eb925guy saidSeriously, with ALL the topics on this subject and you couldn't search ANY of them to find the answer to your question? You're young and when you grow up and actually have a relationship, then return and ask your question. Until then, use the search option in the forum section to educate yourself on what others have already posted a million times…..good luck. Oh and one more thing….we're gay, we don't want to be like straight couples because half of them end up divorcing anyway….their perfect monogamous relationships really suck!
that's nasty. You're basically saying all gay men are built like savage animals. Just face it, guys (gay or straight) who mess around while having a partner is, as others mentioned above- a slut, no matter what angle you look at it.
Nope, won't admit it because I think you're totally wrong. A slut is someone who just hooks up with whomever and has meaningless sex. Everyone thinks that a guy in a relationship does that. That's, from what I've heard, not the case. Most guys that seem to want to open the relationship, do hookup with others (single or couple) but seem to do a little more filtering for someone they can connect with than a slut would.
You seem to just want the gay world to mimic the str8 world. That's great, let's do that and then the divorce attorneys can get rich off of us too. Nope, nothing wrong with communicating partners opening up their relationships for sexual reasons with boundaries and agreed conditions. Guys like you will only understand that when you grow up and actually have a long term relationship. Even if you never have it open, you'll still learn from the experience why guys open them up and they're successful despite your desires to ignore the needs.
Lol, most of the guys that I knew said they only go into open relationships because they go in it for the sex, and that emotionally investing in someone who is already "committed"
is the stupidest thing one can do. I personally think it's pretty foul.
I'm not here to mimic anything or anyone, but monogamy is being with one person and monogamy applies to both gay and the straight world.
I think opening relationships just shows you're greedy, and is derived by your lust. Which by far is some of the most unattractive qualities any person can possess.