How do I approach this?

  • Onemoresummer

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    Feb 23, 2014 11:00 AM GMT
    Yesterday at work this amazing hot guy came in and then I noticed he was with an old work college so I ran over and spoke to her briefly. He didn't say anything and we didn't get introduced.

    Anyway, he was obviously gay and super cute.

    I was thinking about FB messaging her and being like "hey good to see you yesterday. BTW, who was that hot guy you were with yesterday? Would he fancy catching up?"

    What do you think?
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    Feb 23, 2014 1:16 PM GMT
    I think you should have turned to him and quickly introduced yourself.
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    Feb 23, 2014 4:13 PM GMT
    Too late. It would be creepy/stalker to FB him.

    However, if you see him again, you could always strike up conversation by saying something like, "We met with 'X' the other day and I didn't get your name. I'm 'Y'." Then, get the conversation going by getting HIM talking about himself. (Occupation, Recreation, Family)
  • jo2hotbod

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    Feb 23, 2014 5:08 PM GMT
    Yah use your friend to find out if he'd be interested, it's a no brainer
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    Feb 23, 2014 5:12 PM GMT
    I'm usually that quiet friend. Just try waving next time. Over time he might warm up if he didn't see reason to at first. I advise approaching with minimal expectation of response.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 23, 2014 5:22 PM GMT
    Next time, immediately introduce yourself. Just extend your and and say "Hi, I'm Joe (your next bf ;-)"
  • Import

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    Feb 23, 2014 5:38 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidNext time, immediately introduce yourself. Just extend your and and say "Hi, I'm Joe (your next bf ;-)"

    smooth operator.
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    Feb 23, 2014 5:41 PM GMT
    Import said
    AMoonHawk saidNext time, immediately introduce yourself. Just extend your and and say "Hi, I'm Joe (your next bf ;-)"

    smooth operator.


    I have to admit, if a guy were to say that to me I couldn't help but hide a smile. I kind of like when guys take initiative to say they are interested, but be bold and daring all at the same time.
  • Onemoresummer

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    Feb 23, 2014 10:57 PM GMT
    Im just gonna message the friend....I guess i'll either get a yes or no and probably won't have to see them again for ages anyway
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    Feb 23, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    Onemoresummer saidIm just gonna message the friend....I guess i'll either get a yes or no and probably won't have to see them again for ages anyway


    First you ask if he's available. If he is, THEN go from there...
  • Onemoresummer

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    Feb 24, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    hellass said
    Onemoresummer saidIm just gonna message the friend....I guess i'll either get a yes or no and probably won't have to see them again for ages anyway


    First you ask if he's available. If he is, THEN go from there...


    Well if he's not then she'll say that, no point in dragging it out with questions that can be answered in one hit.