How can I gain more experience?

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    Feb 13, 2014 7:32 PM GMT
    Though I have a bit of sexual experience from my last relationship, compared to all my friends, I'm the least experienced. Combine insecurities from lack of experience and frustration from unrequited love, and I become a mess. I don't even want to indulge in self-pleasure anymore because I feel like a total loser, as if this is all I'll have to resort to, even though apparently masturbation is supposed to train you to hold out on ejaculation. When it comes to sex, everyone seems to succeed in scoring the person they want, and at the age of 20, despite my efforts in finding someone, it hasn't been successful so far. I'm basically at a lost.

    How can I gain experience sexually and dating-wise? How did you guys gain experience? I don't know many gay people outside of my friends, and I'm not their type (and vice-versa). Apparently, dark-skinned black guys are the anti-Christ and we're not that appealing.
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    Feb 13, 2014 7:34 PM GMT
    You're 20. It's going to be okay.

    And the only way to gain experience IS to experience. The people you think find you ugly might actually be the ones who'd like to strike up a date with you or hookup.

    Seriously, don't beat yourself up over something as silly as sexual experience. You'll grow so much more in life if you STOP comparing yourself to other people.
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    Feb 13, 2014 7:35 PM GMT
    Chill out dude, and masturbation was created to work n your biceps good so don't you ever stop.
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    Feb 13, 2014 7:54 PM GMT
    David3000 saidChill out dude, and masturbation was created to work n your biceps good so don't you ever stop.


    funny
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    Feb 14, 2014 11:30 AM GMT
    David3000 saidChill out dude, and masturbation was created to work n your biceps good so don't you ever stop.



    Classic!