My bi guy!

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    Dec 21, 2008 9:02 AM GMT
    Hi guys.
    Wel im 21 almost 22 stil a virgin and never had a boyfriend. The hopes of me getting a bf soon looks dim but i have the bi friend who wants to be fuck budys with no strings atatched. Is it wrong to just wana be fuck budies ane use him for sex?
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    Dec 21, 2008 12:26 PM GMT
    I'd do some internet dating, although you are unlikely to meet the (or a) love of your life first go, there's a million guys out there that you can have a good first relationship with.
  • qalbi30

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    Dec 21, 2008 12:32 PM GMT
    Go for it ! sex should be fun especially when you are young,practice safe sex always and respect each other.
    Sometimes if you are lucky a F/B can turn into a good friend .

    A B/F is another matter,if you think that there is a chance get to know him first and (be patient) and put the sex on hold,the chase is always more exciting and the sex is more intense when one waits.

    Best of luck and enjoy life.icon_smile.gif

    Regards,R.
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    Dec 21, 2008 1:47 PM GMT
    if you are both in it for a hot screw and not much else then have at it, screw until you both can't screw any more....

    Nothing wrong with no strings sex between two consenting adults.
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    Dec 21, 2008 4:16 PM GMT
    Ah, I see, you mean is it morally wrong to get a fuck buddy? Hell no, fuck away.

    That said, if you do want a relationship, it's pretty easy to date as young gay guy. There are alternatives to shagging your bi guy. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Koaa2

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    Jan 03, 2009 3:08 AM GMT
    Sounds like fun, go for it!
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    Jan 04, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
    I would try to find somebody else to be your first. This guy is totally gonna mess with your mind. I think your first time should be something special. My first time was with my bf and we were together for 3 years.

    I have been with Bisexuals before and they always choose a woman in the end. Gay life is just not that easy. People always choose the path of least resistance. Esspecially Bisexual guys.

    Your just a fuck to him. You can't be friends with a fuckbuddy.

    Trust!
  • slasherOCD

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    Jan 04, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    Do it. People say that you can't be friends with a fuck buddy but you can. I've still friends with my previous fuck buddy and I have a few friends where things have happened and we're still friends. Trick is to just be honest about it.
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    Jan 06, 2009 4:13 PM GMT
    Just watch out that you don't start falling for him, 'cuz you'll be disappointed.

    Personally, I have a hard time separating sex from feelings. Found this out the hard way when I was playing with a bi dude for a while when I first came out. The sex was GREAT--hot and nasty and all over the house. Then one day he told me he thought he was falling in love with some chick from his work. I felt betrayed and even heartbroken and thought WTF?? What about us?? It was then I told myself NO more bi fuckbuds.
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    Jan 08, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
    Ottrdoomee saidJust watch out that you don't start falling for him, 'cuz you'll be disappointed.

    Personally, I have a hard time separating sex from feelings. Found this out the hard way when I was playing with a bi dude for a while when I first came out. The sex was GREAT--hot and nasty and all over the house. Then one day he told me he thought he was falling in love with some chick from his work. I felt betrayed and even heartbroken and thought WTF?? What about us?? It was then I told myself NO more bi fuckbuds.


    So you blame all bi men for your one bad experience. I would have sworn off gay men a long time ago if I had that attitude. I can't get jealous of a chick if I were fooling around with a bi-guy. I know he will always want to come back for some dick that she can't give.
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    Jan 08, 2009 11:23 PM GMT
    Thanks guys for the input. But well i desided to not go for the bi fuckbudy. I realized im the kind of guy who wants to be in love with the guy first. So i guess i will just have to wait for the right guy. But thanks anyway