woodsmen saidI think the OP is promoting fitlad.
The thought had crossed my mind. And I did check it out and did join for free. But I join many gay social sites, dropping some after a while, keeping others. I'll do the same with Fitlads.
Being based in Scotland with a largely UK & Continental membership I can't envision myself becoming very active there. They do have a multi-lingual feature, which is nice, but nothing for US English. So right away there's a language barrier problem, since I don't speak Brit, and my French & German get weaker by the year.
One of the special pleasures of US sites like RJ is being able to meet members in person, something I likely won't experience with an offshore site. And also having first-hand knowledge of local places, activities, travel, events, etc, that we can discuss and share info about.
I can see Fitlads being one of those "back of the shelf" resources that I infrequently draw upon when needed.