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    Feb 22, 2014 7:53 AM GMT
    So here is the story i dated this guy for week or two and it ended very odd. Over drunk texting and name calling. We told each other have a good life. Now its been weeks from that time and we have a mutual friend, so i have been asking questions to the friend to ask my ex because my ex would know. Now my ex is back in contact with me and wanting saying how stupid he was for letting me go and over the phone i was rock solid about not sure about us but when i saw his face in person and on skype i lost all anger for him. How do i or what do i do to make sure he wants me just for me and not for just sex. HELP
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    Feb 22, 2014 7:59 AM GMT
    Enjoy this cycle you're going to be in
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    Feb 22, 2014 8:07 AM GMT
    i dont want to be in a circle
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    Feb 22, 2014 8:13 AM GMT
    Then don't engage him through friends. Leave him alone
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    Feb 22, 2014 8:19 AM GMT
    NO he wants to get back together and im asking if i should or not but when i see him im frozen looking at him
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 22, 2014 8:49 AM GMT
    You obviously like him or you wouldn't have been asking about him. gGet back together with him and enjoy, sometimes these opportunities don't come around too often
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    Feb 25, 2014 9:37 AM GMT
    Lol do you like feeling frozen? Did you reconcile the anger? I suggest you keep focus on you rather than what reads like how you are not.

    Be well
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    Feb 25, 2014 3:23 PM GMT
    You should get back together if you like each other
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    Feb 25, 2014 3:34 PM GMT
    Go ahead and get to know him more, it's only been a few weeks. Just work on communication and don't let a little fight get in the way
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    Feb 26, 2014 12:14 AM GMT
    Depends WHY you guys broke up. Sometimes, it's better NOT to get back together. Love makes you blind...and ignore red flags, so depending on how clouded your judgment is I'd say take caution.
  • MikeW

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    Feb 26, 2014 1:10 AM GMT
    Guys think that because they can talk they can communicate. NOT TRUE.

    If you can't express yourself any better with him than you do here, I'm not surprised this relationship is a mess. Wouldn't be surprised if he can't communicate with you any better, either.

    NO ONE in a relationship should be trying to deal with an anger issue VIA TEXT! (Drunk or not but especially not drunk.) icon_rolleyes.gif

    Talk about your feelings together. LISTEN to what each other has to say and especially listen to the feelings that are behind the words.

    Find out if you really want to BE together and if you're compatible with one another.