Relationships. help

  • texas7t

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    Feb 03, 2014 4:29 AM GMT
    so after 6 years together, I'm more of a romantic type of guy. He dont want a anaversery day as I do.
    he will not put a ring on his finger, As I do.
    Am I asking to much?
    I work a lot, and travel for work. and when I come home, then i still have to clean house.. Is a clean house too much to ask for?
    I ask him about going on a cruise with his daughter who is going to graduate from college, but he cant give any advise on the month and destination.
    He cooks every meal. But he has no romance anymore, not sparkle in the relationship. its more like a roommate situation..
    any advise?
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    Feb 03, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    Ask him, 'If there's no romance, what are we doing?'

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    Feb 03, 2014 4:37 AM GMT
    I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. There were similar dynamics with my partner and we ended up getting divorced once it became clear in couples counseling that he was not willing to work on intimacy issues in our relationship. You and your partner need to try couples counseling because the situation is not fair to you. Good luck. I hope things between you two will work out.
  • Webster666

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    Feb 03, 2014 6:36 AM GMT
    You are not going to change him.
    Go out and find someone who deserves you.
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    Feb 03, 2014 7:03 AM GMT
    Did you try talking to him? Maybe he's waiting for you to end the relationship?
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    Feb 03, 2014 7:21 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidYou are not going to change him.
    Go out and find someone who deserves you.


    From what I learned you can't change a man. I agree go out and find someone who deserves you.
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    Feb 03, 2014 5:40 PM GMT
    has he always been like this? to go six years with no romance at all...ugh, that's a huge sacrifice to yourself on your part.

    a relationship takes a lot of compromises, and they are sometimes very difficult to figure out who is going to compromise/sacrifice. but if you're the one doing it all and he isn't...that's not right in my book.

    only you know your partner through thick and thin...sit him down and talk to him about this stuff.