Jan 30, 2014 5:28 AM GMT
Do you have friends you occassionally have sleep over, cuddle with, but you don't have sex?
Fivealive saidI had a straight buddy whom I knew back in Uni. I was pretty sure he was a little curious but we never kissed or did anything remotely boner inducing (ok maybe there were boner inducing that we probably took a blind eye to)
We just chilled around , smoked joints , play video games and then cuddle around and talk about everything.
He just wanted to be in a safe environment and I never took advantage of that.
YourName2000 saidTouch is so important. We've pretty much weened it out of today's Western society, especially for men. But like dogs, cats, and pretty much every other social animal, we have very positive physiological reactions to being touched. And people who are touched less are more likely to fall into depression. So seek out touch --hugs, touches, or better yet cuddling--wherever you can get it. Sure, it's easy to conflate it for sexual foreplay, but just appreciate it on its own for what it is and try and get more of it.
whytehot saidOnly straight friends or girls. Otherwise it's too weird.