Just came out and have gay relationship questions

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    Feb 09, 2014 9:08 PM GMT
    Ok so I just came outicon_biggrin.gif and have 3 questions regarding the gay communityicon_question.gif. They might be odd, but I want real answers please!

    1)When you are with your boyfriend in public, did you use public restrooms at the same time like urinals and stalls? (How does that work? The more specific the better, i'm so curious.)
    2) When you go on a date what determines who pays? Split the check?
    3) Where do you find gays in your community to date/be friends with? (I live in south Texas and gays are invisible, I can't find even a gay friend.)

    Thanks to all who answer my questions. I'm so confused and have never dated a guy yet.icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 09, 2014 9:27 PM GMT
    1) if we both have to piss, then yes of course ha. i prefer to use a stall over a urinal so he usually just pisses at the urinal and i go in a stall. how is this any different than two friends pissing at the same time lol?

    2) this depends. if it's a date, whoever asked the other one out is usually expected to pay. if it's a random hookup and you happen to grab some food before/after, i've always just split it. in a serious relationship once the courtship phase is over usually just split or take turns.

    3) there are a million places to find gay dudes. gay bars, other cities, phone apps, online, gym, through friends.
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    Feb 09, 2014 10:00 PM GMT



    Uh oh....

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3677018
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    Feb 09, 2014 11:07 PM GMT
    Troll!
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    Feb 10, 2014 5:02 AM GMT
    ChristopherMcG saidTroll!


    Ok, no. I didn't know this posted because when I tried to post it gave me a warning that my profile pic had to be approved before posting. I'm not a troll icon_rolleyes.gif.
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    Feb 10, 2014 2:10 PM GMT
    ^^ In that case and since you just came out, post a photo!
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    Feb 11, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    Erik101 said^^ In that case and since you just came out, post a photo!


    Haha i'll think about it. I'm just super skinny and this is a "jock" forum, so whats the point?
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    Feb 11, 2014 7:05 AM GMT
    LOL @ this thread.

    1/ When you have to go pee, you go pee, with or without your bf, I don't really care if he watches me or not.

    2/ The rule is to go Dutch. However, if I'm in a good mood and has extra money, sure I won't mind treating him. I expect him to do the same from time to time. You shouldn't be too cheap when you're dating a guy. If you're too frugal or cheap, it's kind of a turn off.

    3/ I'm having some problem in this area. Because most of the gay friends I know either want to sleep with me or they live too far away. There's no set places to meet gay guys. It can be anywhere. (Since you're from TX, I noticed that a lot of white guys from TX ended up in West Hollywood LA over here).



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    Feb 12, 2014 10:03 AM GMT
    Bubble_B saidOk so I just came outicon_biggrin.gif and have 3 questions regarding the gay communityicon_question.gif. They might be odd, but I want real answers please!

    1)When you are with your boyfriend in public, did you use public restrooms at the same time like urinals and stalls? (How does that work? The more specific the better, i'm so curious.)
    2) When you go on a date what determines who pays? Split the check?
    3) Where do you find gays in your community to date/be friends with? (I live in south Texas and gays are invisible, I can't find even a gay friend.)

    Thanks to all who answer my questions. I'm so confused and have never dated a guy yet.icon_redface.gif

    Since this is a troll posting:
    1. We find a guy into watersports and take turns.
    2. Always go with well-off friends, who will pick up the tab.
    3. The country club.
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    Feb 12, 2014 12:24 PM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    Bubble_B saidOk so I just came outicon_biggrin.gif and have 3 questions regarding the gay communityicon_question.gif. They might be odd, but I want real answers please!

    1)When you are with your boyfriend in public, did you use public restrooms at the same time like urinals and stalls? (How does that work? The more specific the better, i'm so curious.)
    2) When you go on a date what determines who pays? Split the check?
    3) Where do you find gays in your community to date/be friends with? (I live in south Texas and gays are invisible, I can't find even a gay friend.)

    Thanks to all who answer my questions. I'm so confused and have never dated a guy yet.icon_redface.gif

    Since this is a troll posting:
    1. We find a guy into watersports and take turns.
    2. Always go with well-off friends, who will pick up the tab.
    3. The country club.


    1. The bottom uses the ladies' toilets
    2. Either nobody or the slower runner (depending on how fast the waiter can run)
    3. Catholic Churches used to be a great spot but I got too old 17 years ago so now I hit up the nearest prison