There's this guy and...

  • MattyC0709

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    Dec 19, 2008 7:57 PM GMT
    ...I really really REALLY like him! I think about him quite alot, and I really wish I could somehow 'make him mine'. icon_razz.gif

    I first met him through a friend: I was at a friend's house along with some others, and then he shows up. I immediately fancied him, but was afraid to talk to him, although as the night progressed we shared a couple of sentences. icon_smile.gif

    The week after I told my friend (who was with us that night) that I had a bit of a crush on him, and she's like "OMG! He likes you too!" I couldn't be happier, hehe! Apparently she gave him my IM email address, so now we chat quite often. icon_biggrin.gif

    Coincidentially the week after that I was gonna go for my first ever STD test (which btw I came out clean! icon_biggrin.gif), and my friend being the hyperactive health freak she is told the guy not to kiss me if we ever got together. So obviously he was wondering why on Earth he couldn't do that so I told him about the test. icon_confused.gif

    Apparently he got turned off about me, coz he thought I was some guy who slept around. My friend took some time to tell me why he seemed to be kinda distant, so when I found out why he started to dislike me I went and explained to him that I had never f***ed about just for the sake of getting laid... it was always important to have a bond first. icon_cry.gif

    Now this is the problem... I have no idea whether he likes me or not anymore. We still do chat often, but we never said that we have a crush on each other. And I'm kinda scared to ask him out... if anything I don't know how to ask him out. But what I do know is that if nothing happens soon, I might loose him to someone else. Kinda over dramatic, I know, especially after seeing half of the 'Christian & Oliver' series on Youtube, and longing that something like that could happen, hehehe. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Guess I'm rambling... but I wish something could happen... and the Chrstmas/New Year holidays feel like the right time! icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 19, 2008 9:27 PM GMT
    Well, 2 things.

    First, your friend who told the dude not to kiss you because you might be diseased is a fucking cunt. I rarely use the word, but seriously, I know girls just like that and avoid them at all costs. What right does she have to go spreading that you're getting an STD test? What was her motive there? I'll give you the most likely reason: she's a harpy who doesn't want you to be happy.

    Second, this dude you like is an idiot. You were getting tested, doing something healthy that we all must do, and he lost interest. Even if you've only ever had sex with one person, it's good to be tested. What is he, 15?

    You might really need to reevaluate your choices in acquaintances.

    BUT, if you're dead set on claiming this guy, you just need to grow a pair and ask him out. I IS that easy, and it's the ONLY thing you can do. I suspect you're just afraid of rejection, but frankly -- if the dude lost interest in you because you got a fucking STD test, he's probably not someone to waste time pursuing further.
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    Dec 19, 2008 9:51 PM GMT
    well, there is a first for everything.. I've nothing to add.. Dylan said it all.
  • MattyC0709

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    Dec 19, 2008 10:31 PM GMT
    rezdylan saidWhat was her motive there?

    You were getting tested, doing something healthy that we all must do, and he lost interest. Even if you've only ever had sex with one person, it's good to be tested. What is he, 15?


    Nah she didn't go telling that I took a test, and she's a really good friend. She just looked out for the guy coz then everything would fall to pieces if I had something and infected him. I certainly wouldn't have wanted to do that either.

    The guy didn't lose interest because of the test, but because I lost my virginity... he said he thought I'm like most gay guys here in Malta who just look around for a f***. I cleared that up with him hopefully, but now it feels awkard to ask him out. Oh, and he's 17.
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    Dec 19, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
    Take that bitch out to Filfla and leave her.

    Make a move on the dating....maybe an outing type date that's not too intimate.

    ....and take some vitamin A capsules to clear up your skin

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    Dec 19, 2008 11:44 PM GMT
    muttskins said

    The guy didn't lose interest because of the test, but because I lost my virginity... he said he thought I'm like most gay guys here in Malta who just look around for a f***. I cleared that up with him hopefully, but now it feels awkard to ask him out. Oh, and he's 17.



    Of course it's gonna feel awkward. Asking people out feels awkward. It's only going to feel more awkward the longer you wait. So just do it!!!
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    Dec 20, 2008 12:40 AM GMT


    muttskins, your last thread about the
    'last conversation I had with my ex' was a funny joke you let us all ramble on about until you told us it was all a fake conversation.

    So what's this one? The same , ha-ha?
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    Dec 20, 2008 10:22 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    muttskins, your last thread about the
    'last conversation I had with my ex' was a funny joke you let us all ramble on about until you told us it was all a fake conversation.

    So what's this one? The same , ha-ha?

    Hehe no, that one was a joke... I didn't know people would take it seriously! It looked obvious that it wasn't real to me. This however is 100% true. icon_wink.gif