How are u suppose to catch Mr. Right when ur no catch urself?.....

  • TannerMasseur

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    Feb 05, 2014 8:27 AM GMT
    Do u honestly think u deserve & can land ur ideal type when u urself are far from ideal?

    I was eating dinner next to a gay guy & his fag hag today & he's telling her how he's so attracted to buff muscular gays with pretty faces & he's adamant about not settling for anything less than what he thinks he deserves. But u take one look at this guy & he's nothing special. Kinda like a nondescript average-looking queeny twink who needs to go to the gym & who's not that pretty in the face himself. And I'm thinking, how's he expect to land his ideal physical type when he's not physically ideal himself?

    And I've heard girls say the same thing, wanting to land their Ideal Mr. Right when they're not all that themselves. Their great expectations just doesn't add up.....

    Do u ever hear people say wishful thinking things & ur like thinking in ur head, "Seriously?! Let's be real." ?
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    Feb 05, 2014 8:33 AM GMT
    yeah because the perfect person for me is not perfect either
  • TannerMasseur

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    Feb 05, 2014 8:43 AM GMT
    Broseph saidHe'll either figure it out or he'll probably stay alone for a long time. Even if you told him he wasn't that great looking he'd probably just get defensive (and not believe you).


    I was sitting a table away from the guy so u couldn't help but hear his rant.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Feb 05, 2014 8:43 AM GMT
    David3000 saidyeah because the perfect person for me is not perfect either


    See, now that's realistic expectations.....
  • TannerMasseur

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    Feb 05, 2014 12:05 PM GMT
    Broseph said
    Tanner saidI was sitting a table away from the guy so u couldn't help but hear his rant.


    Yeah I was just saying I don't think there's anything you could have done to help him icon_smile.gif


    He'll find out for himself soon enough.....
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    Feb 05, 2014 12:34 PM GMT
    Beauty fades with time, a shallow and petty person is forever.
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    Feb 05, 2014 12:40 PM GMT
    He sounds like my best friend....,a guy who loathes the gym and is not in shape but wants dudes who are and is completely picky. Funny thing is it works for him all the guys he has hooked up with are hot so guess it's half attitude. When it doesn't work he complains to me about his weight and I offer help like coming to workout with me or let me help with his diet and he looks at me like I just grew a third horn.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Feb 05, 2014 12:51 PM GMT
    strongbull saidBeauty fades with time, a shallow and petty person is forever.


    Yes, shallowness seems to be a prerequisite in this world.....
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    Feb 05, 2014 3:04 PM GMT
    dont be annoyed to hear expressive people with a lose bad attitude

    its a good thing; just makes it easy to figure that person is phucked up and you have to distance your self from them.

    Once you find these people you can egg them on a little too but you got to have an exit plan and ultimately d-list them.
  • hebrewman

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    Feb 05, 2014 3:12 PM GMT
    this thread really hits home for me now that my body has literally been mutated from cancer "treatment". so much for normal.
  • Nayro

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    Feb 05, 2014 3:16 PM GMT
    The guy doesnt have to be perfect, he has to be perfect for me icon_smile.gif I do really hope I find someone like that. Time will tell..
  • Nayro

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    Feb 05, 2014 3:17 PM GMT
    HEBREWMAN saidthis thread really hits home for me now that my body has literally been mutated from cancer "treatment". so much for normal.


    Im sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best during these hard times!
  • Nayro

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    Feb 05, 2014 3:18 PM GMT
    HEBREWMAN saidthis thread really hits home for me now that my body has literally been mutated from cancer "treatment". so much for normal.


    Im sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best during these hard times!
  • hebrewman

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    Feb 05, 2014 3:19 PM GMT
    Daelin said
    HEBREWMAN saidthis thread really hits home for me now that my body has literally been mutated from cancer "treatment". so much for normal.


    Im sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best during these hard times!


    thanks man. it's my pup that's keeping me alive right now.
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    Feb 05, 2014 3:19 PM GMT
    I hear you but there are plenty of cases of hotties with avg or uglies.I am dating myself but remember Ric Ocasek and the hottie he married.Almost everyone eventually gets the message that looks and a hot body are not everything.Looks fade bodies do sag and unless you have a 100,000 for plastic surgery at 55 you are going to look your age.Now if someone is a total troll his or her chances of nabbing a hottie are slim to none unless they have mucho dinero.icon_smile.gif Ry
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    Feb 05, 2014 5:00 PM GMT
    Are you asking about "Mr Right" or "Mr Perfect?"
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    Feb 05, 2014 5:03 PM GMT
    Daelin saidThe guy doesnt have to be perfect, he has to be perfect for me icon_smile.gif I do really hope I find someone like that. Time will tell..
    @Daelin - I'm sure you will (but you might have to settle for "almost perfect.")
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    Feb 05, 2014 5:04 PM GMT
    Just someone normal who shares the same interests would be nice. No crack pot cookery shit. No slut or man whore shit.
    ...Just someone funny and normal who likes to travel. You think finding a guy like that wouldn't be so hard...
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    Feb 05, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    HEBREWMAN saidthis thread really hits home for me now that my body has literally been mutated from cancer "treatment". so much for normal.

    Stay strong man!
  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 05, 2014 5:31 PM GMT
    The gay community does seem to be littered with these queeny little bitches. But the funny thing is so is the straight community on the female side. How many ads aimed at women have tag lines like..."Because you're worth it." or "Because you deserve nothing but the best." "Because you deserve it." I just imagine some fat blimp of a cow wallowing on the couch thinking "Yes, I deserve nothing but the best" while choking down her chocolate ice cream.
  • SomeSiciliano...

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    Feb 05, 2014 5:41 PM GMT

    Straight guys do it to. Only caveat is they are willing to lower their standards to breasts, vagina and pulse when it comes to a one-nighter. I totally agree with Destin...
    #EntitlementNation icon_evil.gif
  • Amelorn

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    Feb 05, 2014 5:45 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidThe gay community does seem to be littered with these queeny little bitches. But the funny thing is so is the straight community on the female side. How many ads aimed at women have tag lines like..."Because you're worth it." or "Because you deserve nothing but the best." "Because you deserve it." I just imagine some fat blimp of a cow wallowing on the couch thinking "Yes, I deserve nothing but the best" while choking down her chocolate ice cream.



    I just choked on my tea! icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 05, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidThe gay community does seem to be littered with these queeny little bitches. But the funny thing is so is the straight community on the female side. How many ads aimed at women have tag lines like..."Because you're worth it." or "Because you deserve nothing but the best." "Because you deserve it." I just imagine some fat blimp of a cow wallowing on the couch thinking "Yes, I deserve nothing but the best" while choking down her chocolate ice cream.

    So true.
    I remember dating girls in high school and finding them bitchy.
    I thought that I'd settle for a little companionship and asked out less attractive girls because maybe they'd appreciate me more.
    They were just as bitchy.
  • BlackRussian1...

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    Feb 05, 2014 6:05 PM GMT
    Well women do this too but there's an age at which they significantly lower their standards as they realize they may end up a spinster. Gay men on the other hand, good god, the sense of entitlement doesn't end until the 50's does it? Prob gays have always been picky/delusional, but apps have made them even worse, ugh.

    There is no such thing as "perfect" only perfect for you.
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    Feb 05, 2014 6:19 PM GMT
    Most guys grow out of this shit though. It's that or face being chronically single.

    Don't judge them too harshly though. They've been told their whole lives by the media/gay culture this is what they are supposed to want.

    Besides if guys like this didn't exist rent boys everywhere would be out of work. icon_lol.gif