First off agri, as a fellow Jew, congrats to sticking to your guns! (and the fact you don't spell out "God" is impressive! As you see, well, I'm likely a bit less religious). I completely understand your point and, if this is what you want, don't settle for less.
You are not ignorant, and by no means are you intolerant. Yes, you are very faithful, and you really should be commended, most of all, for knowing what you want.
Just keep in mind a few things:
The gay population can seem small enough, whittled further by the datable population, whittled further by the datable Jewish population. There might be times when you feel you're dealing with a sliver. I'm probably telling you what you already know, but just to throw it out.
Is there a religious level of Judaism you're looking for - i.e. reform, conservative, orthodox?