questions? I personally believe guys who have no profile or pics to be the castrated scum of infected slave traders.
eb925guy saidSeriously, with ALL the topics on this subject and you couldn't search ANY of them to find the answer to your question? You're young and when you grow up and actually have a relationship, then return and ask your question. Until then, use the search option in the forum section to educate yourself on what others have already posted a million times…..good luck. Oh and one more thing….we're gay, we don't want to be like straight couples because half of them end up divorcing anyway….their perfect monogamous relationships really suck!
Destinharbor saidWhy is it the stupid, craven, photo-less, profile-less guys always feel the need, the right, to make judgmental questions? I personally believe guys who have no profile or pics to be the castrated scum of infected slave traders.
Varus saideb925guy saidSeriously, with ALL the topics on this subject and you couldn't search ANY of them to find the answer to your question? You're young and when you grow up and actually have a relationship, then return and ask your question. Until then, use the search option in the forum section to educate yourself on what others have already posted a million times…..good luck. Oh and one more thing….we're gay, we don't want to be like straight couples because half of them end up divorcing anyway….their perfect monogamous relationships really suck!
that's nasty. You're basically saying all gay men are built like savage animals. Just face it, guys (gay or straight) who mess around while having a partner is, as others mentioned above- a slut, no matter what angle you look at it.
eb925guy saidDestinharbor saidWhy is it the stupid, craven, photo-less, profile-less guys always feel the need, the right, to make judgmental questions? I personally believe guys who have no profile or pics to be the castrated scum of infected slave traders.
Well, he's just a child….at 21 he doesn't know how to search the forum, he's stuck on an island between the Pacific Ocean and the India Ocean, probably has little internet access and clearly no internet etiquette as evident by his 'screaming' topic! Give him a break, let's all welcome him to RJ then we can belittle him to death!
eb925guy saidVarus saideb925guy saidSeriously, with ALL the topics on this subject and you couldn't search ANY of them to find the answer to your question? You're young and when you grow up and actually have a relationship, then return and ask your question. Until then, use the search option in the forum section to educate yourself on what others have already posted a million times…..good luck. Oh and one more thing….we're gay, we don't want to be like straight couples because half of them end up divorcing anyway….their perfect monogamous relationships really suck!
that's nasty. You're basically saying all gay men are built like savage animals. Just face it, guys (gay or straight) who mess around while having a partner is, as others mentioned above- a slut, no matter what angle you look at it.
Nope, won't admit it because I think you're totally wrong. A slut is someone who just hooks up with whomever and has meaningless sex. Everyone thinks that a guy in a relationship does that. That's, from what I've heard, not the case. Most guys that seem to want to open the relationship, do hookup with others (single or couple) but seem to do a little more filtering for someone they can connect with than a slut would.
You seem to just want the gay world to mimic the str8 world. That's great, let's do that and then the divorce attorneys can get rich off of us too. Nope, nothing wrong with communicating partners opening up their relationships for sexual reasons with boundaries and agreed conditions. Guys like you will only understand that when you grow up and actually have a long term relationship. Even if you never have it open, you'll still learn from the experience why guys open them up and they're successful despite your desires to ignore the needs.
is the stupidest thing one can do. I personally think it's pretty foul. 
Myol saidGay MALE couples tend to have very high open rates. Not lesbian nor straight couples. Guys are hornier than women and are wired to think about sex frequently. Guys also tend to have lower emotional intelligence. So much of sex and relationships is about communication and satiation of needs and emotions. So it makes sense if you have two guys together, that there might be a higher degree of leakage between the two of them which increases the need(for some) or desire (for others) to seek alternatives.
E.g.
For some guys it's about having sex with as many hot guys as they can before they get old.
For others it's about not being complementary in bed or wanting even more.
There are other reasons too.
jmusmc85 saidI have seen just as many open relationships fail as I have seen monogamous ones.
What it boils down to is that men are by nature, more sexual creatures. Gay or straight. We want to breed and have our basic sexual instincts satisfied. Gay men in general, tend to be more open minded on issues of sexuality and love. So when two especially horny especially open minded individuals come together....you get an open relationship.
We shouldn't judge a couple by what they do in the bedroom. It's none of our business. And what works for one couple may not for another. And that's fine too.
Whatever happened to live and let live????
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