Should I confront my ex?

  • popobtc

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    Jan 30, 2014 5:14 AM GMT
    I have been thinking about confronting my ex about a rumor I heard, that he cheated on me. Normally I would side with my ex but I have no reason not to believe the person that told me the rumor as well as some suspicious behavior during our relationship began to make me question.

    At this point I am completely over him, he has a new boyfriend and so do I. I just really want to know if there is any merit to what I have been hearing.

    Why should I care anymore? I think that it is foolish to throw away a friendship with someone who was compatible enough to have a relationship with for over a year. If the rumors are completely inaccurate then I would very much like to retain our friendship. (Which seems to be one sided in my direction but I’m willing to give it time)

    What if I ask him and he lies? I would hope that my extensive experiences with him will enable me to discern if he is or is not telling me the truth. He also has no idea that I would even ask him, so the element of surprise should aid me in deciphering his response as well.

    I don’t plan to embarrass him in front of his new boyfriend or friends, nor do I intend on getting upset. I just want to be informed so I can make the best decision moving forward.


    What should I do? What would you do? Do I ask him? Or not?
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    Jan 30, 2014 5:15 AM GMT
    TL : DR

    But either way, CUT THAT BITCH!!!icon_mad.gif
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    Jan 30, 2014 5:16 AM GMT
    He's your ex, move on.
  • WhoDey

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    Jan 30, 2014 5:23 AM GMT
    Your profile says you're single
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    Jan 30, 2014 5:24 AM GMT
    CUT HER!!!!!icon_mad.gif
  • theonewhoknoc...

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    Jan 30, 2014 5:32 AM GMT
    Have you guys never been friends with your ex's??
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    Jan 30, 2014 5:51 AM GMT
    Reads to me of a situation that could easily backfire, but some dudes are into drama--life is to boring.



    and...
    theonewhoknocks saidHave you guys never been friends with your ex's??

    NO!!!
    once you've ripped someones heart out and stomped it into the ground, hanging out is just rude.
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    Jan 30, 2014 5:54 AM GMT
    SLICE HER OPEN!!! MAKE HER PAY!!!icon_mad.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 30, 2014 6:02 AM GMT
    Yes he cheated on you and it is in the past so move on and forget about him icon_mad.gif
  • popobtc

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    Jan 31, 2014 3:14 AM GMT
    Alright, Thanks for the input guys, I'll let it go.
  • Webster666

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    Jan 31, 2014 3:21 AM GMT
    YES, let it go.