1) Career - For now, I want him to be in the military like me. It'd be easier on both of us. Military or civilian, though, the government won't pay for his move unless we were married.
2) Body Type - What I consider an average body type is a rather "fit" body by American standards. I want to see some nice pecs, a hint of abs but more of a lil' tiny belly, strong arms, very little body hair, as tall as me or taller and definitely a bit heavier. When I say strong, I mean big but not heavily defined.
3) Sex frequency and decline - I'd want frot every few days, no matter what age. I'd want anal maybe once or twice a month and much less as time goes by.
4) Values you won't negotiate on - True monogamy, the want to be married, not wanting children (or at least, not more than 1... after I'm 35 or so), similar views on healthy eating and overall lifestyle, a true gamer, compatible sense of humor, similar views on nudity, similar artistic views in visual and aural arts, wanting dogs and cats... stuff.