Is it normal to not be turned on by sexual acts if a virgin?

  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 1:50 PM GMT
    I find myself getting turned on more by seeing guys near nude rather than watching porn itself. I don't know how common this is since I've only known like 2 or 3 guys to not be turned on by them (one of them didn't find the ass interesting until they had sex).

    I also don't like seeing guys with absolutely no clothing on at all (feel weird like this).
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:16 PM GMT
    Forgot to add this. My reason being I've watched anal and oral videos and none of them turn me on. I know I am sexually attracted to men, and I think only men.
  • Nayro

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:29 PM GMT
    Nothing beats the real thing. You may have gotten used to watching videos but then if theres a hot guy standing right in front of you thats a whole new sensation..
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:31 PM GMT
    Well that probably is true icon_razz.gif but I always found these vids icky (Have a form of OCD). Never really enjoyed watching them. icon_confused.gif
  • Nayro

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:36 PM GMT
    then why do you watch them?
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:39 PM GMT
    Nayro saidthen why do you watch them?

    I don't really, I only watched them a couple of times so I could see why guys loved watching it.

    Honestly the type of videos I like watching are the muscle rub ones (particularly torso specific ones)
  • Nayro

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:50 PM GMT
    Then you may have a bit of a muscle fetisj. And with you, a lot of other gay men (including me). If you really want to talk to someone who is into that, talk to Paulflexes ;)
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    It's mainly fit guys with toned torsos I like watching (particularly ab rubbing ones - it's a shame there's not too many of them).

    Tbh I'm not into too muscular guys. Just guys who are well defined and athletic. I do like big biceps though icon_razz.gif
  • Nayro

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    Feb 09, 2014 3:33 PM GMT
    join the club.. To come back to your original question; there is nothing wrong with you.
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 09, 2014 3:46 PM GMT
    Nayro saidjoin the club.. To come back to your original question; there is nothing wrong with you.

    Cheers mate icon_biggrin.gif