What the hell is wrong with me?

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    Jan 31, 2014 8:07 PM GMT
    I mean why I can't find someone to love me unconditionally...
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    Jan 31, 2014 8:08 PM GMT
    Maybe there's something wrong with them.
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    Jan 31, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    You are 19, you've got plenty of time to find find that. It takes patience, because it is not easy to find.
  • tazzari

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    Jan 31, 2014 8:20 PM GMT
    Unconditional love means finding someone you totally trust, and visa-versa. It also means finding someone you are compatible with. In both cases, it's possible that "Mr Right" really needs to be "Mr. Nearly Right," and then you work together to make the relationship good, solid and trusting, and watch it grow.

    It all takes time, and you're young (s you're probably tired of hearing!) Be honest, be you, be generous - and it will come.

    Best of luck!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 31, 2014 8:21 PM GMT
    Get a dog ... only they will give what comes close to unconditional love .... people are more complicated, so it takes work and time ... and work and time include forgiveness, understanding, acceptance, change and whole other variety of giving of yourself
  • Webster666

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    Feb 01, 2014 1:12 AM GMT
    Only dogs love us unconditionally.
    So, please lower your expectations.
  • MikeW

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    Who are you willing to love unconditionally?

    Seriously, we see/hear this all the time. Some young guy wants to know why no one "loves" HIM; but does HE love anyone? Has he ever even tried to? I don't mean had a crush on someone or got the hots for someone, I mean LOVED SOMEONE in the sense of being ready to give up everything, even his own life, for the other. That's love unconditional and until you're ready to love unconditionally, don't expect to be loved unconditionally.
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    Feb 01, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
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  • Astarte

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    Love is not unconditional, but I hope you will find love. You are cute and seem nice.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    SaySomething saidI mean why I can't find someone to love me unconditionally...
    Relax man, you are only 19. What is the hurry with finding someone to love youicon_question.gif
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    Feb 01, 2014 2:52 AM GMT
    SaySomething saidI mean why I can't find someone to love me unconditionally...

    What's wrong with you is that you believe there is such a thing as unconditional love.