Does anyone else NOT watch porn?

  • MarkW1

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    Feb 18, 2014 4:12 PM GMT
    This may be linked with my previous topic regarding not finding penis hot.

    But I find myself looking up other stuff such as shirtless celebrities, ass (with or without boxers) and muscle worship (more specifically pec and abs) videos.

    I feel something is very wrong if I don't like porn plus not being into dick (as mentioned above)
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    Feb 18, 2014 4:14 PM GMT
    Perhaps you're straight.
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 18, 2014 4:20 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidPerhaps you're straight.

    No, cos straight porn doesn't turn me on either. I am only attracted to men
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    Feb 18, 2014 4:28 PM GMT
    You might be pansexual. My great love was that. Not real into dick but totally enjoyed me in bed otherwise. And he loved teasing the guys on the dance floor. It was so fun to watch. Also he liked women, also he liked transsexuals and drag. We often brought the entertainment home with us. He did a pretty good Adam Ant one Halloween. Though committed to each other, we enjoyed an open relationship to satisfy the rest of our sexuality which didn't match each other.

    If you are into guys but not into dick, you're gonna have a tough time finding a monogamous relationship so if that is the case, that you require variety and not merely some inhibitions that can be corrected, then you need to come to terms with your sexuality so you can move forward and find, if so desired, someone compatible.
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    Feb 18, 2014 4:39 PM GMT
    theantijock saidYou might be pansexual. My great love was that. Not real into dick but totally enjoyed me in bed otherwise. And he loved teasing the guys on the dance floor. It was so fun to watch. Also he liked women, also he liked transsexuals and drag. We often brought the entertainment home with us. He did a pretty good Adam Ant one Halloween. Though committed to each other, we enjoyed an open relationship to satisfy the rest of our sexuality which didn't match each other.

    If you are into guys but not into dick, you're gonna have a tough time finding a monogamous relationship so if that is the case, that you require variety and not merely some inhibitions that can be corrected, then you need to come to terms with your sexuality so you can move forward and find, if so desired, someone compatible.

    Nah i'm not into women though icon_smile.gif I'm thinking like i said above something isn't right. I'm not long out of psychology with OCD (had a big fear of being (ironically) straight since i had fancied guys my whole life)

    Here's the topic from before:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3676608

    EDIT: I forgot to mention that i have felt my date's bulge before and did like it, not enough to go and look at it in porn though.

    I'm also a virgin...
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    Feb 18, 2014 4:50 PM GMT
    Being a virgin just might interfere with exploring your sexuality. I know this is going to sound radical but how about this: go have sex. Play safe. Don't play with the emotions of others. Enjoy some variety and see what you like. This is not all that difficult. It works the same as a buffet.

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    Feb 18, 2014 4:54 PM GMT
    MarkW1 saidThis may be linked with my previous topic regarding not finding penis hot.

    But I find myself looking up other stuff such as shirtless celebrities, ass (with or without boxers) and muscle worship (more specifically pec and abs) videos.

    I feel something is very wrong if I don't like porn plus not being into dick (as mentioned above)


    Porn is all i would get to be honest, but regards to you not finding dick attractive well... maybe there is more to a man than just that, maybe your normal and find the person attractive. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 18, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    Dennis89 saidPorn is all i would get to be honest, but regards to you not finding dick attractive well... maybe there is more to a man than just that, maybe your normal and find the person attractive. icon_smile.gif

    I would agree that there's more to a man than just his dick but I would also be concerned about how you could develop relationships and how it might affect your own self esteem. Honestly, and I say this with all sincerity, I would consider talking to a professional about this. Not that I think it's wrong but I'd have to wonder what the underlying cause is. I wouldn't say that it's the norm and so I would think that down the road there may be some unfortunate ramifications of your dislike. Maybe a professional can help you identify not only why you feel this way but ways that you can either overcome (if necessary) or compensate without feeling 'different' or uneasy about it.
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 18, 2014 5:08 PM GMT
    I think I'm just going to talk to a specialist at my university and ask if they can suggest some professionals for me to go see. I'm fed up with this uncertainty and shit. icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 18, 2014 5:18 PM GMT
    I still struggle with my sexuality to an extent and as i am currently seeking a Psychiatrists help for many issues, when confronted with my sexuality the answer i got was that he didnt think it was the root cause to my issues but could be a cause, in more words than one i have to sort it my self and in one sense i agree but to another i know i need some form of assistance, i find many different types of men attractive and all their "body parts" icon_redface.gif but i am yet to find a boyfriend to experience all of it properly.

    icon_eek.gif When reading all that back it looks like i have turned the post to be about me, that is not intended.
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 18, 2014 5:39 PM GMT
    Mate, I've been chatting in this, never once did it appear that way. If anything it was helpful for me.
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    Feb 18, 2014 5:41 PM GMT
    MarkW1 saidMate, I've been chatting in this, never once did it appear that way. If anything it was helpful for me.


    Glad to hear icon_smile.gif
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 18, 2014 5:46 PM GMT
    Anyway has anyone felt the same way about porn at all? icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 18, 2014 7:30 PM GMT
    I remember seeing a interview with Amanda Lepore and someone Lucas and they cam to the agreement of porn a a art form but for me.... well i can watch it but id rather have the real thing to be honest.
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    Feb 18, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    Porn is prostitution unless you're watching amateur and a lot of amateur isn't really but some people need that fantasy. People paid to have sex in porn will do some extreme activities, and when the viewer watches it he's led to believe it may be common and that's what he's supposed to do, and also believe everyone's doing it. What you see visually is unique to you. If this is your thing, you'll find no shortage of men into the same thing.

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    Feb 18, 2014 10:14 PM GMT
    Draper saidPorn is prostitution unless you're watching amateur and a lot of amateur isn't really but some people need that fantasy. People paid to have sex in porn will do some extreme activities, and when the viewer watches it he's led to believe it may be common and that's what he's supposed to do, and also believe everyone's doing it. What you see visually is unique to you. If this is your thing, you'll find no shortage of men into the same thing.

    I like what you say !
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    Feb 18, 2014 10:45 PM GMT
    Honey, that's all very sweet dear. If you don't like dicks or like to suck dicks or get fucked by dicks! Then, you're not a homo !!


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    Feb 19, 2014 4:22 PM GMT
    socalx10 saidHoney, that's all very sweet dear. If you don't like dicks or like to suck dicks or get fucked by dicks! Then, you're not a homo !!

    Don't think that's at all what he said. He mentions this, "No, cos straight porn doesn't turn me on either. I am only attracted to men".
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    Feb 19, 2014 5:15 PM GMT
    every one's sexuality is so different. Dont even try to define you self by the porn you see.
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    Feb 19, 2014 5:22 PM GMT
    pellaz saidevery one's sexuality is so different. Dont even try to define you self by the porn you see.
    i can agree with that
  • MarkW1

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    Feb 22, 2014 3:40 PM GMT
    Draper saidPorn is prostitution unless you're watching amateur and a lot of amateur isn't really but some people need that fantasy. People paid to have sex in porn will do some extreme activities, and when the viewer watches it he's led to believe it may be common and that's what he's supposed to do, and also believe everyone's doing it. What you see visually is unique to you. If this is your thing, you'll find no shortage of men into the same thing.


    Yummy that is very nice, I have a hard time trying to find ones which have the abs rubbed.

    Anyway I went to see a student advisor at my university yesterday, she gave me a leaflet with useful links for me to use. I've sent an enquiry to a specific website, waiting for a response.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Feb 22, 2014 7:35 PM GMT
    MarkW1 saidThis may be linked with my previous topic regarding not finding penis hot.

    But I find myself looking up other stuff such as shirtless celebrities, ass (with or without boxers) and muscle worship (more specifically pec and abs) videos.

    I feel something is very wrong if I don't like porn plus not being into dick (as mentioned above)


    You're just not admitting to it yet
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    Feb 22, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod said
    MarkW1 saidThis may be linked with my previous topic regarding not finding penis hot.

    But I find myself looking up other stuff such as shirtless celebrities, ass (with or without boxers) and muscle worship (more specifically pec and abs) videos.

    I feel something is very wrong if I don't like porn plus not being into dick (as mentioned above)


    You're just not admitting to it yet
    Thats a good point in a sense as wll i think im 90% there
  • buffdude

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    Feb 26, 2014 5:47 AM GMT
    I'm really not into gay porn either. The big throbbing cock doesn't do it for me either, but then again I'm bi. Maybe you go both ways...
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    Feb 26, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    also remember there is a wide array of sexuality out there one that is more obscure is asexual meaning that sex just doesn't do it for you and or you made have more of a platonic love thing about you meaning that love is more than the physical thing to you icon_smile.gif