Do you ever play-act during sex? What's your favorite fantasy?

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    Dec 18, 2008 3:13 PM GMT
    Replying to another thread made me remember one BF who used to love to play act before we had sex. One of his recurring fantasies was encountering another guy in a locker room, then striking up a casual conversation that got hotter and hotter, until they were undressing each other and going at it. Sometimes shorts, jock or towel would stay on for most or all of the sex. Sorta like you see in lots of gay porn videos.

    Well, I usually got to be the guy who walks in while he was sitting in the "locker room" (normally his bedroom), both of us dressed in gym clothes, or I had just entered from the (actual) shower wearing a towel. Problem was, I'm not good at these kinds of fantasies, have trouble inventing the dialogue, or even reacting to lines like "looks like you're pretty hung under that towel, buddy." But he'd get mad if I didn't play along fully with him.

    He's the only guy who ever got that involved in fantasy scenes with me. Run into that much before yourselves, think they're popular? Have some favorites?
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    Dec 18, 2008 5:27 PM GMT
    One of my fantasies is to have sex while skydiving, falling, god only knows how many feet per second, and my final deep thrust would be just after opening the parachute. My sex partner would rain cum down upon the earth. From his seed would grow a thousand thousand handsome gay men that would populate the earth with sex-loving, sky-diving oficiandos. I have yet to find the guy who is willing to try this.

    As for play acting during sex, hmmm, is slapping and spanking him with my tool a form of play acting, it seems pretty real when I do it.

    I do remember ages ago I knew of this guy that would run through the hallways of the bathhouse in a nurse’s uniform with a very short skirt on and his bum hanging out. But I was too preoccupied with laughing to play doctor.
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    Dec 18, 2008 5:36 PM GMT
    alexander7 saidI do remember ages ago I knew of this guy that would run through the hallways of the bathhouse in a nurse’s uniform with a very short skirt on and his bum hanging out. But I was too preoccupied with laughing to play doctor.


    LOL! I really don't know if that's more fetish than fantasy. The definition of those 2 terms is kinda blurred in popular usage.

    Sexual fetish used to be mostly about particular objects or behaviors not normally associated with sexual pleasure. But would incorporating these into involved scenarios become a fantasy? I dunno... I'll accept either for this thread.
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    Dec 18, 2008 5:40 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidhaha... Since Todd used to work on a boat as a crewmember, he'll wear his uniform and pretend to be the cabin attendent and a sexy customer (me). icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif


    Yeah, uniform fantasies (and fetishes) seem to be popular. That's another one this same BF used to do with me, getting me to put on my old Army uniforms. He also liked me in professional business attire, tie & jacket, with a BJ through the zipper of my trousers, otherwise fully dressed.
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    Dec 18, 2008 5:58 PM GMT
    A couple of guys have wanted me to "talk dirty" to them or "dominate" them. The problem is that it takes all my attention to think of what to say, instead of having sex.

    A couple of times, I put a guy to work doing farm chores, then when my work was finished, I interrupted him for a little hanky panky. Role-playing? Nah, I got some useful work out of the guy!
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:19 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidA couple of guys have wanted me to "talk dirty" to them or "dominate" them. The problem is that it takes all my attention to think of what to say, instead of having sex.


    Agreed, just a distraction & delay to me. But some guys want & need all these window dressings. I generally find them both comical & annoying.
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:35 PM GMT
    Helga She Wolf of the SS.

    I'm bread, butter me baby.

    Oops I pooped my diaper mommy.

    The nodding old man drools on his chin.


    These are just a few of the endless variety of games I enjoy (the ones requiring less equipment).

    If I can get the chorus right I like a good Wangerian Orgy set to Sigfried, but that really is a lot of work.
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:42 PM GMT
    ursamajor saidHelga She Wolf of the SS.
    I'm bread, butter me baby.
    Oops I pooped my diaper mommy.
    The nodding old man drools on his chin.
    If I can get the chorus right I like a good Wangerian Orgy set to Sigfried, but that really is a lot of work.


    These were good ones. TROTFLMAOicon_lol.gificon_eek.gif
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:45 PM GMT
    no, but a guy who looked a lot like Jim Henson asked me how I felt about fisting.
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:46 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidno, but a guy who looked a lot like Jim Henson asked me how I felt about fisting.

    Would that make you Miss Piggy, Tim?
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:48 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidno, but a guy who looked a lot like Jim Henson asked me how I felt about fisting.


    Are you saying it might have BEEN Jim Henson? I know nothing about his private life.
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    Dec 18, 2008 6:54 PM GMT
    COJock1974 said
    Timberoo saidno, but a guy who looked a lot like Jim Henson asked me how I felt about fisting.

    Would that make you Miss Piggy, Tim?


    HIGH-LAIR-IOUS!
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    Dec 18, 2008 7:01 PM GMT
    Would an unnatural interest in Miss Piggy be considered beastiality? Or a case of Muppet-mania?
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    Dec 18, 2008 7:23 PM GMT
    If it were a real pi one called Miss Piggy, then it would be beastiality. If one was "courting" the actual puppet, then it would be Muppet-mania.
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    Dec 18, 2008 7:29 PM GMT
    wow. courting the puppet could put a new twist on the "furries" fetish...

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom
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    Dec 18, 2008 7:46 PM GMT
    Cops.. always wanted to be punished for being a baaad boy hahaha *purrs*

    Army guys, ugh, there just hot

    any other personal trainer besides mine.. I'm not sure why, but they are just hot at my gym!!
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    Dec 18, 2008 8:00 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidCops.. always wanted to be punished for being a baaad boy hahaha *purrs*

    Army guys, ugh, there just hot

    any other personal trainer besides mine.. I'm not sure why, but they are just hot at my gym!!


    Actually I did "accommodate" a few guys with a Military Police POW scenario, using my camper trailer in the Pacific Northwest. I'm a retired US Army Military Police Corps Colonel, and our duties included handling enemy prisoners.

    I would be the Camp Commandant, and they were the enemy prisoners of war (actually EPW, since the term POW is technically only used for American captives). My camper was the HQ building, and I subjected them to techniques similar to my own experiences during "Escape & Evasion" training.

    Strip searches and humiliation were used, the same stuff that was misapplied in Iraq, and adopted from E&E training. I'd forgotten about doing that, invitation only, guys who really wanted it. Still not quite to my own taste, runs the risk of turning you into a monster. But I was ideally qualified to do it, so I tried my best.
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    Dec 18, 2008 8:29 PM GMT
    Actually, the fear of this turning you into a monster is as common as it is misplaced.

    I know guys (an ex Army colonel comes to mind) who had been in charge of SERE training who are well into these games.

    This isn't (In my opinion) fundamentally a sexual fantasy. This is playing with your id in a way that tests the boundaries of modern life.

    The sex is like the pert little side dish (and many people skip it altogether).

    It is interesting to me that you would do this. I am having a really tough time reconciling the image that you painted some weeks ago of a man exploited and vulnerable to a lover who economically takes advantage of you (in another thread) and the TPE (Total Power Exchange) that you describe here.

    Anyway, I don't get that you are a monster and it is not fait accompli that doing a prostate exam on another guy makes you Dr. Mengele.
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    Dec 18, 2008 8:49 PM GMT
    ursamajor saidIt is interesting to me that you would do this [POW play]. I am having a really tough time reconciling the image that you painted some weeks ago of a man exploited and vulnerable to a lover who economically takes advantage of you (in another thread) and the TPE (Total Power Exchange) that you describe here.

    Anyway, I don't get that you are a monster and it is not fait accompli that doing a prostate exam on another guy makes you Dr. Mengele.


    Good observations. I am neither exploited nor vulnerable. Rather, I choose to concede to my lover, my partner, things that in my previous career no one would dare attempt with me. I've finally learned how to love, and to express that love.

    The time of my being in charge is past. Every day I have to remind myself of that fact, that I'm not the commanding officer anymore. My partner is myself.

    That previous career was all military, all butch, all straight, or so my denial told me. Since coming out I've mellowed immensely, and come to a better & happier understanding of my life.

    I'm still a ferocious Alpha Male, I doubt that will ever change. But I hope I'm smarter now, and more understanding, at least a little softer. And when I did that POW stuff in the PNW I was only recently out, one foot still in the military, one foot in my new gay life. I wouldn't do that today.

    Yes, I was distraught a few weeks ago. But whatever that outcome had been, I would have moved on. I always have, I always will. I have endured worse, and I may face worse yet. Among the many things the Army taught me was survival skills. My personal motto is: "I never lose."
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    Dec 18, 2008 9:00 PM GMT
    Well, that is a really good motto.

    Also, I am glad you are happy.
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    Dec 18, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
    I'm happy I have a key to my gym and can go in after hours.

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    Dec 18, 2008 9:11 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidno, but a guy who looked a lot like Jim Henson asked me how I felt about fisting.


    ROFLMAO!!
    wrong, wrong, dirty and wrong


    A hook-up - yeah "hook-up" so ya know it can only go bad - wanted me to pretend to be a paramedic who came to save him and then provide CPR, having to tear his shirt open, place my mouth over his... icon_rolleyes.gif

    I'd have rather prenteded to be the person that caused his need for a paramedic. icon_evil.gif
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    Dec 18, 2008 9:11 PM GMT
    Do you smell the undies in the locker room? I know I would.
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    Dec 18, 2008 9:16 PM GMT
    SKELETOR saidDo you smell the undies in the locker room? I know I would.


    no, but my bf blew me on the sit-up bench
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    Dec 18, 2008 9:17 PM GMT
    were you doing situps at the time? Because that would be more impressive.