So I have a bit of an issue.....

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    Jan 31, 2014 4:29 PM GMT
    Hey guys! I'm a young guy in the dating scene. I'm trying to find a scruffy muscle guy to get to know, but they don't seem to want to talk to me. Either I'm not a bear or I'm not muscular enough. I think I'm in good shape, can bench my own body weight and then some, and take care of how I look. Am I doing something wrong? Or just trying too hard? Just wanted thoughts. Thanksicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 31, 2014 4:32 PM GMT
    Your good lookin,it will happen
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    Jan 31, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    miznew201 saidHey guys! I'm a young guy in the dating scene. I'm trying to find a scruffy muscle guy to get to know, but they don't seem to want to talk to me. Either I'm not a bear or I'm not muscular enough. I think I'm in good shape, can bench my own body weight and then some, and take care of how I look. Am I doing something wrong? Or just trying too hard? Just wanted thoughts. Thanksicon_biggrin.gif

    Maybe you need to scruff yourself up a bit, and dress more like the guys that interest you. When I first started dating I wasn't groomed nor dressed like the guys I wanted. So I changed myself and got better results. Actually I had several looks, depending on where I was: motorcycle leather, preppy, and blue collar.
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    Jan 31, 2014 4:51 PM GMT
    what are your main means of trying to meet these scruffy men?
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    Jan 31, 2014 5:26 PM GMT
    Well I am on scruff. Not the best way, but I have gotten a date or two. Also at bars. Bars again is not the best, but more social then a gay app. Still not much success...
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    Jan 31, 2014 8:58 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidGiggles!


    That's it no more nitrous oxide for you icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 31, 2014 11:46 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    miznew201 saidHey guys! I'm a young guy in the dating scene. I'm trying to find a scruffy muscle guy to get to know, but they don't seem to want to talk to me. Either I'm not a bear or I'm not muscular enough. I think I'm in good shape, can bench my own body weight and then some, and take care of how I look. Am I doing something wrong? Or just trying too hard? Just wanted thoughts. Thanksicon_biggrin.gif

    Maybe you need to scruff yourself up a bit, and dress more like the guys that interest you. When I first started dating I wasn't groomed nor dressed like the guys I wanted. So I changed myself and got better results. Actually I had several looks, depending on where I was: motorcycle leather, preppy, and blue collar.


    Giggles.....and you come to RJ dressed as lady Muck.....
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    Feb 01, 2014 1:04 AM GMT
    Lol that's good to know I guess. And why all the giggles?
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    Feb 01, 2014 4:48 AM GMT
    Be patient dude...
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    Feb 01, 2014 7:56 AM GMT
    I am trying. Just isn't working out. Kinda sucks honestly
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    Feb 02, 2014 7:51 AM GMT
    Scruffy muscled guys usually like other muscled guys, buff yourself up! have you tried a bear bar? lol its similar right? !! Arh, it will happen, don't sweat.