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  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 16, 2014 7:28 AM GMT
    To the married or monogamous guys, do you use toys such as dildos while you're in a relationship if the other is not inn the mood? Sometimes I just wanna ride a nice fat one. icon_twisted.gif
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 16, 2014 7:49 AM GMT
    TheNegro saidLol god if I were married I would just wit until he was turned on or offered to hange the baby's diapers for a month if he gave me sex when he didn't want to


    Lol... Well, when both are working, raising a baby, taking care of a house, etc. it's not that simple, but at the end I love it all. I have a family of my own.
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    Feb 16, 2014 7:50 AM GMT
    Having a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 16, 2014 8:05 AM GMT
    David3000 saidHaving a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.


    Why, because I'm a human being too! Just because I am a parent doesn't mean I have the same needs and wants as a person. A good friend and a licensed psychologist told me once, and it really helped me realize things before I became a parent said to me " parents are people just like you."
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    Feb 16, 2014 8:14 AM GMT
    Kalifornication said
    David3000 saidHaving a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.


    Why, because I'm a human being too! Just because I am a parent doesn't mean I have the same needs and wants as a person. A good friend and a licensed psychologist told me once, and it really helped me realize things before I became a parent said to me " parents are people just like you."


    No one cares about that. You are posting your kid pictures in a website that's filled with sex content. If you don't care about horny guys -attracted by your sex thread- clicking on your profile and seeing your son then you're fucked up in the head. Your sexual needs and your sons pictures don't mix, as simple as that.
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    Feb 16, 2014 8:37 AM GMT
    David3000 said
    Kalifornication said
    David3000 saidHaving a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.


    Why, because I'm a human being too! Just because I am a parent doesn't mean I have the same needs and wants as a person. A good friend and a licensed psychologist told me once, and it really helped me realize things before I became a parent said to me " parents are people just like you."


    No one cares about that. You are posting your kid pictures in a website that's filled with sex content. If you don't care about horny guys -attracted by your sex thread- clicking on your profile and seeing your son then you're fucked up in the head. Your sexual needs and your sons pictures don't mix, as simple as that.


    You know what, you're part right! I thought I posted this in the adult section! to which I didn't. For the other, yes I do have my son in a picture because I am proud and happy to have a family, I love them very much.

    Using words like fucked up in the head just makes you sound stupid. Don't use lethargic words.

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    Feb 16, 2014 9:00 AM GMT
    Kalifornication said
    David3000 said
    Kalifornication said
    David3000 saidHaving a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.


    Why, because I'm a human being too! Just because I am a parent doesn't mean I have the same needs and wants as a person. A good friend and a licensed psychologist told me once, and it really helped me realize things before I became a parent said to me " parents are people just like you."


    No one cares about that. You are posting your kid pictures in a website that's filled with sex content. If you don't care about horny guys -attracted by your sex thread- clicking on your profile and seeing your son then you're fucked up in the head. Your sexual needs and your sons pictures don't mix, as simple as that.


    You know what, you're part right! I thought I posted this in the adult section! to which I didn't. For the other, yes I do have my son in a picture because I am proud and happy to have a family, I love them very much.

    Using words like fucked up in the head just makes you sound stupid. Don't use lethargic words.

    Good For You

    If you wanna show your love then hang his picture on your office wall, don't do it on a sex website. The fact you can't see this makes you look like a shitty parent with no common sense.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 16, 2014 9:26 AM GMT
    Why the anger and hostility? Dude, you're being a dick and when you grow up and start representing something that you think you are in a mirror and realize that you're not, come back and have a mans conversation. Not some bullish child response that I would expect from a 16 year old.

    FYI, it's not a sex site.

    I'm done having this conversation with such a rude little man.
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    Feb 16, 2014 9:43 AM GMT
    Kalifornication saidWhy the anger and hostility? Dude, you're being a dick and when you grow up and start representing something that you think you are in a mirror and realize that you're not, come back and have a mans conversation. Not some bullish child response that I would expect from a 16 year old.

    FYI, it's not a sex site.

    I'm done having this conversation with such a rude little man.

    Dude when I have a kid I can tell I'm not posting their pictures in a sex site, that's for sure.
    And by the way, having an offspring doesn't give you any instant wisdom or maturity, in fact every response you've given so far shows what a disgusting senseless idiot you are.
    I'm done talking to you, what a waste.
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    Feb 16, 2014 11:15 AM GMT
    Kalifornication saidTo the married or monogamous guys, do you use toys such as dildos while you're in a relationship if the other is not inn the mood? Sometimes I just wanna ride a nice fat one. icon_twisted.gif


    My boyfriend is never "not" in the mood haha. Just to keep up with him I use dildos to keep me- "flexible" down there.
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    Feb 16, 2014 2:27 PM GMT
    Kalifornication saidWhy the anger and hostility? Dude, you're being a dick and when you grow up and start representing something that you think you are in a mirror and realize that you're not, come back and have a mans conversation. Not some bullish child response that I would expect from a 16 year old.

    FYI, it's not a sex site.

    I'm done having this conversation with such a rude little man.



    Kalifornication, ignore him; he's new. Your family pics are simply your family pics, contained as 'other pics' in your profile and not your main avatar pic.
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    Feb 16, 2014 2:41 PM GMT
    I see this mostly as a dating site even though we never date. Those pictures of his son only endear him to me.
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    Feb 16, 2014 3:00 PM GMT
    Kalifornication saidTo the married or monogamous guys, do you use toys such as dildos while you're in a relationship if the other is not inn the mood? Sometimes I just wanna ride a nice fat one. icon_twisted.gif

    Masturbation is something no one should ever feel shame over. Sometimes I wake up after my other half has left for work with a major boner and feel the need to take care of it. No shame in that game. Have I ever used toys like a Fleshjack, sure.
    Keeping yourself in good sexual order is natural.
    It makes the time you get with your partner that much more special.
    There's no comparison between the real thing and masturbation. The real thing is something magical.
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    Feb 16, 2014 3:27 PM GMT
    David3000 saidHaving a picture of your son in the same site you post something like this is fucked up, you should take it off.


    Dude, that shows serious issues certainly with sex and maybe with being gay. His profile is showing his life and he's discussing honestly a sexual aspect of it. Your finding something wrong with that is reflective of your own internal conflicts with being a sexual being.

    Even if you get off, and we know you do as you've stated so, on controlling the sexuality of your partner when you hook up, that doesn't mean you get to control people out of bed. Your exporting your preference to another person's life, not personally in yours, hell, not even in person, is the only thing perverted here.

    To the OP's point on toys--and I'm not a toys person so this comment is not without prejudice and might ruffle some feathers--how is playing with toys in a monogamous marriage different from being in an open marriage? One toy silicon, the other flesh. I'd go as far as to question masturbation in that regard. What's the difference between fantasy and reality when all we ever really do is to live in our own heads? Why isn't fantasy in a monogamous relationship synonymous--if only not as honest--with an open relationship?

    And PS, congrats on being a gay dad--on overcoming those obstacles--and thank you for showing yourself and your kid with pride. I've spent most of my life in Florida where up until recently it's been illegal for me to adopt because I am gay. That's a wonderful life you're sharing on your profile.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 18, 2014 4:58 AM GMT
    Thanks guys for the adult topic that I posted. It helps to know sometimes that you're not alone in situations.

    And thank you for the adoption response. I know it was hard in Florida, but now you can adopt,would you still?
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 18, 2014 4:59 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI see this mostly as a dating site even though we never date. Those pictures of his son only endear him to me.


    That's very kind of you to say. Actually I met my husband here almost 8 years ago. Who knew!
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 18, 2014 5:00 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    Kalifornication saidWhy the anger and hostility? Dude, you're being a dick and when you grow up and start representing something that you think you are in a mirror and realize that you're not, come back and have a mans conversation. Not some bullish child response that I would expect from a 16 year old.

    FYI, it's not a sex site.

    I'm done having this conversation with such a rude little man.



    Kalifornication, ignore him; he's new. Your family pics are simply your family pics, contained as 'other pics' in your profile and not your main avatar pic.


    Yeah, I just stopped inner acting with him.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Feb 18, 2014 5:01 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Kalifornication saidTo the married or monogamous guys, do you use toys such as dildos while you're in a relationship if the other is not inn the mood? Sometimes I just wanna ride a nice fat one. icon_twisted.gif

    Masturbation is something no one should ever feel shame over. Sometimes I wake up after my other half has left for work with a major boner and feel the need to take care of it. No shame in that game. Have I ever used toys like a Fleshjack, sure.
    Keeping yourself in good sexual order is natural.
    It makes the time you get with your partner that much more special.
    There's no comparison between the real thing and masturbation. The real thing is something magical.


    I've always liked your responses, there always spot on.
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    Feb 18, 2014 5:10 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    Kalifornication saidWhy the anger and hostility? Dude, you're being a dick and when you grow up and start representing something that you think you are in a mirror and realize that you're not, come back and have a mans conversation. Not some bullish child response that I would expect from a 16 year old.

    FYI, it's not a sex site.

    I'm done having this conversation with such a rude little man.



    Kalifornication, ignore him; he's new. Your family pics are simply your family pics, contained as 'other pics' in your profile and not your main avatar pic.


    I totally agree with you ....