Are you afraid of being alone?

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    Feb 16, 2014 7:07 PM GMT
    Are you the type that is always in a relationship ? Or the guy that's perfectly content with just being alone with a fb on the side ?
  • roadbikeRob

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    Feb 16, 2014 8:21 PM GMT
    I live alone, nothing to be afraid of.
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    Feb 16, 2014 8:22 PM GMT
    i dont like the lonely life...it sucks...but im guessing sometimes its best to just be alone and take time to know what u really want and who u really are, what your perspectives in life are and what will come first in goal achieving.
    A relationship takes time and dedication and lots of compromise....to be able to compromise is a big thing....
    Sometimes we think we want someone and when we have them we end up closing up and putting walls...thats because were still not oke with who we are, with the ghots of our past(ex bf, family problems,money, career etc) ....and we end up with lots of arguments and hate in our relationship...and we brake up just so we can be alone again....
    What we want in the first second you read the question u posted might be "yes i want someone" but on the other hand if u stay and analyze yourself and get to know where u are in this point of your lifetime you will think twice in saying that "yes"
    Ab fb...people were alone before fb was a thing...fb isnt something u can replace the existence of a other person or personalize it so much to describe you...its a stupid concept used for marketing....and yes i do have a fb...but u know that lol

  • Feb 16, 2014 8:53 PM GMT
    I wasn't afraid of being alone, but I used to be afraid of ending up alone. As I've aged, my thoughts on that have shifted some, and I think it's been things like having nieces (though far & really seen) that have helped as well as simply adjusting priorities as one ages. It's nice to have connections, even if I do seem to be perpetually alone. And who knows, I've only been in a much bigger city for a few months, definitely a lot more options here so maybe that will change. But if it takes a while, I'm okay with that.
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    Feb 16, 2014 8:57 PM GMT
    I'm more afraid of not being alone. Last summer I purchased a large rural farm with the idea that I could retreat there and find quiet and peace. Instead, my dear sweet LingLang has designed and plans to construct small cabins so friends and artists and all sorts of other people will also have a peaceful retreat.

    Alone is starting to sound like that unattainable disease free nymphomaniac I used to fantasize about, I know it exists but I never seem to find it.
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    Feb 16, 2014 11:36 PM GMT
    Being alone isn't always bad. It sometimes is a good way to self discovery.
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    Feb 16, 2014 11:57 PM GMT
    Not really... No
  • LJay

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    Feb 17, 2014 12:05 AM GMT
    Well, I am alone, so there is no sense being afraid of it.

    I do live with a roommate, but that is nothing. It's more of an irritation than anything else.



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    Feb 17, 2014 12:11 AM GMT
    While remaining in the shadows, I feel as though I gain ore autonomy that way...
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    Feb 17, 2014 12:25 AM GMT
    There's days I think I'm doomed to walk this planet alone for the rest of my life because of how introverted I am, but I do like my space and freedom though, so I embrace the single life for all it's worth. I'm still young.
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    Feb 17, 2014 12:26 AM GMT
    I enjoy being alone and independent for the most part, but loneliness hits me at times when I see friends getting married and having kids.
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    Feb 17, 2014 1:17 AM GMT
    Im not afraid to be alone, and I enjoy my 'me' time about once a week. I'm in a LTR but we each do our own things frequently.

    In my adult life, I've usually had boyfriends or at least a series of hookups. I'm just naturally extroverted and I seem to be around people most of the time - doing stuff with them or at least chatting it up over drinks or coffee. Not afraid of being alone, but to me - people are like a shot of adrenaline - they make life fun for me.
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    Feb 17, 2014 1:53 AM GMT
    Ive always been in relationships (I think the longest Ive been single is 1 month) but Im not afraid of being alone at all. Thing is being single sucks, I can enjoy some alone time but it's boring, like watch a movie alone, or do whatever thing alone is just depressing, I prefer to do with with a significant other.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    kiwiLifter saidBeing independent rocks! icon_cool.gif

    What's with all those needy sorts, I avoid them like the plague.

    However there is one serious disadvantage - FINANCES - way harder to do it on your own, paying a mortgage etc, guess you could buy a 3 bedroom house ( if you are lucky enough to have a half decent job ) and start renting out, or go live with mom.

    If I was rich I would have a big sprawling property and keep a stable of hot str8 bi curious studs! icon_cool.gif Gay "marriage" is for sappy girly muppets and lesbians. icon_rolleyes.gif


    I'd say you're appalling, but that's exactly the reaction you keep trolling for.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:01 AM GMT
    BP201 saidThere's days I think I'm doomed to walk this planet alone for the rest of my life because of how introverted I am, but I do like my space and freedom though, so I embrace the single life for all it's worth. I'm still young.

    Well, there's always Snooki and The Situation for company.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:12 AM GMT
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    BP201 saidThere's days I think I'm doomed to walk this planet alone for the rest of my life because of how introverted I am, but I do like my space and freedom though, so I embrace the single life for all it's worth. I'm still young.

    Well, there's always Snooki and The Situation for company.


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    Feb 17, 2014 2:19 AM GMT
    I have always been single/alone, but i have my moments of weakness and find myself afraid of being alone forever.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:21 AM GMT
    MRod saidI have always been single/alone, but i have my moments of weakness and find myself afraid of being alone forever.

    I can't think why you would be, you're freaking adorable.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:33 AM GMT
    I've grown past the post-breakup alone time. I'm looking forward to loving a guy again. The thought of the rest of my life alone...is scary.

    I'm sure I'll find love again.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:36 AM GMT
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    MRod saidI have always been single/alone, but i have my moments of weakness and find myself afraid of being alone forever.

    I can't think why you would be, you're freaking adorable.


    Thanks, just issues with meeting other men icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:38 AM GMT
    Being alone is not soo bad as i was single for a good ten years. Partially i did that because i was studying, getting degrees. But in the end i realized that it was not healthy. Yes you can be single for extended periods..but in reality no one likes being alone and no one should be alone.
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    My biggest fear is that. That i will never meet or have a other half i moved out of my home state to try to get out there to meet him!!icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    I think I've been alone for so long that I'm the opposite. I'm more afraid of not being alone -because it's really all I know.

    However, I am more open to the possibilities than I ever have been.

    #neversaynever
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:47 AM GMT
    I have always lived inside my comfort zone

    you can accomplish more given the right significant other or you can be disabled by picking a jerk
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    Feb 17, 2014 2:59 AM GMT
    Quite happy being single!






    Given the quality of guys in my area