Bottoming - advice please

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:02 PM GMT
    I'm new (6 months) to bottoming after having been a top for 17 years.
    Over the last several months, I've been able to condition myself to taking big cocks inside me, so, its not that part that hurts.

    Really, its the constant thrusting. After about 10-15 seconds, I just get bored, and it hurts a bit. So, I squeeze (clamp) down on my partners Tool & try to push it out.

    I want to be able to hold it in longer on multiple thrusts but not sure how.

    Any advice would be most appreciated.
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    Feb 01, 2014 2:07 PM GMT
    jock4u20 saidI'm new (6 months) to bottoming after having been a top for 17 years.
    Over the last several months, I've been able to condition myself to taking big cocks inside me, so, its not that part that hurts.

    Really, its the constant thrusting. After about 10-15 seconds, I just get bored, and it hurts a bit. So, I squeeze (clamp) down on my partners Tool & try to push it out.

    I want to be able to hold it in longer on multiple thrusts but not sure how.

    Any advice would be most appreciated.
    Idk but damn that's hot!!! Woof!!icon_twisted.gif
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:18 PM GMT
    Hey, welcome to the bottoming world!

    I believe daily fingering ,or setting on an upside down chair, to relax your newbie ass is the best answer.

    but I never get the chair leg in more than 1cm , or you might risk breaking your hymen. ...oh, wait, I forgot, you don't a haymen icon_lol.gif so it's OK, you can shove it all the way in!icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Feb 01, 2014 2:23 PM GMT
    Yah then get whomever you're with all horned up and ready to pop during foreplay so they dump their spunk in the 10 to 15 seconds you get board in
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    Feb 01, 2014 2:24 PM GMT
    speaking from experience- it's an acquired taste.
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    Feb 01, 2014 2:26 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidYah then get whomever you're with all horned up and ready to pop during foreplay so they dump their spunk in the 10 to 15 seconds you get board in
    oh lord*gets lube* ok keep going
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    Feb 01, 2014 3:24 PM GMT
    You don't Have to bottom if it isn't for you...
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    Feb 01, 2014 8:35 PM GMT
    _Behemoth_ said
    jo2hotbod saidYah then get whomever you're with all horned up and ready to pop during foreplay so they dump their spunk in the 10 to 15 seconds you get board in
    oh lord*gets lube* ok keep going



    LOLLLLLL!!!!
    You're so toppish, it's hella sexy
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    Feb 07, 2014 8:37 AM GMT
    I HATED bottoming until I met my boyfriend and he didn't want to be the bottom all the time so I had to do it. The key word is "positions", IMO. Trust me, once you've found the right position oh man you can actually enjoy bottoming which is something I thought I'd never say.
    Depending on the top's cock size and shape and the position in which you're having sex, is whether he's gonna be able to hit that spot that makes you go all bananas about having a dick inside of you.
    G'luck!!!!!
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    Feb 07, 2014 12:02 PM GMT
    It's a gift ;)
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    Feb 07, 2014 12:09 PM GMT
    Stick it in your pooper.
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    Feb 07, 2014 12:20 PM GMT
    jock4u20 said...After about 10-15 seconds, I just get bored...


    Then why bother if it doesn't turn you on. I figured that out at 18. Anal sex isn't exactly an acquired taste, ewww. If you don't like it, you don't like it. It's that simple.