dozwrh saidI need advice! The AT&T guy who came and installed my internet/TV yesterday was really attractive and I felt like there was a connection. I've been thinking about him all day since he left and I want to ask him out, however I feel weird about the context. I only have his work phone number, which he left; I feel awkward calling him up using that for asking him out since that line is used for work. I think if some random guy called me at my work to ask me out, I might be annoyed. Is it acceptable for me to ask him out? Does any one have experience with this kind of situation? Any advice would be much appreciated!!
ATT standard customer service policy is to "own" the case with the customer, and that includes leaving the work number, and their supervisor's number, in most cases.
In most of these situations, the best policy is to be honest. "I'm gay, and, I think you're cool. Would you like to go out with me?" It's just that very simple.
This past week, one of the guys who is a trainer at LA Fitness was hitting on me with a torso only shot on a hook up app. I told him, as my standard policy, that I don't get involved with the drama of closet cases, and...I don't. About a hour later, I walk into the gym, he walks up, and hugs me, and feels my back and chest (this guy was a college football halfback and is all guy), and I giggle and I say "Dude, you know I'm gay, right." He giggles. I say "You like what you feel?" His reply, "Oh, man, you got it!" Still, he wouldn't fess up, so, I smiled and walked away. True story, happened this past weekend. As I worked out, he was checking me out, as always, and understand, this kid is a STUD, but, if he won't have integrity, I can't have him, and won't have him, in my inner circle. I can tell...I got him thinking about the cost of being a closet case and a lack of personal integrity. That's a very good thing.
Just ask the guy.