Jan 30, 2014 5:14 AM GMT
I have been thinking about confronting my ex about a rumor I heard, that he cheated on me. Normally I would side with my ex but I have no reason not to believe the person that told me the rumor as well as some suspicious behavior during our relationship began to make me question.
At this point I am completely over him, he has a new boyfriend and so do I. I just really want to know if there is any merit to what I have been hearing.
Why should I care anymore? I think that it is foolish to throw away a friendship with someone who was compatible enough to have a relationship with for over a year. If the rumors are completely inaccurate then I would very much like to retain our friendship. (Which seems to be one sided in my direction but I’m willing to give it time)
What if I ask him and he lies? I would hope that my extensive experiences with him will enable me to discern if he is or is not telling me the truth. He also has no idea that I would even ask him, so the element of surprise should aid me in deciphering his response as well.
I don’t plan to embarrass him in front of his new boyfriend or friends, nor do I intend on getting upset. I just want to be informed so I can make the best decision moving forward.
What should I do? What would you do? Do I ask him? Or not?
At this point I am completely over him, he has a new boyfriend and so do I. I just really want to know if there is any merit to what I have been hearing.
Why should I care anymore? I think that it is foolish to throw away a friendship with someone who was compatible enough to have a relationship with for over a year. If the rumors are completely inaccurate then I would very much like to retain our friendship. (Which seems to be one sided in my direction but I’m willing to give it time)
What if I ask him and he lies? I would hope that my extensive experiences with him will enable me to discern if he is or is not telling me the truth. He also has no idea that I would even ask him, so the element of surprise should aid me in deciphering his response as well.
I don’t plan to embarrass him in front of his new boyfriend or friends, nor do I intend on getting upset. I just want to be informed so I can make the best decision moving forward.
What should I do? What would you do? Do I ask him? Or not?
