Weird "Fear"

  • Joeyphx444

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    Jan 27, 2014 2:09 AM GMT
    I have this weird, I guess you could call it "fear" when I am talking to a guy I am interested in and I feel as if I need to ask him to meet or on a date first. I don't mean as soon as possible after he/I messages but fairly quickly.

    I just feel like if I don't ask him first, then he may never ask me and we will never meet. Or that he will get taken by someone else before we even get to meeet (and that has actually happened) That probably means he is not interested right? But then me not asking may come off as I am not interested icon_razz.gif I don't know if this is insecurity or what. Anyone else think like this or have this problem? Or at least know what I am talking about lol

    I have tried to never bring it up but I still get anxious and worried about it. The same thing goes with just keeping in touch with people. I guess I am setting myself up for one-sided relationships
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    Jan 27, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    Are you saying that you dont want to be the one who "cares more" ?
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    Jan 27, 2014 2:26 AM GMT
    I guess not icon_confused.gif
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jan 27, 2014 2:28 AM GMT
    CopperDevil saidAre you saying that you dont want to be the one who "cares more" ?


    I want to be the one who cares just as much as the other person

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    Jan 27, 2014 3:35 AM GMT
    When in doubt, reach out.
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    Jan 27, 2014 3:59 AM GMT
    Joeyphx444 said
    CopperDevil saidAre you saying that you dont want to be the one who "cares more" ?


    I want to be the one who cares just as much as the other person


    It's hard to measure.