Do you think i'm ugly..?

  • Platinum96

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    Feb 01, 2014 11:37 PM GMT
    This guy I know keeps putting me down and shit, saying i'm ugly and I'll never be able to hold a relationship because of it, me and him used to date and he always treated me like this, idek why I stuck around but anyways, this has lowered my self esteem and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'm ugly? Cause' I'm feelin like crap.
  • whytehot

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    Feb 01, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    Better looking than Lorde's boyfriend at least
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    Feb 01, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    Platinum96 saidThis guy I know keeps putting me down and shit, saying i'm ugly and I'll never be able to hold a relationship because of it, me and him used to date and he always treated me like this, idek why I stuck around but anyways, this has lowered my self esteem and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'm ugly? Cause' I'm feelin like crap.


    Do you believe him?
  • Fritter

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    Feb 01, 2014 11:43 PM GMT
    You're a cute kid in my eyes.
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    Feb 01, 2014 11:43 PM GMT

    A person hates you for 1 of 3 reasons.
    1) They want to be you.
    2) They hate themselves.
    3) They see you as a threat.


    So, the guy who is putting you down, belongs to one of these. To answer the original question, nope.
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    Feb 01, 2014 11:56 PM GMT
    Far from it, you're nice looking. What you need to do is cut an obviously negative person out of your life, no one who talks to you like that should be in your life at all.
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    Feb 01, 2014 11:57 PM GMT
    Listen, cutie, if you're going to let shit like that get to you, you're in for a lifetime of hurt.
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    Feb 02, 2014 12:01 AM GMT
    Faaaaake.
  • Platinum96

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    Feb 02, 2014 12:01 AM GMT
    Not even.
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    Feb 02, 2014 12:07 AM GMT
    Nobody 18 is ugly. Ask again when you're (gasp!) 30.

    You're not alone - lots of insecure nice looking guys post these "Am I Ugly?" threads. You can see for yourself, but you'll have trouble finding a basis of comparison because no matter how kind the replies are (and RJ members are unusually nice in responding to these threads) you'll see that almost everyone who asks are now Hidden/Deleted members:

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    Feb 02, 2014 12:07 AM GMT
    Let's ask the Fox... shall we?

    The fox says you're far from ugly...icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 02, 2014 12:15 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidNobody 18 is ugly. Ask again when you're (gasp!) 30.

    You're not alone - lots of insecure nice looking guys post these "Am I Ugly?" threads: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums?searchtext=am+i+ugly

    Pretty sure all those threads were created by one guy.
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    Feb 02, 2014 12:19 AM GMT
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    You dated someone who called you repeatedly ugly!

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    You are far from ugly, I hear people do this to their partners to purposely lower their self esteem to their level so they don't have to worry about being left or cheated on.. and he succeeded icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 02, 2014 12:27 AM GMT
    Platinum96 saidThis guy I know keeps putting me down and shit, saying i'm ugly and I'll never be able to hold a relationship because of it, me and him used to date and he always treated me like this, idek why I stuck around but anyways, this has lowered my self esteem and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'm ugly? Cause' I'm feelin like crap.

    He's trying to control you, and the only reason it even has a tiny shot of working in his favour is because you live in the middle of nowhere in Terrace, BC. Get your cute self to a gay-friendly Canadian city in Western Canada like Vancouver or to Calgary/Edmonton, where it's gotten quite a bit better. You're not likely to find love in Terrace, and I'm not that much more likely to find love in Kelowna, so I'm preaching to myself just as much when I say MOVE AWAY!
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 02, 2014 12:33 AM GMT
    juvenescences said
    Platinum96 saidThis guy I know keeps putting me down and shit, saying i'm ugly and I'll never be able to hold a relationship because of it, me and him used to date and he always treated me like this, idek why I stuck around but anyways, this has lowered my self esteem and I'm just wondering if you guys think I'm ugly? Cause' I'm feelin like crap.

    He's trying to control you, and the only reason it even has a tiny shot of working in his favour is because you live in the middle of nowhere in Terrace, BC. Get your cute self to a gay-friendly Canadian city in Western Canada like Vancouver or to Calgary/Edmonton, where it's gotten quite a bit better. You're not likely to find love in Terrace, and I'm not that much more likely to find love in Kelowna, so I'm preaching to myself just as much when I say MOVE AWAY!

    Totally agree ... he wants to lower your self esteem, so he can control you and you will feel that you are not worthy of someone better .... You are worthy of someone far much better.
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    Feb 02, 2014 8:01 AM GMT
    Stop associating yourself with negative people like that. You need to upload more pictures. From the face of it, you look fine, cute! Nothing to lose your self-esteem over some jackass's comment.
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    Feb 02, 2014 8:16 AM GMT
    U.G.L.Y- U Gotta Love Yourself Smiley
  • uclastud93

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    Feb 02, 2014 8:37 AM GMT
    Hell no bro! Do I gotta get a plane ticket and fly to the UK to kick his butt? Lol
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    Feb 02, 2014 4:30 PM GMT


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    Feb 02, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    no
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    Feb 02, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    hell no, you're cute and good looking
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    Feb 02, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    somersault saidhell no, you're cute and good looking



    Same here. If you're unhappy with your appearance, then take steps to better yourself, however you have a beautiful appearance to start with! Anyone who doesn't accept you for who you are, to hell with them!!
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    Feb 02, 2014 4:50 PM GMT
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    Feb 02, 2014 4:51 PM GMT
    uclastud93 saidHell no bro! Do I gotta get a plane ticket and fly to the UK to kick his butt? Lol


    I've been really bad lately and I have flyer miles!
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    Feb 02, 2014 5:34 PM GMT
    Platinum96 saidNot even.

    If you were real, you would have written "What do you mean?"