If a bottom punches a top, is the top allowed to hit them back?


  • Feb 14, 2014 2:40 PM GMT
    I know there's no such thing as a "man" or a "woman" in a gay relationship and it's offensive to think that way and blah blah blah blah.

    But let's be real, if a a guy that's 5'4 and 130 pounds hits their boyfriend who is 6'2 and 200 pounds, is the bigger guy allowed to hit them back? Or should they be able to control themselves knowing they could do serious damage.

    How would you work this out in your own personal relationships?
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:42 PM GMT
    Calvin_Chronic saidI know there's no such thing as a "man" or a "woman" in a gay relationship and it's offensive to think that way and blah blah blah blah.

    But let's be real, if a a guy that's 5'4 and 130 pounds hits their boyfriend who is 6'2 and 200 pounds, is the bigger guy allowed to hit them back? Or should they be able to control themselves knowing they could do swrious damage.

    How would you work this out in your own personal relationships?


    Lets be real, this relationship is a fantasy until the 5'4" guy gets off his lazy ass and gets to the gym.
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:44 PM GMT
    Your questions are focused on body size and not sexual position. There are plenty of bigger, taller guys who are total bottoms. But to answer your primary question, the response is yes. Because if the smaller guy has the balls to hit the tall guy, then it's game on.
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:45 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Calvin_Chronic saidI know there's no such thing as a "man" or a "woman" in a gay relationship and it's offensive to think that way and blah blah blah blah.

    But let's be real, if a a guy that's 5'4 and 130 pounds hits their boyfriend who is 6'2 and 200 pounds, is the bigger guy allowed to hit them back? Or should they be able to control themselves knowing they could do swrious damage.

    How would you work this out in your own personal relationships?


    Lets be real, this relationship is a fantasy until the 5'4" guy gets off his lazy ass and gets to the gym.


    I'm only slightly bigger than 5'4 130 lbs and have no problem getting guys 6'0 and above. The idea is not that far out....icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:46 PM GMT
    And to answer the question, yes. If the smaller guy wants to throw the first punch, he should be prepared to take whats coming....
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:53 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Chainers said
    Calvin_Chronic saidI know there's no such thing as a "man" or a "woman" in a gay relationship and it's offensive to think that way and blah blah blah blah.

    But let's be real, if a a guy that's 5'4 and 130 pounds hits their boyfriend who is 6'2 and 200 pounds, is the bigger guy allowed to hit them back? Or should they be able to control themselves knowing they could do swrious damage.

    How would you work this out in your own personal relationships?


    Lets be real, this relationship is a fantasy until the 5'4" guy gets off his lazy ass and gets to the gym.


    I'm only slightly bigger than 5'4 130 lbs and have no problem getting guys 6'0 and above. The idea is not that far out....icon_confused.gif


    The topic is pretty much a troll topic from the get go, I was just posting on queue.
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:54 PM GMT
    Meh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day. Guys just seem to think I won't defend myself because I'm a small dude. I may get my ass beat, but I'm not letting some dude get away with it....icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:56 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day. Guys just seem to think I won't defend myself because I'm a small dude. I mat get my ass beat, but I'm not letting some dude get away with it....icon_biggrin.gif


    Its clearly depicting bottoms as women and tops as men.
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    Feb 14, 2014 2:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day. Guys just seem to think I won't defend myself because I'm a small dude. I mat get my ass beat, but I'm not letting some dude get away with it....icon_biggrin.gif


    Its clearly depicting bottoms as women and tops as men.


    Yeah pretty much.

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    Feb 14, 2014 2:59 PM GMT
    If the bottom is fem, then yes, a good punch would be in order because fems suck. If he's masc, then let it slide. If he's Black, punch him regardless because that's how they show affection.

  • Feb 14, 2014 2:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day. Guys just seem to think I won't defend myself because I'm a small dude. I mat get my ass beat, but I'm not letting some dude get away with it....icon_biggrin.gif


    Its clearly depicting bottoms as women and tops as men.


    That's not what I believe at all. I'm just saying that a bigger guy should be able to stop himself from hitting a guy if that guy is a lot smaller than him.
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:00 PM GMT
    That brings back memories. Remember that funny "punch your top" thread?
    Who was it that said you should punch your top if he doesn't do a good job?
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:01 PM GMT
    Holy shit...


    Why is anyone hitting anyone in the first place?! icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:01 PM GMT
    Calvin_Chronic said
    Chainers said
    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day. Guys just seem to think I won't defend myself because I'm a small dude. I mat get my ass beat, but I'm not letting some dude get away with it....icon_biggrin.gif


    Its clearly depicting bottoms as women and tops as men.


    That's not what I believe at all. I'm just saying that a bigger guy should be able to stop himself from hitting a guy if that guy is a lot smaller than him.


    If thats what you think then there should be no need to mention top or bottoms at all in your question.....icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:02 PM GMT
    IceBuckets saidHoly shit...


    Why is anyone hitting anyone in the first place?! icon_mad.gif


    Ha. Some men, when words fail, can only resort to violence. Haven't you ever heard Spazzy talk?icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:02 PM GMT
    IceBuckets saidHoly shit...


    Why is anyone hitting anyone in the first place?! icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:03 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day.


    "Back in the day?" Like when you were 29?
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:05 PM GMT
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    jmusmc85 saidMeh. I've gotten in plenty of fights back in my day.


    "Back in the day?" Like when you were 29?


    I'm not 30!!!!!!icon_mad.gif

  • Feb 14, 2014 3:16 PM GMT
    Hate to burst your bubble, but 29 is basically 30. You're officially OLD.
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:38 PM GMT
    IceBuckets saidHoly shit...
    Why is anyone hitting anyone in the first place?! icon_mad.gif

    One would think that this would be the first question.
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    Feb 14, 2014 3:39 PM GMT
    ∆ Pussy
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    Feb 14, 2014 4:44 PM GMT
    Calvin_Chronic saidHate to burst your bubble, but 29 is basically 30. You're officially OLD.


    So mean. icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    Speaking from personal experience. I once dated a guy who was 5'1 for 4 years. Near the end of our relationship I discovered some things that I really wanted to knock his block off over, but in the heat of the moment I took it out on a wall because I knew I would really hurt him, the night we broke up he was drunk . Hit me a few times . I maintained composure until he hit me in the face.. then I punched him once.. he starts crying and his head swells up like a soft ball = I felt bad for the little bastard but you don't touch the money maker
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    Feb 14, 2014 4:58 PM GMT
    _Behemoth_ saidSpeaking from personal experience. I once dated a guy who was 5'1 for 4 years. Near the end of our relationship I discovered some things that I really wanted to knock his block off over, but in the heat of the moment I took it out on a wall because I knew I would really hurt him, the night we broke up he was drunk . Hit me a few times . I maintained composure until he hit me in the face.. then I punched him once.. he starts crying and his head swells up like a soft ball = I felt bad for the little bastard but you don't touch the money maker


    He deserved to get punched if he hit you first.

    But every now and then, a top needs some sense knocked into him if he can't perform in bed and satisfy his bottom!!!icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 14, 2014 6:10 PM GMT
    I would walk away before the incident gets out of hand .
    I totally condemn violence in relationship , lots of men think that walking from any kind of altercation is a acting as a coward , i do not , it is WISE .