Grosed out after cumming

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    Dec 16, 2008 9:37 PM GMT
    Hi guys. Im 21 and never had a bf or sex befor. And i was wondering usualy after i cummed when jacking off im not horny any more so do you feel the same when you are having real sex with a guy or is it different?
  • jeffper1

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    Dec 16, 2008 9:50 PM GMT
    for me different.....sometimes like to cuddle or chat little...some times like to roll over and 'leave me the fuck alone now'. but definitely different than when you are alone jacking off. at that time...there is no one there...but yourself.
    in time you will find the difference...
    as men....the stigma is to 'leave me alone' cuz, i think, sometimes the orgasm takes so much out of men. but don't have to be that way. I do like to cuddle and say 'thank you' or 'i love you'.
    have fun finding your way
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    Dec 16, 2008 9:55 PM GMT
    If I don't really care for a guy I'm with, I tend to just want nothing more after we come. If I do care for the guy I'm with however, I usually want to hold him close, and enjoy the afterglow together.
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    Dec 16, 2008 10:47 PM GMT
    If the guys hot and was good, I want to keep him around for another go at it.icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 16, 2008 11:13 PM GMT
    Once I cum I push the guy off me and watch he-man then pass out.

    Or cuddling after sex, but usually when you cum its done.
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    Dec 17, 2008 8:35 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 said If I do care for the guy I'm with however, I usually want to hold him close, and enjoy the afterglow together.


    awe thats the so cute
  • Koaa2

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    Dec 17, 2008 11:41 AM GMT
    I think part of the reason for cumming is to relieve that horny feeling. The situation will depend on what you do after cumming as some of the guys have mentioned. There are all types of different feelings to explore, either by yourself or with someone. Enjoy!

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    Dec 19, 2008 9:28 PM GMT
    Definitely depends on emotional attachment or not. Hookups I've typically laughed with the fella a bit and then just wanted to be done...

    ...but with my boyfriend, as time went on, the attachment after sex got longer and longer, where we just lay there and look at each other, kiss, and just enjoy each other... then we clean up and cuddle all night if its before bed, or we go conquer the world if its day sex hehehe icon_lol.gif
  • zakariahzol

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    Dec 19, 2008 10:13 PM GMT
    Depend on the situation. If I am doing it with the men I love , I will hug him, pull him close, put my head on his chest and try to hear his beating heart. Sometimes I get him and my self a drink and start to talk. I will caress his hair, kiss his hand and play with his toes.

    If it just a one nite stand, probably I will at least try to be friendly so we both dont feel like we are sexually using each other. Even if I am with some male prostitute I still maintain some kind of respect for him. I have experience with this guy who chase me all nite long and immediately ask me to leave after we are done. That is rude and he is not that hot to begin with. Talking about regret.
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    Dec 19, 2008 10:40 PM GMT
    Confusis saidHi guys. Im 21 and never had a bf or sex befor. And i was wondering usualy after i cummed when jacking off im not horny any more so do you feel the same when you are having real sex with a guy or is it different?
    I get off with my partner, it is not simple to do, but just hold back and do it together.
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    Dec 20, 2008 12:18 AM GMT
    ONSLAUGHT saidOnce I cum I push the guy off me and watch he-man then pass out.


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    Onslaught, you have officially won my heart. Take me now! icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 20, 2008 2:04 AM GMT
    From my teenage years into my 20s, sometimes after an orgasm a kind of "switch" would get thrown, and instantly I'd experience total revulsion for what had just happened. I really don't think it was psychological, because within about 30 minutes or less I'd be ready to start all over again. Rather, I suspect it was some kind of temporary hormonal thing.

    As I got older this reaction became less frequent, until today it never happens. It seems natural that desire would fade after an orgasm, having achieved what was desired. But anyone ever feel a fundamental 180-degree change, to where sex actually seemed, at least for a few minutes, totally gross?
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    Dec 20, 2008 6:38 AM GMT
    What your experiencing is very typical actually...when there is no feeling involved alot of people claim to get disgusted with the person or want to leave...thats the reaction because you feel nothing for the person and once the sex has occurred "carnal knowledge" has been experienced and you no longer want the person...its largely evolutionary as man is a hunter...once you feel something for the person, its different...its the classical distinction between making love and sex
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    Dec 25, 2008 6:48 PM GMT
    I think it just depends on your mood...

    I had a boyfriend who only had a single bed in student accommodation, sometimes it was great, other times I just wanted to go home.
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    Dec 25, 2008 8:02 PM GMT
    the key thing is to treat the other person with respect. Even if you are never goign to see them again, whatever. My desire normally plummets after cumming, but that does not ever excuse selfish behaviour. Sex is about both of you, even if it´s a one off. You are not the centre of the world.

    And if you hang around then you can get a second go, or maybe that´s just me icon_rolleyes.gif

    ;)

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    Dec 25, 2008 10:55 PM GMT
    Lostboy76 saidthe key thing is to treat the other person with respect. Even if you are never goign to see them again, whatever. My desire normally plummets after cumming, but that does not ever excuse selfish behaviour. Sex is about both of you, even if it´s a one off. You are not the centre of the world.

    And if you hang around then you can get a second go, or maybe that´s just me icon_rolleyes.gif

    ;)



    My desire crashes after cumming to, but I always continue until the other person cums, if they want to.
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Feb 18, 2010 7:41 AM GMT
    Well so far I've only been with hookups so afte I'm done I say okay you can take me home now and he does lol